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Sia

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Posted: 13 years ago

#1111

Originally posted by: tanthya
Do U realize that U are contradicting urself here ??

That's the thing - when you're in a matrimonial bond, all of those obstacles can be overcome. If one person has a change of heart, you work to make the marriage work

when people are married. If you discover your spouse is cheating on you, you should chuck them out. Affairs are, and always will be, inexcusable to me.

they obviously have no concept of what a marriage is and they do not value it. So they either need to be put straight, or the marriage needs to be ended.

What I'm trying to say is that people should only enter a marriage if they are 100% sure of what it entails - of the commitment, of the promises, all of that. So if someone breaks that commitment by having an affair, if someone doesn't value the marriage or the promises they made, what kind of marriage is it? It's not a topic to be taken lightly; marriage has its great points, but there is hardship too. The biggest example we're all witnessing is the hardship that Arnav & Khushi are going through. Arnav learnt to value their marriage, he fell in love with Khushi, and now they're trying to overcome every struggle together. Now they've learnt the true value of marriage. Before that, a word said by anyone, misunderstandings got in the way. Trust is another key aspect of marriage or relationships in general - if there is no trust, it doesn't matter how much you love the person, the marriage or relationship won't work.

& yaar, I don't even realise what day of the week it is today. I blame my overworked brain 😛

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tanthya

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Posted: 13 years ago

#1112

Originally posted by: .Ghausia.

What I'm trying to say is that people should only enter a marriage if they are 100% sure of what it entails - of the commitment, of the promises, all of that. So if someone breaks that commitment by having an affair, if someone doesn't value the marriage or the promises they made, what kind of marriage is it? It's not a topic to be taken lightly; marriage has its great points, but there is hardship too. The biggest example we're all witnessing is the hardship that Arnav & Khushi are going through. Arnav learnt to value their marriage, he fell in love with Khushi, and now they're trying to overcome every struggle together. Now they've learnt the true value of marriage. Before that, a word said by anyone, misunderstandings got in the way. Trust is another key aspect of marriage or relationships in general - if there is no trust, it doesn't matter how much you love the person, the marriage or relationship won't work.

& yaar, I don't even realise what day of the week it is today. I blame my overworked brain 😛

What if temptation's happens afterwards, G ?? look at Shyam_Anjali marriage..it was steady for 3 years ..nothing rocking it and then comes Khushi and marriage goes for a toss..

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Arhimaniac

@Arhimaniac

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Posted: 13 years ago

#1113

Originally posted by: b.sarika2

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Sia

@SiasCreations

Dazzler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#1114

Originally posted by: sarunrocks

I din get it..But i m happy with other spoilers😃

From what I've read, this is all I can decipher - it's all about remarriage first of all.

The first line seems to be referring to whether it will happen (maybe suhaag raat or remarriage?) or whether a 'dushman' (Dadi, Shyam) will get in the way.

The second line - will love conquer everything, or will they hide their feelings once again? I guess that's referring to whether Dadi will get in the way of their relationship or not.

The third line is maybe saying whether they will be successful or it'll end in tears.

The last line is the easiest - will everyone accept remarriage happily, or will Arnav & Khushi have to do the phere in secret?

It's what I think anyway. My Hindi isn't great so I'm not sure.

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joyvg

@joyvg

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Posted: 13 years ago

#1115

Originally posted by: .Ghausia.

What I'm trying to say is that people should only enter a marriage if they are 100% sure of what it entails - of the commitment, of the promises, all of that. So if someone breaks that commitment by having an affair, if someone doesn't value the marriage or the promises they made, what kind of marriage is it? It's not a topic to be taken lightly; marriage has its great points, but there is hardship too. The biggest example we're all witnessing is the hardship that Arnav & Khushi are going through. Arnav learnt to value their marriage, he fell in love with Khushi, and now they're trying to overcome every struggle together. Now they've learnt the true value of marriage. Before that, a word said by anyone, misunderstandings got in the way. Trust is another key aspect of marriage or relationships in general - if there is no trust, it doesn't matter how much you love the person, the marriage or relationship won't work.

& yaar, I don't even realise what day of the week it is today. I blame my overworked brain 😛

Gasui😃 --I am not sure whether all think of 100% commitment for sure when they get married ..but with their own values they just carry on making it to 101% & I think fate plays it game too & the so called modern thinking plays its part now adays !!! -thats my thinking !!

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Sia

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Posted: 13 years ago

#1116

Originally posted by: tanthya

What if temptation's happens afterwards, G ?? look at Shyam_Anjali marriage..it was steady for 3 years ..nothing rocking it and then comes Khushi and marriage goes for a toss..

If you value a marriage you will not succumb to temptation. If you are attracted to someone else you will try your level best to stay away from them. Did Shyam do that with Khushi? No. He still pursued her, showing that he didn't value his marriage with Anjali. Then again, in our religion you can have up to 4 wives (Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, did), but that's only if you are able to treat all of them equally and provide for them all.

Originally posted by: joyvg
Gasui😃 --I am not sure whether all think of 100% commitment for sure when they get married ..but with their own values they just carry on making it to 101% & I think fate plays it game too & the so called modern thinking plays its part now adays !!! -thats my thinking !!

Yeah, it is about someone's own values as well. I'm a huge believer in fate and destiny, so whatever happens will happen! If your destiny is such that it's hellbent on you not being with somebody, fate will play its hand.

Edited by .Ghausia. - 13 years ago

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S003

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Posted: 13 years ago

#1117

Originally posted by: lalsunvid

Thats a really good view...it will be actually a life \ redemption chance given to Shaym by Anjali...the way this Shyam-Anjali equation will play now in serial is also important... But...Daljeet-Abbhas make good pair.😊..!!! I like them...

By default Anjali will give Shyam a chance, but it will be a chance laden with tests ( even though she wil not know she is testing him) it will be her opening her eyes... Daljeet - Abbhas rock!!! but it will be more amazing when Anjali realizes she has been taken for a ride... she will shatter... and rise up as ASR!!!! Anjali Singh Raizada!!! Then GOD HELP SHYAM!!!!

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TheFaerieQueen

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Posted: 13 years ago

#1118

Originally posted by: Arhimaniac

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tanthya

@tanthya

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Posted: 13 years ago

#1119

Originally posted by: joyvg

Gasui😃 --I am not sure whether all think of 100% commitment for sure when they get married ..but with their own values they just carry on making it to 101% & I think fate plays it game too & the so called modern thinking plays its part now adays !!! -thats my thinking !!

n ur own willingness..I suppose