Originally posted by: tia.o
Thanks Punkin (Sorry don't know your name) and Avni... Today I called Avni right after I watched the episode and we had the same reaction. Some things that did not seem quite right...
1. Anjali turned 180 degree. How did that happen? Just Arnav saying that she is the most important person in his life and he married Khushi for her thinking her wrong? He also said that he did not love her before marriage but he started to fell in love after marrying her. But that concludes two things...
a. He reinforced in her mind that she is still the most important person in this world and he can even marry a girl he did not love just to protect her. So Arnav lied to pacify Anjali leaving a door open for further misunderstandings. He conveniently left out that he was going to propose to Khushi, the night of the wedding. He also did not mention why Khushi married him and because of that Shyam can claim now that Khushi married him for money and trap him in love for the same reason...
b. After marriage, he started to fall in love with her. That could be due to close proximity, living as husband & wife or Khushi trapping him for money. But that did not particularly clear how much he loves Khushi and what is her position in his life. A woman gets only as much respect in her in-laws as much her husband gives her. It's sad but it's true.
2. Aakash is very quick to judge and shout at Payal and Khushi. Today, I was upset with Payal when she very quickly agreed with Aakash that Khushi made a mistake and so did she, just to get back on his good books. But I expected Payal to ask Aakash that when they did reveal the truth, how did you guys take it? Did you guys showed the strength to accept the truth? So if they had done it before their wedding after the engagement is already done, they would not have been husband and wife now.
But I guess I expected too much from spineless Payal...
3. Mamiji constantly calls Khushi Phatti Saree and Payal Khoon Bhari Taang in derogatory tone. But except Nani, no one stands up for their pride. Even their husbands who claim to love them, seems to think that little insults should be ignored by wifey because I flirt with her in private. If I was Khushi, my reply to him would be, "Forget about ever getting in my good books because I don't want to stay with someone who does not have the guts to stand up when his family dish out insults to me."
I wonder if Khushi starts calling Anjali "Whiny bit*h" or Mamiji "Roadside manners", Aakash and Arnav would ignore that just as easily they ignore their wives' insults...
4. Today Anjali talked to Khushi in front of everyone making Arnav happy and Khushi ecstatic in the process. But as Khushi was about to go closer to her, she made an excuse of sickness and left. She might seem okay after the conversation, but she is not. And it would be revealed more in future. Refer back to the post I made where I analysed their behaviour on Survival Instinct - The Law of Nature and mentioned that Anjali will show hers soon... It just got started today... Just wait and watch...
@Tia, please call me Punkin, my husband started calling me that the first year of marriage and now everyone in family calls me Punkin. But you may use my first name Frances if you prefer.
I agree wholeheartly with everything you said. All problems they need to be fix before Khushi can walk back into RM. Her self-respect needs restored. Mamiji, need a horse bit in her mouth to control her tongue.
Anjali attitude while speaking to Khushi did not sit well with me. Anjali acting like all was under her control being head of the house. "Take you break fast and go" She is ordering. She wasn't going to allow Khushi to touch her. No way.
The next few episodes should tell us what directions this new track is going...
Thank you dear for you comment. Have a lovely evening...Punkin
Edited by Punkin22 - 13 years ago
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