Clearing some misconceptions about redemption - Page 17

Originally posted by: charlotte74

Khushi is not a child. She need not sit there getting beaten up as if she is helpless.She is a 23 year old woman who wanted to go against dowry during Payal's first marriage. She stood and up and decided to work when their family was in need of money. She started her own dabba business. She single handedly hoodwinked 6-7 kidnappers and saved her husband from getting burnt. She is intelligent, brave and strong. So she need not stay with mean ASR.

She could tell everyone about the contract marriage and leave him if she thinks that he has not apologized to her for the way he has treated her in the past.

1. Her parents will understand. If they came round to their sudden marriage they will come round to this as well.

2. It doesn't matter what happens to Payal. She is a grown up and she is very well capable of taking care of her own life.

3. She should call his bluff about putting Buaji and her parents to the street

4. She need not give a damn to what Hitler Dadi thinks about her

5. She should tell mami to stop calling her "phatti saadi". She is not even her frigging mother-in-law

Why has she taken it on puny shoulders that she should be the one to please everyone around her and change a complicated man like ASR? She should just leave. Why is she putting up with all the crap around her?

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

I'm sorry to jump in. @ bold I don't think he is redeeming. He hasn't even realized what he has done. And until you don't realize what wrong you have done can you really redeem yourself? All his actions right now are out of love not because he is redeeming.

Originally posted by: laddoo598

To each his own I guess. What is redemption? To make up for past follies right? That is exactly what he is doing right now. When he married her, he vowed to never give her the respect she deserves as his wife, and he is eating his words right now when he fights against dadi each time the woman tries to bully Khushi into submission. He has told her numerous times on her face that he doesn't want to see her ever again, and now he is trying everything in his power to get her to stay with him forever. This is redemption. At least I see it as redemption. Yes, I agree that had the creatives put in a scene similar to his breakdown after he witnessed the terrace fiasco, then this confusion wouldn't have arose in the first place.

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

Answer to your bold: Because she is IN LOVE! She's HOPELESSLY in love with a man who has RUINED her life, her dreams, her respect, her EVERYTHING! Now that's her BIGGEST MISTAKE! Isn't it? She should pay for it and she's paying badly.

Originally posted by: laddoo598

To each his own I guess. What is redemption? To make up for past follies right? That is exactly what he is doing right now. When he married her, he vowed to never give her the respect she deserves as his wife, and he is eating his words right now when he fights against dadi each time the woman tries to bully Khushi into submission. He has told her numerous times on her face that he doesn't want to see her ever again, and now he is trying everything in his power to get her to stay with him forever. This is redemption. At least I see it as redemption. Yes, I agree that had the creatives put in a scene similar to his breakdown after he witnessed the terrace fiasco, then this confusion wouldn't have arose in the first place.

Originally posted by: laddoo598

To each his own I guess. What is redemption? To make up for past follies right? That is exactly what he is doing right now. When he married her, he vowed to never give her the respect she deserves as his wife, and he is eating his words right now when he fights against dadi each time the woman tries to bully Khushi into submission. He has told her numerous times on her face that he doesn't want to see her ever again, and now he is trying everything in his power to get her to stay with him forever. This is redemption. At least I see it as redemption. Yes, I agree that had the creatives put in a scene similar to his breakdown after he witnessed the terrace fiasco, then this confusion wouldn't have arose in the first place.

Originally posted by: Didikisaut

It is not just that he even blamed Khushi for all miseries in his life and started to blackmail to get her back. so he has not learned a thing.

He doesn't feel an iota of shame or guilt for what he has done in the past in the name of ego and MU. Firstly it was needed that he neutralizes the effect of insult and then start replacing the old memories with new ones.

Originally posted by: AyeReKhushi

I'll add one more note...it doesn't feel like a redemption track because Khushi is still being humiliated now.

If it was proper redemption/wooing, we would be enjoying it along with Khushi. Why was there a need to drag Dadi into the story out of the blue, just so Arnav can jump in and defend Khushi while she gets humiliated unnecessarily. Arnav is redeeming himself...but once again, it comes at Khushi's expense.

These writers will destroy Khushi's character depth and growth; put her through every humiliation and pain and forget it the next moment; make her act irrational one minute, mature the next; make her the most inconsistent and disrespected person on the show; they'll make her do whatever it takes to make the other characters look good. She's their favorite punching bag. These writers suck...that's the only way I can put it mildly, without saying what I really think about them.