Originally posted by: nazleef
i have liked this boy from when i was in the first grade. we were kids but i remember my heart speeding up whenever he came near me. we fought like crazy and i remember glaring and fighting with other girls who liked him as well and he did the same with the guys who came anywhere near me. but then we realised that it wouldn't work out and i moved schools in the seven grade. i moved to England two-ish years later and my heart still speeds up whenever i see his pictures on facebook. but he now has a girlfriend, for almost a year, maybe more. my breathing becomes heavy whenever i see the two of them together. it really does. but i still give him advice on how to woo her when she's mad at him and what presents to buy for her for any occasions. we have talked out our issues and he's now one of my favourite and bestest friends.
sometimes i question myself. is it really love? the prick that i feel. i mean, i met him when i first saw him, which must have been when i was what- 6? and now i am 16. so almost 10 years later my heart still constricts painfully whenever i see him and realise that he was mine once, or could have been. it didn't work out because we both thought we were way too young (fact) but seeing him with another girl (who i hate. not because she is his girlfriend. i hated her since the time she wasn't his girlfriend. fact)... is just painful.
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i did try going out with other guys but my luck wasn't good. the first guy was a cheater and i found that out ten minutes after asking me out. my best friend dragged me and showed me. the other one said the he'd date me if he didn't find someone better. i know. i was angry and i was pissed off at men in general for a long time. but even when i considered going out with them i still liked my childhood sweetheart because he was dating what-her-face. i wanted to move on and i found that i couldn't. maybe im in love with the thought of being in love with him.
Arnav is a fantasy for me. i want someone who would love me as intensely as he does. i would like a more balanced guy, i were completely honest. just a tiny bit more. but i think Arnav's getting there. Arnav is an infatuation. i love the thought of having someone like Arnav for myself. honestly, i got over my anger at boys after starting to watch IPKKND. It isn't the same feeling, but Arnav is an expectation. i expect him to love Khushi and be by her side. because i know what it feels like to watch your love go away and be happy with another. i don't want that for Khushi, Arnav or even Anjali. but love is a beautiful feeling, even if it does hurt. i now im 16 years old abd don't have much to go on. but pyaar kiya to darna kya?
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