Clearing some misconceptions about redemption - Page 16

Originally posted by: arhi-sarun-fan

Exactly you have to apply medicine when the wound is still fresh, I hope you are getting it.

absolutely

Originally posted by: ogive_nab

Lol, i have so many confusions about this show..but most of times i had confused when i saw just last nite ArHi hugged passionately but instantly next morning they again started fighting for silly matter😲.😆.i would be distracted..n thought" golmal hai bhai sab golmal hai"!!🤣 After all these i love this show n ArHi a lot of.😳

Thanks Rima. I don't think we can look forward to any track until Cvs fix their previous mistakes. There's a lot to be fixed. The main two important things I wanna see first are more importance to Khushi's inner feelings both about her parents and Arnav and Arnav feeling guilty at the least!

Originally posted by: rima

exactly my point! ghar ki murgi dal barabar

I dont know Rima with their NAYI SOCH thought, its our baby we better know how to handle our baby they are assassinating beautiful story, its essence and in process also the characters😡 I have given upon it now

Originally posted by: rima

even more confusing

asr threatens khushi to come back

they fight about contract marriage

and now she is antcipating and getting teased about suhaag raat😊

its a very good point.😆 Iss unpredictable couple ko kya naam doon??🤣

WHAT MORE PROOF DOES 4 LIONS WANT THAN THIS THREAD

Hey rima, nice topic.

I am one of those who firmly believe that actions speak louder than words. Not that I don't want to see a scene between Arnav and Khushi where he does apologize to her for not trusting her, for marrying her forcibly, but I would have honestly felt cheated if that was all the writers would have shown.

I much like the approach they are taking right now. I see him redeeming himself when he goes out of his way to bring a smile on her face, I see him redeeming himself when he fights against his sorry excuse of a grandmother to defend her, I see him redeeming himself when he makes it clear to everyone that as his wife and as the daughter in law of the house she demands respect and she has the authority to do as she pleases, I see him redeeming himself when I see Arnav-My-Ego-Is-Bigger-Than-My-You-Know-What-Singh Raizada sitting in a cupboard thinking it would cheer Khushi up.

What I am trying to get at is that a verbal apology on its own has a very wham bam thank you ma'am feeling to it. Let him prove it with his actions first, words can follow later. And I do believe words will follow. He has already admitted not trusting her was the biggest mistake of his life in front of her and nani (this IMO is better than admitting his folly to her in private), he has apologized to her for hurting her, and the last and final apology will follow soon, I hope. It would be the perfect closure to this godforsaken MU track.

But before that, I would really want to see a scene where he realizes how much he has hurt her, it should have happened by now, wonder why the CVs skipped over this, and it would honestly seen odd now if it happened out of the blue now, the right should to show this would have been immediately after the whole Shyam fiasco. But better late than never, maybe he can hear Khushi talking about the forced wedding and all to her parents, or Khushi can confide in him directly, anything to get that realization dealt with. It would do wonders to the story and plus, Barun Sobti is out of this world when it comes to doing angsty scenes. (random phangirl alert 😆)

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

Amazing post Rima. True "redemption" is one of the most misunderstood word in this forum. If someone wants redemption people assume they wanna see Arnav crying, Arnav hurting himself, Arnav doing this, Arnav doing that. If that's the case, then YES I wanna see Arnav crying, hurting himself.

If he can cry his eyes out for Di then yes I wanna see him crying for KHushi.

If he can hurt Khushi for no fault of hers then yes I wanna see him hurting himself for his mistakes.

If he can beg his Di to not give him silent treatment then yes I wanna see him begging Khushi to forgive him.

People who think he has suffered enough, so redemption is not needed.

I think redemption is needed and that too intense one. After saving his life and putting her life into danger, she couldn't get love and respect from this man and got blamed for everything once again. I don't think he suffered enough. If he had suffered enough, he would've realized her importance and not accused her for Shyam's actions and said nasty things he did that day. So, he needs to suffer more!

Khushi has made mistakes too!

yes she has and I think she is suffering too. She's suffering everyday.

Khushi herself doesn't want it.

Khushi herself didn't want the accusations he threw her way. Khushi herself didn't want the pain he gave her. Khushi herself didn't want the contract marriage he forced her into. There are many other things Khushi herself didn't want but he did them. So why is this an exception?

If all these can be done by Arnav for others and against her will, I think now isn't any exception. He can do them once again. He NEEDS TO REDEEM himself badly. The intense realization is needed. If now he's standing up for her and is making her smile, it's good for him. He loves her her so all these things are natural. But his recent actions don't justify his past actions or make up for his past actions. Until he doesn't realize his mistakes and doesn't apologize, there's no redemption from his side!

U nailed it Kirann. He hurt himself with broken bangle earlier remember when he felt he hurt her(I think during the chasing of ambulance and pagh phere). When he is sensible to his sister's pain then why not Khushi whom he claims as one of the two most important people in his life.

Originally posted by: laddoo598

Hey rima, nice topic.

I am one of those who firmly believe that actions speak louder than words. Not that I don't want to see a scene between Arnav and Khushi where he does apologize to her for not trusting her, for marrying her forcibly, but I would have honestly felt cheated if that was all the writers would have shown.

I much like the approach they are taking right now. I see him redeeming himself when he goes out of his way to bring a smile on her face, I see him redeeming himself when he fights against his sorry excuse of a grandmother to defend her, I see him redeeming himself when he makes it clear to everyone that as his wife and as the daughter in law of the house she demands respect and she has the authority to do as she pleases, I see him redeeming himself when I see Arnav-My-Ego-Is-Bigger-Than-My-You-Know-What-Singh Raizada sitting in a cupboard thinking it would cheer Khushi up.

What I am trying to get at is that a verbal apology on its own has a very wham bam thank you ma'am feeling to it. Let him prove it with his actions first, words can follow later. And I do believe words will follow. He has already admitted not trusting her was the biggest mistake of his life in front of her and nani (this IMO is better than admitting his folly to her in private), he has apologized to her for hurting her, and the last and final apology will follow soon, I hope. It would be the perfect closure to this godforsaken MU track.

But before that, I would really want to see a scene where he realizes how much he has hurt her, it should have happened by now, wonder why the CVs skipped over this, and it would honestly seen odd now if it happened out of the blue now, the right should to show this would have been immediately after the whole Shyam fiasco. But better late than never, maybe he can hear Khushi talking about the forced wedding and all to her parents, or Khushi can confide in him directly, anything to get that realization dealt with. It would do wonders to the story and plus, Barun Sobti is out of this world when it comes to doing angsty scenes. (random phangirl alert 😆)

Khushi is not a child. She need not sit there getting beaten up as if she is helpless.She is a 23 year old woman who wanted to go against dowry during Payal's first marriage. She stood and up and decided to work when their family was in need of money. She started her own dabba business. She single handedly hoodwinked 6-7 kidnappers and saved her husband from getting burnt. She is intelligent, brave and strong. So she need not stay with mean ASR.

She could tell everyone about the contract marriage and leave him if she thinks that he has not apologized to her for the way he has treated her in the past.

1. Her parents will understand. If they came round to their sudden marriage they will come round to this as well.

2. It doesn't matter what happens to Payal. She is a grown up and she is very well capable of taking care of her own life.

3. She should call his bluff about putting Buaji and her parents to the street

4. She need not give a damn to what Hitler Dadi thinks about her

5. She should tell mami to stop calling her "phatti saadi". She is not even her frigging mother-in-law

Why has she taken it on puny shoulders that she should be the one to please everyone around her and change a complicated man like ASR? She should just leave. Why is she putting up with all the crap around her?