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Posted: 13 years ago
Tants, Bush, Joy and everyone else here , bye for now...see you tmrw. Last one week has been really hectic, hope to catch up in next couple of days. 🤗
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: .Ghausia.


If you value a marriage you will not succumb to temptation. If you are attracted to someone else you will try your level best to stay away from them. Did Shyam do that with Khushi? No. He still pursued her, showing that he didn't value his marriage with Anjali. Then again, in our religion you can have up to 4 wives (Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, did), but that's only if you are able to treat all of them equally and provide for them all.

Yeah, it is about someone's own values as well. I'm a huge believer in fate and destiny, so whatever happens will happen! If your destiny is such that it's hellbent on you not being with somebody, fate will play its hand.



G,


it is not just about values, It is also about feelings..For a marriage to succeed ..it has to be evolving, dynamic..if it stagnates .then understand it is the death of it...Temptation's cannot be turned off like a faucet... it ahs to be battled constantly, controlled ...but what if there is a moemntary lapse..whta shdu one do then..work for the marriage cos the partner is remorseful or walkout of it..
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: tanthya



n ur own willingness..I suppose


and your own willingness for Definite !!!-that highlights of marrige 😉
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: b.sarika2

Tants, Bush, Joy and everyone else here , bye for now...see you tmrw. Last one week has been really hectic, hope to catch up in next couple of days. 🤗



Bye 🤗 Sarika ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
yaar..lalaan kyun..
Rocky is handsome..bus sirf thodi speech therapy deni padegi usko😆
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: tanthya



G,


it is not just about values, It is also about feelings..For a marriage to succeed ..it has to be evolving, dynamic..if it stagnates .then understand it is the death of it...Temptation's cannot be turned off like a faucet... it ahs to be battled constantly, controlled ...but what if there is a moemntary lapse..whta shdu one do then..work for the marriage cos the partner is remorseful or walkout of it..


As you said before, your willingness plays a big part of it.
I understand your meaning, and I feel for some aspects of it we'll have to agree to disagree. As far as the 'momentary lapse' goes, it depends on how many times it's happened, or how long for. If the partner is remorseful, and it only happened once, then of course the marriage should be worked on. When I say I'm against affairs, I don't mean an accidental one-time lapse of judgement. However, if there is more than one 'momentary lapse', then I guess that's fate's way of telling you that it's just not going to work.

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