In Defense Of ASR's Behaviour

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Manju

@Drwho

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#191

Lots of people must have already said it but I Love You Too Dammit!!

Thanks for kindling a spark of hope in my heart...that all is well in paradise at least for the time being...

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trina2010

@trina2010

Rocker

+ 8

Posted: 13 years ago

#192

Originally posted by: ahttbar
Yes, a woman must always let her man jump her whenever he pleases. He can actually die if he stops.

that's not what I meant. No one is supporting Arnie for what he had done to Khushi, but today he wanted to be with her and to be honest Khushi did not protest. She was scared but that's natural for any new bride. Point to be noted was he stopped as soon as she asked him too. He got angry later for two reasons. The obvious one is he was truly frustrated sexually and second is that she said that she feels they are not completely married.
I understand he was angry because Khushi left him high and dry. I am also sure that he will come around as soon as he comes back to his senses.
I loved that no matter how irritated he was he held onto her in front of Dadi.

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ahttbar

@ahttbar

Beginner

Posted: 13 years ago

#193

Oops, I thought you too were joking (ref. the injustice bit)! I really didn't mean any offence. The sexual frustration can be understood. I would have understood if he was grumpy and irritable. Taking it out on Khushi like that is a whole different matter.

The complete lack of guilt in his thought process baffles me. He knows that he forced her into this marriage, and he knows that according to her beliefs and values, the marriage is not "complete". I would have expected him to be uncomfortable, peevish, at least somewhat guilty. Instead he acted as though Khushi was the unreasonable one. Not cool.

Originally posted by: trina2010
that's not what I meant. No one is supporting Arnie for what he had done to Khushi, but today he wanted to be with her and to be honest Khushi did not protest. She was scared but that's natural for any new bride. Point to be noted was he stopped as soon as she asked him too. He got angry later for two reasons. The obvious one is he was truly frustrated sexually and second is that she said that she feels they are not completely married.
I understand he was angry because Khushi left him high and dry. I am also sure that he will come around as soon as he comes back to his senses.
I loved that no matter how irritated he was he held onto her in front of Dadi.

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navyaalex8

@navyaalex8

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#194

No excuses this time Tanu. Appalling. Truly. My heart actually raced in fear and anxiety.

Imagine real life instead of reel life for a second. Someone shouts at you in front of everyone you know and love. Come here Right Now. In the same tone one uses to say "Heel dog". He is angry because you weren't fast enough obeying him. So he throws something at you. Wear it RIGHT NOW. Or else. You carefully edge around trying to keep from being semi naked in front of your abuser who you are thankful to (!) because atleast you were given the scraps you are wearing. He totally disregards what you are trying to say, trying to explain. He goes along with some farce engineered to manipulate you into getting into bed with him and make you feel guilty for not going along. Not willing? How dare you say No!!! I'll crush the furniture underneath my heel, all to show you how angry you make me, to make sure you get the unspoken but loud underlying message: See what I could do to you...

The threat of violence was real and imminent. My heart hasnt yet stopped thudding .I am appalled that this sort of violence and humiliation on is shown on primetime TV . I thought for a second if I'd wandered onto some sort of human trafficking documentary chapter . Atleast I am aware that this is psycho behaviour. I wonder how many impressionable young people are watching and think this sort of violence is what exists between two people in love . And the crowning glory??? Show Khushi smiling at the end...She's secretly enjoying all of this !!! Good going CVs!😡🤢

I suppose the innumerable women who are eve-teased and beyond, stalked, suffer violence and the threat of violence ought to be grateful that someone "loves" them enough to do all that to them... Khushis want to be manhandled because they secretly like it. That's the defence given by the ASRs of the world for their behaviour.

Sorry Tanu, I couldn't get beyond your thread's title and it's first line. Neither have I read any of the other posts under this thread because I dread they may all be in defence of ASR's behaviour. Will try to come back and make another attempt when my heart rate normalizes. Of course, this is just all my personal take, this one really shocked and terrified me inside out. I know i sound like one your SP nuns on a soapbox now but this one's too serious to find anything funny in it even if it makes me an uncool preachy behenji...I hope we will be still talking to each other after this, whatever my views right? 😃

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sps0114

@sps0114

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#195

I understand Khushi is all into rituals/riti riwaz...how can khushi be so oblivious that he loves her does love matter more than rituals to her??? Looking forward to see what is she going to do, talk to him reciprocate...I hope she finds the letter from Arnav's mom

Its now clear why Arnav does not believe in rituals/riti riwaz - what did her mom get but dhoka from her husband for following all the riti riwaz...coz her mom lacked the love in her relationship may be thats the reason Arnav gives more importance to feelings/love which have come up due to khushi

Khushi's character is confused for a person for whom rituals matter so much still she forgot for six months was continuing with her marriage based on the contract...why even hug Arnav...

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Chicane

@Chicane

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#196

I couldn't agree more!!! poor guy has been horny a v long time... so happy he didn't put her down whn Dadi came calling... now i know where Anji got her bad habit of tapko-fying unannounced😡

I LOVE YOU DAMMIT🤗

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clarissajohn

@clarissajohn

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#197

But what happens? He is left high and dry once again, because the production wale bhaiya who is supposed to transform AnJhali's room into ASR's after every shoot leaves behind the radha krishna murti that is supposed to be in crybaby's room, and not in Arnav's.😡😆

bwhahahahaha that was epic. yeah i too havent see that murthi there before

Tanu awesome post and made his anger justified

akhir kab thak

i fadaq ur for this post

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Genelia

@sweetieabhay

Explorer

Posted: 13 years ago

#198

We're back to square one! ASR was gng to confess to his ladylove on the terrace last time, And today he wants to give it a forevr meaning, Tht too on the terrace! Tht time asr left fuming becus of creepwa, Even ths time he left fuming! Last time, khushi tried talkn to asr after tht, Even this time she'll try to talk it out!
We bettr be careful phanwas, history's repeatn itself!

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borreg

@borreg

Inactive

Posted: 13 years ago

#199

I love your post damit...super duper hit like our arnav bitwa...

LOVED this the most - his blatant disregard of dadi's presence and his refusal to put Khushi down, any other SP hero in his place would have dropped the girl like a hot potato, but not ASR!😆

I was remembering Suraj and Ahem's reaction to this scene...🤣🤣
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