IP REDUX; In Pursuit of Wifey(ness) - Page 17

Originally posted by: tejuvijay

What do Arnav really Want? was the question that provoked my thoughts in todays episode!

Let me see if i can discover what i felt he want at the end of this post!

Does he want Kushi to work for him,does he want kushi to do chores for him,does he want kushi to feel suffocated,frustrated with him, does he want kushi to take revenge on him, does he want kushi to toruure him???

Well, Annswer is NO..a Big No indeed!

Arnav wants Kushi to understand the feelings he has for her, he wants her to sense the respect and dignity he holds for her likes,dislikes,values,morals,lifestyle,forgivingness and selflessness,he wants her to feel secured in his company, he wants her to experience the womanhood in her which does dhak-dhak when in his proximity, he wants her to realise the pleasure he seeks in her smile and craziness, he wants her to be a solid pillar at times of adversity, he wants her to know he actually loves to be with her, he wants her to consider no matter what he always will be her anchor sharing joy,happiness,sorrow,misery,he wants her to notice the Divine guiding factor that brought them near not once but repeatedly and still its continuing to bring affinity within them and finally wants her to accept him as Hers as he did his part to himself on declaring her to be his Soul mate,Other half of each other that completes each other. Now babuwaa is all bent on yelling loud to the world about his feelings of love for her!

Is he taking the right path?

He's on a learning curve..he exactly knows what he wants! So for him its been a trial and error! He flips, he's correcting,he wins..hes building on..Surely the destination is clear and he's using all his capabilities in reaching there! His journey to her Heart!!!

He understood Kushi loves him dearly, she can never ever cause problem in his life rather chooses to move away if she can cause a slightest pain to anyone and especially to him, she has high morals,values and likes to live life according to her moral compass, she loves simple things to money,fame and richness, she give most importance to relations,toping relation with him and his Di,She can't bear to put him in a situation to choose between his Di and her, she listens to him,she looks for him at times of adversity,she feels lost with his proximity, she's hurt far to heal with his attitude but forgiven his deeds, she is a woman of self-respect,never likes to confide her true feelings with anyone, she started to open with him and when again he cut the trust to confide into pieces that she in actual is alone at heart! He understood her true face..that behind that smile..theres pain which she's denying to share with anyone and wants to move away from him in the name of contract..

With this gained knowledge about her, he wants to make her his completely by redoing things which might build the lost trust in her..hes taking baby steps,not missing any opportunity to touch her heart which right now is closed out of fear of losing him again!

He learnt Chotte or acha bacha arnav is not Kushis Man but his ASR avatar is what she fell for and she brought Arnav back to life!

The strategy he took is Combo offer of ASRs attitude,arrogance,style with Arnavs sensibilities,love and gentleness..a Mega Combo Drool Worthy ASR who Kushi equally We are not able to control our dhadkanen every time he does something naughty!😳

How Is it with kushi?

She's lost! She has lost parents, she feels she's the cause of misery of her beloved ones, she wants to move away from her love..

Does she know whats the cost of this..yes, she do know it! She knows what it takes to move away from her Arnavji, she knows her life will be of no meaning if he's not with her, she knows she will be a anchor less ship in a ocean, she knows she will be a fish away from water...Still, she chooses the pain than to give pain to his loved Di , she can't take she being responsible for Anjalis shattered love/dreams, rift between her Arnav and Di..She keeps seeking her constant support DM to give her support to face this and shares her anguish towards departing post 12 days from her LOVE!

Is she learning?

Yeaa..yeaa..Shes noting! she's concisely taking it slow and steady! She's learning that unknowingly her life is and revolving around Arnav,his happiness,his needs,she's learning that he's the first person she looks upon, she's learning whats the meaning of her dhak-dhak, she's rejoicing the new awkwardness thats between him and her,She's enjoying the closeness..but she's scared to accept..she has broken multiple times and she feels she can't take another blow! So retorting to Antics in her own way to run away!

Now coming to the episode, i will touch the scenes on the background emotions i could sense..

When Both of them falls on each other, Arnav is mesmerised by the fact that he's holding her close to him while Kushi questions the almighty that why this should happen when she wants to go away from him..shes feeling difficult to detach herself from him at every utterance of his touch, his proximity, his.amma/buajis assertion about her rights,him calling her with a stress on Singh raizada or biwi as she knows this bond is not a easy one to break or not to live with!

The moment buaji and Garimaji comes to enquire, theres a sudden thud from her thoughts to reality..so her fear, her nervousness and her confusion when she stands up to support Arnav to help to stand tall..

On knowing about Arnavs hurt back, she gets back to her antics only to cover her underneath emotions!

When Garima and Buaji asks her to molish for which she again gets into a deadlock! She doesn't want to do that as she knows what his proximity can do to her,she knows Arnav started noticing about her true emotions and afraid of being caught but can't deny as she doesn't want anyone to know the tension going between the two!

On the other hand, Arnav is very happy to get molished from Kushi as this will be helpful in sharing some genuine feelings of his to her.He knows her awkwardness,her hesitation,her heartbeat,her losing senses onto him..Still want her to experience that he's Hers and its OK to have those sensations for him!!!

The moment she hears What The..the trade mark, she's so happy as she feels connected like We the fans on the" what the! " I feel the way he says is a point she fell for him!😉

Seriously BS took this to a greatest level anybody could ever take! It has become a synonym for ASR!👏

Later again realising he would catch her smile turns into antics about sarsoonka Teil!

What is with this Teils ..earlier Chameliki Teil and now Sarsoonka! What The!

Loved Arnavs expression at the look of Oil! Oh man! killer expressions on its peak!😳

When she says its ur 24 hours and u can do what ever..he the opportunist grabs her close conveying what he wants..giving himself to her to getting herself to him!

Noticing her being awkward,flabbergasted and blushed to pink leaves her not to force her into any makes fun hinting he's getting what she feels !

A typical Gentleman he is who understands to give space to her to come out of her shell!

He knows how deeply she's getting affected by his touch, his proximity and thats giving him umpteen strength to win in the mission which right now looks MI.

Rest is the process which Arnav chooses to make her work by packing the gifts and troubling her by hiding a packet and Kushi doing a revenge on not allowing Arnav sleep if he don't allow her to sleep! These two na...Always tries to break till it gets into fine dust and then try to build a more beautiful one from the dust!!! Complete nut cases!!!😃

When she in the process of packing things got hurt,again he helps her to relieve the pain,noticing again about his proximity smiles and lays back!

A true Gentlemen act to make her realise what he can do with his proximity is all i can see and think about!

Did Kushi get that..Oh Yeaa!!! She got it completely that poor gal! She's further running away by the sheer touch of him not to lose on to him ,trying to hide her fondness to be with him, afraid in getting caught and not to make him realise yet again!

She's doing all that Calling act and the minute he pulls her phone! Looks at her expressions! It says it all...Run as far as she can Kushi your Arnavji wants You and is hell bent on making u realise/verbalise what is it for u and what is it for him in this Pyaar..

An interesting track!!!

Hope, i did discover something about this madly in love made for each other couple!!!

Originally posted by: mommamia

Riyya after we had that emotional epis.. if they still show Khushi Dukhi.. TRP will go down the drain. Khushi is always like this, She hides her emotions. With a smile on her face. we have to accept it

Originally posted by: Chani123

very true!

Thats how parents are at times..😊

Originally posted by: sarunrocks

Mere din khushi se jhoome gaaye raate
pal pal mujhe dubaaye jaate jaate
tujhe jeet jeet haaroo
yeh praan praan varoo
hay aise main nihaaroo
teri aartee utaaroo
tere naam se jude hai saare naate
saiyyan ... saiyyan

Why I chose this song today because I just saw and lived this today. Why Arnav is doing all this act, its just to win her back. Yes he is challenging her but in this he his losing her fully to her. He is totally into Khushi now.Just for her one look he can go to any lengths, For her one smile he can even make him change. All his relationship are now weaved by one line and that one is Khushi.

yeh naram naram nasha hai...badhtajaaye
koi pyaar se ghungatiya deta udaaye
ab baawra hua mann
jag ho gaya hai roshan
yeh nayee nayee suhaagan
ho gayee hia teri jogan

Arnav and Khushi may seem like tom and jerry to us and probably they will be forever like this but inside those fights lay their love. Bundles of emotions and longing for each other. Each one of us have one addiction and for Arnav its Khushi and for Khushi its Arnav. It's a fact that both have to come with terms. Arnav's world has lighted with Khushi's love and his heart is filled with that madness and in that what not is he doing for her. He is like a new bride surrendering completely to the soulmate his soulmate Khushi. He has understood her importance. The guy who din even care to spare a single second for anyone now only has time for Khushi. Once he hated her company but now he hates anything but her company. How nice is that feeling.

main toh chaahoo samgam tera
main na jaanu
tu hi jaane
main toh teri
tu hai mera

All he wants is their union in true self and forever, He doesn't know what will reach him to that. He will try all strategies. Some may fail some may get him success but what will stay is he is her's and she his. I am loving this pace a lot.

Iss Pyaar Mein Sahi aur Ghalat Ka Koi Matlab Nahi Hai

Bas Ek Cheez ka Matlab hai Ki hamesha Pyaar in dono ko Bandkar Rakhega😃

I have used this song before also but being my fav song felt like using it one more time.

Jaag utha hai sapna kiska meri in aankhon mein

Ek nayi zindagi shaamil ho rahi saanson mein

Kisi ki aandhi hai sadaa hawaaon mein

Kisi ki baatein hai dabi si honton mein

Raat din meri aankhon mein koi parchhaayi lehraane lagi

Khushi's world now revolves around Khushi. It long back started when she fell in his arms. But now he is the centre of attraction. Anything happens she first thinks of Arnav alone. She is herself infront of him. Not the sugar coated one who is the ever sacrificial girl for all but one who stands up one who gives challenge to his ego and one who enjoys being herself. Now a new life is waiting for her and Arnav's precesnce she can always feel it through the air and the heratbeat as they are connected. His words are always etched in her toungue and always day and night she thinks of him alone.She is charmed by his love. Wants to cherish in it relish in it but past has not been nice to her so the fear of getting shattered again is looming high thus the restlessness when arnav is near. But the melting has started. Arnav has started the process of making her understand who she is to him and todays scene proved it. The shock in her face when he said hum tab ghirtain hain tab jab humare bhare main koi bura kehte hain kisne kaha yeh Anjali nai kaha so sure it will play out somewhere. And he says did she feel good that he fell down. That shcok in her face said it how can she even think of enjoying when he is hurt. Many more emotions are yet to brew but the cauldron is closed now and Arnav will remove it step by step.

For the romantic precap scene

kuchh khaas hai kuchh paas hai

kuchh ajanabi ehsaas hai

kuchh duriyaan najdikiyaan

kuchh hans padi tanhaayiyaan

kya yeh khumaar hai, kya aitbaar hai

shaayad yeh pyaar hai, pyaar hai shaayad

nazarein hi samjhe yeh guftgu saari

koyi aarju ne hai angadaayi li pyaari

What a scene made me blush😳. Something is special and is very near for both of them but still the strangeness is there. Some distance is there yet the closeness is felt and seeing this the dream itself smiled. What is this special thing this intoxication that has weaved the magic for arnav and khushi its not shaayad pyaar but it is pyaar. His eyes can read her eyes the truth in it understand all the unsaid things she feel for him and now that desire for each other has taken their relationship to a completely different form. Soon they will surrender. Its not the 24hrs challenge that matters but its conquering the love.😳 Loved the closeness today and the difference today was Khushi was not hesitating and she liked the closeness😳

Special Mention Scenes

The bro sis scene showed that ASR maintains his character. In all this things he takes time for his di. Nice one👏. All ArShi scenes were good but the scene he touched her nose was so special and close😉.. And when he put the plaster across her mouth it was damn funny. Their entire phone convo was fabulous. It was like a typical hubby wife convo. It was cute and funny and point to be noted is when she is not there where he sleeps. Loved the scene when she is about to eat jelabi he calls and tells that not to be so happy and have sweets. How much telepathy yaar😃

Barun and Sanaya were awesome today👏'Rocking arhilicious funny yest romanctic episode for me.👍🏼

Originally posted by: mommamia

"I'm oxygen and he's dying to breathe."
- Tahereh Mafi, Shatter Me

Points to ponder:

Khushi you were taken aback when he questioned you "Did you miss me".. He gottcha.. didn't he!! How are earth are you going to survive after you so called resolution for a life without him.. Yes the above quote you said it to yourself. You know it girl!! Accept it.

This is a poem close to my heart. We often blame CVs. For every little thing. We forget to see the positive side. For our baby to grow up as a nice being, its our duty to reprimand him/her, But also we need to pat on their back. Redux's stands for positivism. The very essence of Redux is Positivity. So this poem is From Reduxians to CVs, From one reduxian to another and also From me to ye all.

Condensed from an editorial that originally appeared in People's Home journal W. Livingston Lamed

Father Forgets

Listen, son:

I am saying this as you lie asleep,

one little paw crumpled under your cheek and

the blond curls stickily wet on your damp forehead.

I have stolen into your room alone.

Just a few minutes ago,

as I sat reading my paper in the library,

a stifling wave of remorse swept over me.

Guiltily I came to your bedside.

There are the things I was thinking,

son: I had been cross to you.

I scolded you as you were dressing for school

because you gave your face merely a dab with a towel.

I took you to task for not cleaning your shoes.

I called out angrily

when you threw some of your things on the floor.

At breakfast I found fault, too.

You spilled things.

You gulped down your food.

You put your elbows on the table.

You spread butter too thick on your bread.

And as you started off to play

and I made for my train,

you turned and waved a hand

and called, 'Goodbye, Daddy!'

and I frowned, and said in reply,

'Hold your shoulders back!'

Then it began all over again in the late afternoon.

As I came up the road I spied you,

down on your knees, playing marbles.

There were holes in your stockings.

I humiliated you before your boyfriends

by marching you ahead of me to the house.

Stockings were expensive -

and if you had to buy them you would be more careful!

Imagine that, son, from a father!

Do you remember,

later, when I was reading in the library,

how you came in timidly,

with a sort of hurt look in your eyes?

When I glanced up over my paper,

impatient at the interruption,

you hesitated at the door.

'What is it you want?' I snapped.

You said nothing,

but ran across in one tempestuous plunge,

and threw your arms around my neck

and kissed me,

and your small arms tightened

with an affection that God had set blooming in your heart

and which even neglect could not wither.

And then you were gone,

pattering up the stairs.

Well, son,

it was shortly afterwards

that my paper slipped from my hands

and a terrible sickening fear came over me.

What has habit been doing to me?

The habit of finding fault, of reprimanding

- this was my reward to you for being a boy.

It was not that I did not love you;

it was that I expected too much of youth.

I was measuring you

by the yardstick of my own years.

And there was so much that was good and fine

and true in your character.

The little heart of you

was as big as the dawn itself

over the wide hills.

This was shown by your spontaneous impulse

to rush in and kiss me good night.

Nothing else matters tonight, son.

I have come to your bedside in the darkness,

and I have knelt there, ashamed!

It is a feeble atonement;

I know you would not understand these things

if I told them to you during your waking hours.

But tomorrow

I will be a real daddy!

I will chum with you,

and suffer when you suffer,

and laugh when you laugh.

I will bite my tongue

when impatient words come.

I will keep saying as if it were a ritual:

'He is nothing but a boy - a little boy!'

I am afraid I have visualized you as a man.

Yet as I see you now, son,

crumpled and weary in your cot,

I see that you are still a baby.

Yesterday you were in your mother's arms,

your head on her shoulder.

I have asked too much, too much.

Any object, wholly or partially immersed in a fluid, is buoyed up by a force equal to the weight of the fluid displaced by the object.

' Archimedes of Syracuse

Accha Hua Hum Gire!

Lets take Khushi Kumari Gupta. She is that sort of a person who has an effect on everyone around her. Its very difficult not to get effected by her. And the problem with her is her heart(object) will touch (get immersed) everyone around her. The result of this is the relationships in her life. The deep impact of buoyancy effect. She gets immersed in the life (fluid) so much that when she tries to pull herself lot of fluid gets spilled. It's a undaunting task in itself. Lets take few examples.

She came into the life of Shyam (when the hell will he be back..Cannot wait for him any more.. Can you imagine I am revisiting old Shyam scenes to remind myself of him) anyhow.. She came as a whiff of wind in his life. And he was bowled over by her. She made an entry into his heart replacing enough fluid. That is the impact of Khushi Kumari Gupta in your life. Be it Happyji, Shuklaji or HPs of Raizada house or be it Lakshmiji.. she straight away makes an entry into the heart and the weight of fluid displaced will be quite a lot of ounces if measured in quantity. Its very difficult to ignore Khushi. For Buaji she is her favourite Sanka Devi, for babuji the cynosure of his eyes, for ammaji her favorite daughter, for Payal the kiddo sister. For Naniji she is badi bahu whom she cannot stop herself from praising. Everyone around her kind of get entranced by her. She touches your very chord with her antics. That's Khushi for you. The one up above had plenty of time in his hand when he made her. Gave her special attention. And hence the buoyancy effect.

Now lets come to Arnav Singh Raizada. In his life the buoyancy effect is always light weight. Except his Di, no one had ever sunk in his heart. Khushi started floating in the beginning and gradually we saw her getting immersed in his heart replacing enough fluid. Right now the effect of Khushi in his life is such that Arnav/ASR/Chotey all three of them are working together for a common goal. Bringing Wifey back to RM mission. Well when he said Accha hua hum gire, it must have stirred his very soul. I was shocked to hear the word fall from Arnav Singh Raizada's very mouth. The man who proclaimed that he writes his own destiny, acknowledged that he fell and it was all good. No ego. Love can change a being inside out and OBD is prime example. I wish the past ASR would watch from distance the present ASR. He would not believe it himself!!!

Originally posted by: riyya6

u see falling in LOVe is one thing but we as viewers needs to feel it... why as a lay viewer i cannot connect KKG being sad shes gonna be away from her Love / her husband after 12 days... wer is the pain... nok-jhok is one thing but emotion is not a game...

ASR- yes hes cornering her but HOW... all by deal... why it is not shown how important is khushi... in his life... all left hanging...😆

Originally posted by: Jhalak29

You will find as you look back upon your life that the moments when you have truly lived are the moments when you have done things in the spirit of love.

Henry Drummond

I loved the episode tonite, A balanced approach towards two pillars of life, A happy go lucky partner, A matured scared sister both holding the life of Arnav and he is balancing like he is walking on a tite rope in a circus but he hasnt lost it yet, he is out to win n he will win

Day1 in continuation

The episode tonite opened with Arnav falling and a moment between the husband wife a faint smile on Arnavs lip as he recalls the numerous fall they hv had in the smilar method n each time she has held into him, and amma buaji rushing to help them and he intially refuses the malish due to shyness, but then he found a oppurtunity to be with Khushi, he heartily grabs the moment when they tell khushi to do the honors, and inside the room, once agn we see a husband wife who are agn bickering but concerned for each other, one can see the concern when Khushi though hesistant doenst specfically refuse to message for him, and he is there waiting, once he sees the oil and he grimmance his " what the " yet he is ready bcz its khushi who will be with him, he is out on a mission to win her and he is out to prove if I need u, u need me too, so verbally he ensure that khushi is aware of the equation, homing another truth that in no condition will they be able to bear each other pain, discomfort, if friday we saw a concerned Arnav on Khushi sprain, today we saw a concerned Khushi, who isnt much pleased with appling a oil / message to Arnav yet she will do it bcz its Arnav..( The husband)

When she brings oil to the room, he intially gvs a uhhh expression, perfect BS expresssions here and then he makes Khushi realise that the back is requiring attention, and so nicely he tell her to help with the shirt, bcz its diffcult if ur hurt, A perfect husband wife here, bcz you always ask ur partner to help you and then he asks for her smile, one agn irking her, bcz for her in a situation where he is hurt, concern is paramunt n not smile but he insists and then he ask abt the application of oil n she says ur the master for 24 hrs u decide, he holds her pulls her close n touches her nose, A simple pull yet it evokes a lot of emotion in khushi, bcz somewhere deep is the hidden desire for him, her husband, she mite not acknowledge it today but he knows its there and then she applies the oil n he says u must be happy in my fall, u must hv prayed to DM that its great that he pays for his deeds, you must hv rejoiced it and when she questions do u think so, a lil hurt, she quickly in pins her and responds ur eyes hold all the answers, like the windows to ur soul, they let me peep into ur soul and he looks, she holds her breath n she isnt resisting, just waiting for him to highlight her but then a faint smile n then a full blown smile comes, she questions him, and then with the smile he ensures that he makes her realise that he has found her depth, A depth which no body can fathom only he n boy he is happy to be hv known the crux of her existence, his smile holds so much a pride, love joy and a pain tooo..he tells are "Acha hua hum gire"

I loved it here abslty loved it ❤️ here bcz in midst of a emotional passionate moment, he hasnt said main gira but hum gire, where in intially he had started the conversation with " tum to khushi hui hui hogi ki main gira" for him since he has accepted its "hum" or us and in thick or thin it is us, but khushi owing to her thoughts is creating the distance between them , she is trying to erect a walls arnd herself proving that she is affected/care abt him, but the fall once agn has revieled her facade that she does care for him, she cant bear him in pain, which goes for him too,,,, so the HUM

Before Khushi It had been always "main(I)", even in the realastionship with LA he had always maintained his individuality of "main", he had dictated the terms of their relatioship, but with Khushi he has become Hum, A great leap for a man like Arnav there are no terms to be with her, he is and will do everything under this sun to be with her ,,,, What a journey Arnav👏👏👏

but somewhere he knows that khushi is a equal to him and will not give in easily so he is ruffling the facade and making inroads there, with his each action he is trying to make her smile, realise the value of them and each other, he isnt forcing her but he is shaking her sliently so that by the time the reach the finale she will be on the cresendo and accept him by her choice and not force.

He finds strength in Khushi, he knows he hurt her the night before her bday with her words and had apologized genuinely, infant he very vunlerably had laid himself to her feet but the damage had been done, n the walls had been erected in the moments between the words n apology,,,since then he had been on a damage control mode but Khushi leaving RM bought emergency mode for him and he decided to tell Khushi a language which they both understand, which isn't words,,, but actions...

Each time he does sumthing Khushi will react and each time Khushi will do sumthing he will react...they hv a personal Newton theory working between them😉

The second scene today between Arnav & Anjali too bought another facet of Arnav, though both Khushi N Anjali are important to him, nobody take predence they stand equal if he is husband, he is brother too,,,,

He assures Anjali of his support with words and actions bcz he knows his actions will get greater impact

and lastly not the least the fone call scene, it mite looked abslty irritating in the first watch but if u see it had TLC wrapped under the irrtitation, the first call she mks he asks her missing me,,,,indirectly he is saying. Iss u n Khushi is reaction initial a moment of silence... N a moment where the gal in her who loves him rejoices,,, n the facade slips back no... Just checking do u need me,,, at ur service... a smile on Arnavs lips, and with each disturbing call her smile so they are so together in evrything thye do they smile, they sleep, they fight, they make it up...

Its a interesting Roller coaster ride me enjoing it

BS/ SI as usual good n brilliant

Rabba veys are back to being genuine⭐️

GH ppl are perfect for Romancce, Can we hv ASR/Arnav permanently in GH😳

A need to peek in psyche of Anjali or a heart to heart talk will be welcome😊

Dedication for ARNAV & KHUSHI SINGH RAIZADA

"Perfect love is rare indeed - for to be a lover will require that you continually have the subtlety of the very wise, the flexibility of the child, the sensitivity of the artist, the understanding of the philosopher, the acceptance of the saint, the tolerance of the scholar and the fortitude of the certain."

Buscaglia

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A note for all who wrote on fridays episode in pg1 of Galatea second thread

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Kudos to team Redux for being together in a learning curve which is never ending a blooming /bleaming everyday.

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Thank you'll who take time to read & like the post, its a pleasure to share it with you all

Originally posted by: Ash_Rajendra8

Riya, Story is from ASRs view , so its always character and the screen play/dialogues/FBs doing the talking for ASR making us to connect to the character .Incase of Khushi, character talking is too less but its always act from the actor which has made audience glued if not connected.(if you see out of redux or IF, you'll know audience are connected to her more, she is normal and happy go lucy ,its too easy for them )

Originally posted by: Jhalak29

@ Shree,,,, Remember the first time she started working for him, he kept hurting her until the GH day where she told him the value of him, value of her in their families

post marriage he kept hurting her, she nvr gave up until the day she heard him talking to LA agn cornered emotionally so once agn he ois cornering her with the wellbeing of her loved ones