In Defense Of ASR's Behaviour

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Posted: 13 years ago
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He is sexually frustrated, there, its as simple as that!😆

This guy has had the hots for our Khushi for over a year now. And till date, he has shown a tremendous amount of self control, so much so that a lot of us actually had doubts regarding chotey's chotey. Heck, he could give Vishwamitra a run for his money!
Time and again, an army of cockblockers have been pouring water on ASR's dreams and aspirations. Lets see, shall we?

  • First hug: Took almost a year.

  • First kiss: How many failed attempts have been there? I have lost count, I am thinking at least 5 or 6 times bitwa has tried to kiss lady love and failed spectacularly.

  • Have Sex: 2 failed attempts, maybe third time will be the charm for bitwa.

Bottom line is he was horny as hell. Every act of his screamed desperation, from summoning her to his room, demanding she change into the lehenga ASAP, decorating the room at record speed and not forgetting to put the cheesy rose heart in the middle of the bed and wifey's favourite fairy lights, to getting her on that bed, ready to finally put an end to an year's worth of chotey not getting lucky.

But what happens? He is left high and dry once again, because the production wale bhaiya who is supposed to transform AnJhali's room into ASR's after every shoot leaves behind the radha krishna murti that is supposed to be in crybaby's room, and not in Arnav's.😡😆

Khushi who is all about the rituals and customs suddenly remembers that their wedding is kinda half baked and asks him to stop. And the man finally snaps. Can you blame him really? He is all hot and bothered and suddenly he realizes chotey ain't getting any relief even tonight. He was so close, so close dammit. So he loses it. That infamous temper shows up and he drags her to the terrace. At this point, I was thinking why the hell was he not taking her to a temple where a priest who knows the scriptures is present. But little did I know that by the end of the episode I will realize why the terrace was chosen. Anyway, moving on, in a move that was utterly philmy, Arnav makes his very own fire, picks her up, proceeds to complete the pheras, 'cause its one thing when someone else cockblocks, but entirely another when your own wife, who you thought was as eager as you, does the deed. 😆

Khushi bitiya had to recite their full ramkatha just to make it easier for Dadi to shred her to pieces later on. But what I LOVED about this scene is his blatant disregard of dadi's presence and his refusal to put Khushi down, any other SP hero in his place would have dropped the girl like a hot potato, but not ASR!😆

Everything up until this point I was expecting, I found some bits hilarious, I was sniggering at bitwa's plight but then came in the shocker. Oh how the roles have switched now. A year ago from now on, this man didn't believe in feelings, and today he was the one asking her if some rituals mean more than their feelings. She shot back with her own query "What matters to you? The rituals don't, the wedding doesn't, then what the hell matters to you?", and he drops the ultimate bomb, "THAT I LOVE YOU DAMMIT!". There, in your face KKGSR! This is exactly how I had always imagined the confession to be, a spur of the moment thing, in the middle of an argument, 'cause that is just how Arnav and Khushi roll. And its nothing short of poetic justice that he said ILU DAMMIT to her on the terrace, where he intended to confess his feelings the first time around. Its a full circle finally.

The unabashed joy on her face was truly heart touching! The ball is in your court now Khushi, he has done his bit, he has handed his heart to you on a platter, now you get to do what you please with it.

And to all those who are bothered about bitwa's lack of respect for her wishes, worry not, he will come around soon enough. Right now, the man feels deprived of action, what he needs is a cold shower. After that he will calm down enough to ponder back on her words, Dadi will add further fuel to the fire, and he will give her the wedding she deserves, that much is certain.

Random Musings:

  • Sanaya Irani, my girl crush on you just intensified.
  • Arnav bitwa, you sure have great taste in clothes, backless lehenga and you don't hand her the dupatta either. Despo kahin ka!😆
  • Why don't Arnav Khushi get to do aarti together? Iss partiality ko kya naam doon?
  • Akash, "Hum khud bacchey hai?", not cute man, not cute.
  • I am uber happy the SR did not happen. Kitna cheesy sa setup tha. Eww, please.
  • "Kitney pherey karney parengey? 7 ya 8?" Bwahahaha epic!😆
  • Gauti jee, what is with the similarities between your shows? Aaj ka terrace wala forced pheras scene looks eerily similar to your other show on Rang channel.😈

With that said and done, I shall go back and watch the last scene again DAMMIT.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Res.

Sorry Jen, I didn't want to beat you to it... Sowwie 😔

Tanuwa, I LOVE YOU DAMMIT 🤗

Firstly Tanu what a dhamaakedaar beginning to the week. Man!! was I surprised with his intent to actually go ahead with the SR, I was mighty surprised they actually progressed to where they did. I thought the brakes on their SR would come much sooner, but hey 4 Lions is all about surprises an today was No exception!!

Poor Bitwa is so frustrated it is not even funny. 😆 He pounced on naniji's bachche program faster than lightning. 🤣 I couldn't understand Khushi's constipated expression there... 😕

So she had a full day to be ready for this purported SR, so why did she not raise any issues prior to the nth minute, me asks??? 😕 Why give bitwa a KLPD?? Does she not know her hubby yet, that he doesn't make empty threats?? He had every intention of carrying out his plans, no wonder he was so pissed. He least expected her to chicken out at the last minute like that. 😲

The terrace truly brought them back a full circle. Terrace confrontation of sorts alright, with a blazing fire to boot. 😳 But agree, totally philmy...Trust daadi to listen to the whole Ramkatha by Khushi, but what I did actually love was the way he held on to Khushi, not a man to be stopped in his tracks. 😆 He was on a mission but was he pissed with Khushi for bringing up the rasams repeatedly or what!!!

What a change has come over this guy, the man who used to run from his feelings was today openly questioning his, "what about OUR FEELINGS????" Boy has he come a long way from those nafrat filled days...I LOVE YOU DAMMIT 😍

Loved Khushi's pure joy in hearing her darling husband admit once again to his feelings for her!! But I said too late girl, now get ready to face daadi dearest's wrath for bringing up the pheras & rasams 😲 But hubby won't let you down this time, will give you your dream wedding that you've been angling for so long... but before all that, we sure have to face some fireworks from daadi!!!

Tanu, I concur with you on every one of your random musings.

Loved your post again. 👏
Edited by pixiegirl - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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First things first, I LOVE YOU DAMMIT. Uff thank god I am totally vella today, I need to gush about all of this too you and I loved everything about todays episode tbh! Sanaya Irani is freaking hot and my girl crush has so intensified too today. I dont need to say much about Sobti baba, uhhh he is life yet he is he death of me. Okay now coming back to the real deal I totally agree with everything you said!

Arnav Singh Raizada's chotey has been having the worse time of his life for almost the past year or so. I mean cmon, when you've fallen for a girl and that too for such a freaking beaitful one, who wouldnt be sexually frusrated, I mean this must be the 2387489274832 attempt to get intimate with her and he isnt thinking from his brain, he's simply thinking from his chotey.If ASR, supposedly would have been all nice about it, that would have just been character assasination. Plus. Khushi herself had shown that shes ready to do it and when hormones play in, you dont really see anything else so he went along with it but then BAM she herself cockblocks while getting him turned on. Its all sexual frustration, I mean imagine, shes looking sexy, and hes just left there being turned on. Pure sexual frustration.

Albeit mad, he still went through with Khushi's wishes and thought of a solution which would solve things for Khushi and they could just go along with it and when he does, this woman is still not satisfied with it and then spurs out all the frustration into the BIG "I LOVE YOU DAMMIT" LOL I always imagined that the ILUs would come out in anger or frustration with these two and thats what exactly happened and the way it happened totally stayed true to how Arnav and Khushis relationship has always been.

Coming to Khushi, no, I dont blame her at all this time. I could understand Khushis hesitation because we know Khushi has always been the traditional type and she wants things to go the way it has always been and those are her own wishes, so I am kinda glad Khushi took a stand and voiced her thoughts and did not give in just for Arnav otherwise it would have kind of ruined it! I feel that she also needed some sort of assurance deep down or something was missing too her and with the toothy grin she had at the end, I think shes got that assurance and may whole heartedly be willing to do the deed but obviously Daadi dearest will now cockblock a sexually frustrated Khushi too.

Pointing out to tits and bits, I too loved Arnav not budging when Daadi came, LOL I think the dude was so frustrated that he didnt give a shit plus its Arnav, he isnt like any other SP hero, hiding behind his mothers palllu when hes caught. They stayed true to him. Even the ILU, which I cannot stop raving about, was totally done while staying true to him, cause THAT is how ASR does it. The irony was pretty epic to see, because there when Khushi used to give a bhashan about feelings and dil se sochna, Arnie would always be all "Dimaag" and now when Arnie is all feelings Khushi is all "Traditions and Reeti Riwaz".

No, I dont think ASR was nice or he may have been the best hubby in the world today or anything. I dont really support anyone or anything, because when we are talking about these characters, they are all flawed and have their own personality so they stuck to who they are and reacted the way they should have! Nothing is really right or I dont think you can blame anyone because thats just who they are.

I am totally waiting for tomorrow and expect cockblocking by daadi at its best! Khushis toothy grin have me some hope, but again I shall watch with zero expectations and hopefully enjoy at the end. LOL I dont want that cheesy setup either! I think that when they do it, it should be totally unplanned but hey, I cant decide so we're just gonna have to eat what the creatives feed us 😆

Awesome post-wa jaani! You said it all! 😃
Edited by -Jen- - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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ROFL! Amazing post!😛😛👏👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: pixiegirl

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Sorry Jen, I didn't want to beat you it... Sowwie 😔

LOL Geets I shall MU you now 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I love you Dammit!

I love everything you have written here! Bas.
Edited by Rabba-Ve-Delena - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I couldn't agree more! 🤗
That is the exact thing i was saying in my other post!
YOU JUST NAILED IT!
And yeah ASR is sexually frustrated! Big deal? I was wondering what was taking him so long? 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Very ASR like!! He knows he loves her, he wants her, and in his mind he is married to her...F*** everything and everyone else. That is his character sketch...and I am glad they are staying consistent to it. He is upset that Khush i gives so much damn about everyone's wishes and their interpretations...but that is their most basic distinction. He doesn't give a damn about society, and She lives in the most strictest of confines dictated by society, yet they love each other to madness!! that is what makes this story different and better than other shows. I for one am glad and likes today's episode....and I loved the confession...its exactly how I have always imagined it to be!!😳

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sistah...You nailed it🤗

I LOVE YOU DAMMIT😉..You know I do☺️

And I faraq your post!!😃


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Horny alright. The amount of self control the guy had to keep would have turned any other person into a Jedi Master. Lol

May the 'force' be with you :d

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