Clearing some misconceptions about redemption - Page 15

Originally posted by: Rockerchic

I can't make you see it my way. I've failed as a debater. That's alright.

He still has more to do but all i'm saying is that this is a start. This is redemption for me. We have a long way to go yet. I don't disagree.

Originally posted by: rima

bang on. this is my biggest problem. in the faraq padta hai time or when he said sorry he felt her pain hy not now when it is needed. or is it a taken for granted feeling coming in

Originally posted by: sarunfan4ever

Earlier when ever he was sorry and during farak padta hain track he was attracted to her and still he felt guilty and now when he is in love with her there is not an iota of realization and guilty at all😕

Originally posted by: zenjoe

Rima, Rima, Rima!! Kya karoon main tumhaara!😆 I am in awe of your clarity of thought and the simple yet powerful way with which you nail the issue EVERYTIME! Take a bow for this post!👏

I just read your post and without seeing any more responses I am replying straight away; don't need to peek into them because nothing will match the brilliance of what you said.

You rendered me speechless; I thought I'll bring out the analogy of a mother loving her kid in a way that can either make him/her strong or weak and what do I see? You have already mentioned that in the later part of your post😃

So no opinions from my side; only that you spoke my mind completely!

Originally posted by: rima

good quetion y dear

welcome to the club of the confused IPK fans😊

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

Amazing post Rima. True "redemption" is one of the most misunderstood word in this forum. If someone wants redemption people assume they wanna see Arnav crying, Arnav hurting himself, Arnav doing this, Arnav doing that. If that's the case, then YES I wanna see Arnav crying, hurting himself.

If he can cry his eyes out for Di then yes I wanna see him crying for KHushi.

If he can hurt Khushi for no fault of hers then yes I wanna see him hurting himself for his mistakes.

If he can beg his Di to not give him silent treatment then yes I wanna see him begging Khushi to forgive him.

People who think he has suffered enough, so redemption is not needed.

I think redemption is needed and that too intense one. After saving this life and putting her life into danger, she couldn't get love and respect from his man and got blamed for everything once again. I don't think he suffered enough. If he had suffered enough, he would've realized her importance and not accused her for Shyam's actions and said nasty things he did that day. So, he needs to suffer more!

Khushi has made mistakes too!

yes she has and I think she is suffering too. She's suffering everyday.

Khushi herself doesn't want it.

Khushi herself didn't want the accusations he threw her way. Khushi herself didn't want the pain he gave her. Khushi herself didn't want the contract marriage he forced her into. There are many other things Khushi herself didn't want but he did them. So why is this an exception?

If all these can be done by Arnav for others and against her will, I think now isn't any exception. He can do them once again. He NEEDS TO REDEEM himself badly. The intense realization is needed. If not he's standing up for her and is making her smile, it's good for him. He loves her her so all these things are natural. But his recent actions don't justify his past actions or make up for his past actions. Until he doesn't realize his mistakes and doesn't apologize, there's no redemption from his side!

Originally posted by: rima

correct imagine if asr sai sorry to khushi after she has had two or three kids😊