Has Arnav spoiled u 4 evry othr man in this world?

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vkaur125

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Posted: 13 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: princessunara
Ok here it is!

I am single.
Never been in love
Never had a boyfriend
Never have gotten that fluttery lovewala feeling for a guy in real..
Never had the hots for a guy

Ok all the above list of factors seem to say the same thing..but the point is i have never found 'the' special person in my life.

And come last June, sigh i saw Arnav..
and,
I was in love.
I started imagining this man every moment be it during a class or in my dreams
He started being the last person i thought before i fell asleep and the one person about whom i was thinking as i woke up
I started talking about him to anyone and everyone who would listen
I used to drool on him everytime he came onscreen, everytime i saw a VM, everytime i read about him..everytime i saw a picture...i just got lost in him..
i got lost in those caramel eyes that spoke thousand emotions..that held softness and love..
i got lost in the blazing hate darkened eyes that expressed anger, betrayal and hurt..

And by today, around 14 months since this started,
it is the same...

I 'awwwed' today!! i swooned today..drooled...madly fell in love with this man all over again as he looked on at Khushi and wondered about 'how easy it was to talk to her when she was asleep'
i again 'awwweeed' when he said, "aaj mausam hai suhana.." trying to bring a smile on her face..

i completely drooled over them..
but more than drooling i was having this fuzzy warm feeling in my heart, that i have begun to associate with him whenever he did something sweet regarding Khushi..
it is a feeling i have for him, which i think is something like love..

i am saying something like love, cz he is the only man i have ever felt this for..
so like everyone else, with first love i am also unsure..thinking, wondering if this is love..
and well i believe it is love..
that i am truly and irrevocably in love with Arnav Singh Raizada..

So ok now that u guys came this long, let me get to the crux of the matter..

All of u married people/ people who have a boyfriend /people who have been in love out there, i think u guys r lucky cz u already have felt that feeling for someone..u guys either have/had someone special of ur own..
so i guess u guys can't have Arnav as the center of universe cz u naturally have that one special man in ur life already..

But for the unmarried/inexperienced girls out there who are like me,

tell me if u feel as u have been spoiled for every other man in the world?
do u feel that no other man will ever match up?
do u feel scared cz after loving Arnav..just may be, u will never love someone as much as u love him?

I am honestly wondering..
So married people tell me if it is possible to fall for someone real and achievable when i am already in love with this fictional guy who i think symbolizes my own definition of perfection..

And other people who are in the same boat as me, do u think ur own fates have been sealed too,
'has Arnav spoiled u for every other man in this world?'

Ok one more thing..i am writing this seeing one reply..
I am in love with Arnav! NOT Barun!!

I have a very clear understanding on this! I love Barun and adore him But i most certainly am NOT in love with him!
I am in love with the fictional Arnav..
Added this just so no confusion ensures about the question i want to ask..

Love is such a complicated subject and so hard to explain. I still fall for fictional characters (be it Edward Cullen, Maan Khurana, Udayveer or Arnav) even though I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 1/2 years, And like you said, I too fall in love with their characters not the people behind them. When I watch some of their interviews and see them talk, I get sad because they're so different from their characters.

In the end, you have to realize that they're acting and you won't find these "perfect" guys out in the real world, like they're portrayed in the shows. You cannot try to find all those characteristics in a guy in real life. I'm not even sure if you understand what I mean...blah :(

And when you do meet someone special in real life, you still won't be able to get over Arnav, just like myself. But you'll have a special attachment/bond with a real guy, which you'll never have with a fictional character. 😳

Oh, and PS...I think what we have with these characters is infatuation and not love. 😛

Edited by vkaur125 - 13 years ago

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Sunara

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Posted: 13 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: -happilyunknown
LOL when i do get a boyfriend/husband one day the first thing im going to do is make him get onlyn so i can send him links of ASR./KKGSR love scenes. I am gonna go all watch and learn on him😆

lol most likely i would do the same thing considering i don't have a single other interest apart from ArHi!
i used to watch loadz of movies and since IPK started well i have watched a staggering no of 1 movie called Sky Hig😲h...n that was in last August! so that pretty much says that if any man wants to have any common interest with me, he will have to start watching IPK!!😆

same with cricket!! i was a fanatic! but this year i didn't watch a single IPL match to my own shock!neither have i sat through a single international match either which continues to baffle my family!...

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Sunara

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Posted: 13 years ago

#53

Originally posted by: godhuli12
I am honestly wondering..
So married people tell me if it is possible to fall for someone real and achievable when i am already in love with this fictional guy who i think symbolizes my own definition of perfection

in your real life you will find some of the ASR quality in someone I bet...good or bad...

So be positive... and when u ll feel that ull know at that instant how does it really feel with real rabba ve...

sharing one of my exp : My BF used to wear one perfume.. on my first meeting.. after that day I used to find the perfume smell somewhere for whole one week (believe it or not ) I thought what is happening with me...
filmy dialogue du ek? God will give you the SIGNS...

thank u so so much!! u r the first person who answered what i want to know!!

so there might be some hope for me after all!! thanks once again:D

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lazyleaves

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Posted: 13 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: princessunara

lol girl!! go right ahead!!😆

That is what I wanted. A go signal from you. Here I go ...

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Sunara

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Posted: 13 years ago

#55

Originally posted by: indupriya8
i am exactly the same as u😊

single,neva been in love,no butterflies nothing...

but now over the past year evrything has changed☺️

fell in love with arnav and cant stop drooling over barun

infact nowadays all i talk is about arnav and also barun

sigh !! wat did u do to me barun sobti ??

oh man this really seems exactly what i have been reduced to too!!
just insanely crazy about this man!! it is like he is the center of my universe!!

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Sunara

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Posted: 13 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: sarithaipkknd
yup it is a scary place to be... i sketch.. n i ve never made a sketch of my husband... i ve made 4 sketches of arnav... sometimes he gets fed up... i donno wats wrong with me..i m not even a kid.. i just love arnav so much..

ya..even my creativity seems limited for him n IPKKND..btw i usually write n all i do write is about t his show!!
aww anyway thanks a lot 4 sharing with me!!:-)

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medha

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Posted: 13 years ago

#57

well i am 19 and i have never been in love either, but let me ask u something...would u really like an abnormal type person like arnav as ur partner in life? situation made him what he is...but still...a man who treats a girl that way and does not realise that to rectify it he needs to apologise rather than shower her with gifts and sweet words...trying almost to excite her..trick her, force her,buy her affection and push her into accepting him. he is not comfortable. too intense...too suffocating his love can be. his insensetiveness towards the girl he loves...that what he wants --her in this case,is his focus...he never asked her hand from herself...he is not wooing...he is rushing and goading...thrusting himself onto her when the vast pool of hurt has not been healed yet. he does not realise in his brimful arrogance and confidence...that he may be rejected.u saw how angry he gets when she turns away.love is not business, u need to reciprocate and express feelings. he revealed them to his di..why not to khushi for once? i think he is cute, has aheart of gold and cant express his feelings positively,caring and does not KNOW WHAT HE ACTUALLY NEEDS AND WANTS,he is certainly a good man...but his mask? anybody wud MU him, and i wont blame them.i am afraid i would like a normal guy in real life...a life that khushi lives with him...its balanced on the edge of a knife...they can topple.i prefer stabler simpler things in life. complicated maybe excitingbut stable sure love is forever. arnav has animal magnetism...charisma..attractive and his innate goodness can get u tangled, but,as yet, what i have deciphered in him...and as khushi too i think sees at this point of time(we shall see aage hota hai kya)..he is easy to fall in luv with...but is it that easy to live a full, happy life with him?????? . thats what i feel.😊

Edited by medhasarkar - 13 years ago

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Posted: 13 years ago

#58

I liked your disclaimer.. i meant the discrimination btwn asr and baruN.. thats the way I'm attracted too.. i'm impressed by ASR not baruN.. that does not mean i hate him! =D AS FOR YOUR QUESTION, I'M ENGAGED AND ASR DEFINITELY REMINDS ME MORE OF MY FIANCE.. HE'S QUITE RESERVED BUT ONCE WE STARTED TO SPEAK, HE OPENED UP TRULY AND I'M ALWAYS AMAZED AT THE FACT HOW HE PAID MORE ATTENTION TO ME WHICH HE HAD NEVER DONE TO ANYONE BEFORE! ASR KEEPS MAKING ME FALL FOR MY FIANCE!

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arnav21

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Posted: 13 years ago

#59

Originally posted by: princessunara

lol there was a time i just laughed too..

but i am actually wondering if i will ever even fall for someone considering what i feel for Arnav!! my mind knows he is not real..but what i feel for him is real...so where does that leave me?

hi , i m just as u n gayuArnav ..

the only thing i want to higlight frm ur post is..." mOrning firts thing i remember opening my eyes is ARNAV ...n last thing i dream b4 sleep is Arnav ...dnt think the rest of the day i dnt think abt him...but throught out the day ...i will be thinking only abt him...

i will be nt able to even imagine anyone at his place nor i wonder whether i can love a person as such as i love ARNAV ...

like u ... ...i m 25... unmarried...no boyfriend till today ...after ARNAV I will not have anyone ...

i have same qestion as u have...if u find ans please let me knw ...

dont knw what wil happen in future ...but all i can s ay is " IM UNCONDITIONALLY n IRREVOCABLY IN LOVE WITH ARNAV ".😳...