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Posted: 13 years ago
#91

Originally posted by: cutebarun



when some1 tells a story, they knw what POV they want to project... Why Payal's feelings r not projectd, while Anjali's is?

Then, why wasnt Akash being a 'character' frm d beginning of d show never was projectd, while NK, who came in between got more emphasis?

Why do we never saw the importance of Akash's father, when he was in the show? Dekha jaye tho, he should hav been d one, who took care of Raizada family in d past, when Arnav was a child. Bt, his opinions didnt count, while Mami is there in every frame.

I'm not telling who r right n who is not! Bt, the story frm d first day clearly hinted dat 'Anjali' is the nucleus, while 'ARHI' is the universe.

If it was just two star crossd lovers, and their prblms, then 'shyam, the brother in law of Arnav' wouldnt hav got engagd to Kushi. That cud hav been any other man.

If it was a 'sister's jealousy towards brother's wife, then Anjali n Kushi wud not hav had Shyam in their life. It could have been 'kushi a girl, who marries Arnav, and Anjali her sister in law, who cant see her brother loving another woman'.


Thanks dear for reply above..😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
#92

Originally posted by: ymail_my

Its not a question of "why" anjali is doing wht shes doin? We got it she is a clingy needy dimwit. The problem is why are we only see ing her point of view being shown so strongly??
I mean when asr khushi wedding happened payal had the right to be sooo upset with khyshi . Even she didnt know the reason. But CVsclearly bypassed her emotions

The Q isnt y anjali is behaving so? The Q is y arent the othe characters important? Anyone who us trying to justify this by using the reason "not just a love story" please give me the answer.

The truth is we are getting this character this clingy needy dumb woman who is actually a meddling interfering sister. Ppl who r giving us a reality check of real life relatiobships anjalus wife relationship was never anywhere close to reality. This woman never lived in her sasural in the past year. Why did no one bring up the "real life" comparison then??

showing so much of This anjali character is wrong. Either that or we were always watching di ki saut concealed within star crossed love story. Now tht PHhas the viewrs by enticing themwith an arrogant man and bubbly girl love story they r showing the serial's true colors

Its just cheating
The last thing these 2 deserve is being broght together by this meddling anjali chatacter



Hi..😊

Sorry for late response..My response to your questions below :

-- Why only Anjali's POV and why not other characters?
It is lacking point in their story too and I have felt that payal's character did have lot of potential ,they ruined it by making it just sobbing bahu.As far as anjali is concerned,she is important for Arhi love story...and it is not that CVs are showing her POV if that wud have been case then there would have been no bashing in this forum ..People dont really know her POV thus whole confusion is there ..She just got one dialogue in past 2 weeks which showed what she really thought of shyam's fiasco..

-- Di ki saut or IPKKND

well just remember fourth promo of this show...you remember a man standing in rain saying- I wish I could love you..that was very much in love story right...His inability to love her is pretty clear now and the person whom somehow responsible for that is his di... So I dont think it is Di ki saut ..it is very much still a difficult love story...

I can understand your disappointment with character and as much as you want Arhi to be together ,I too but characters like shyam and anjali does bring that specialness to this love story..
makes it even more beautiful to see...😛

Hope my reply helped..😳..if not we can always have difference of opinion

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I completely agree with all the points you have made, but I think that the bashing is because the cvs are executing tho track really badly and making it seem like Anjali has now become khushi ki saut. They need to show this track in a more mature light, maybe being the reason for the siblings' issues to the fore, If they don't want to reveal everything at this point, atleast give us some more fkashbacks or something.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#94

Originally posted by: JWMRK

Riti😃

Thanks for the link,..
A well thought through post and there is nothing wrong in thinking that
Unfortunately, today I have a difference of view
Anjali is beginning to come accross as extemely self absorbed and frankly petty...maybe its the writers fault
But thanks anyways dear friend
Cheers!


Hey JW...🤗

You are always welcome to have difference in opinion..😃 so thanks for your insight...😛

My answer for your bold part below...😊

Anjali was always weak one dear..a person who always needed someone to be with her to make her world happy ..well that come across as selfish😆 so let me elaborate..She is sharing same past as ASR..she has same fear of loosing people that she loves as ASR .She suffers from fear of abandonment...when she sees one of her support being thrown out..she is just left with one and when she sees the other one being oblivious to her pain ..she feels distance..she feels that before her brother used to care even if there is scratch on his di..and now he is busy celebrating when his di needs him most.She is hurt..She sees this change and wonders if his love made change in bro-sis relation..it seems selfish but very real trait dear..specially for person who is in that state of depression..it is easy for people to point fingers at her and I was equally angry dear but when you look from her angle she is still understandable and she has not yet blamed her brother and even khushi for mess in her life...

hope above helped 😳

Take care 😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: booksfreak07

I completely agree with all the points you have made, but I think that the bashing is because the cvs are executing tho track really badly and making it seem like Anjali has now become khushi ki saut. They need to show this track in a more mature light, maybe being the reason for the siblings' issues to the fore, If they don't want to reveal everything at this point, atleast give us some more fkashbacks or something.


Thanks for above reply .That is indeed thought worthy..😛 Execution could have been better
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Commnnn This is not Anjali Bashing -- it is the behavior that is alien for Anjali just because of those things you mentioned.

She wouldnt behave this way if she was a real life person. That is the point -- Anjali is not a real person, it is a character and the writers who created it are not being consistent with her behavior. That is the reason all the bashing is VALID.

Whoever is playing "Anjali" the creative guys "brain storming" sessions has gone LOONEY TUNES. This is a retarded person not a sane human being -- walking away because she caught her bro and his wife together -- after they have been through something like a kidnap and finally exposing someone like Shyam is just pathetic -- she is being self-centered.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#97

Originally posted by: sree07

hello fan girl... I loved all the points above its true. We all loved her when she did the above.

Now
- She is the same woman who forgot about all the above bullet points and turned a little bit selfish about her own life.

She come across as a little selfish and self centered for a lay viewer. When her world was glossy, all is well. But the moment it shattered, the bitterness pops in. I can not connect with her and the selfishness trait in her.

Dialogues were all wrong today and has confusing meanings. Hope the CVs give another make over to the character. I am tired of this unlimited interruptions.

I can not take a another version of MIL - DIL drama in IPK yaar. Just simply plain tired. Wish I could see a love story.



🤗 heylo Sree...

I see many of my buddies finding her selfish but tell me one thing dear...what selfish trait she has shown till now..I was equally angry with her on her dialogue with my Arnie..😉 but keeping phangurl aside..she is still fairly understandable and human at this stage...Her world has changed and she doesnt know how and why...She deserves to know every truth about shyam but still it is hidden so her giving benefit of doubt to him is okay too..now coming to selfish part- her husband is thrown out by her very own brother and she is still in his house stating that her chotte will not think bad about her so she tries to cope with trauma only to find that her chotte is oblivious of her pain..she is hurt..a normal person will be..She has not blamed anyone right now..She has even pointed fingers at khushi but she is same person for whom her brother has thrown her hubby out and is celebrating while she mourns and coming to last episode..she is upset that arnav lied to him thats all..not because he chose to spend time with his wife but because he lied..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i agree with u , Anjali nd daljeet both shudnt be bashed,, its the story line, daily soap needs drama also ,they shudnt show anjali turning total negative ,,circums ances cn be villian ,i m ok with this story line,bt anjali drama must be balanced in each episode , whts the use of turning a sizzling love story into depressive drama,,i hope cvs wont do this
,,shyam will return with his cupid plans nd engage Anjali everthing will be ok 😉😉😉
it wud be gud to show lots of romance 😉with added pinch of drama ,
,5, 7 minutes drama 15 minutes romance my desire😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
#99

Originally posted by: sunflower52


Thanks, what people are not getting is that this is the 2nd time that is happening with Anjali, that her world changed drastically.

If major trauma hits you 2nd time its double the worst then the 1st time.

I hope the cv's show this properly.



?Yup, the insecurities she is facing now is very well understandable. The insecurity of loosing someone dear. In fact Arnav also use to suffer from similar insecurity as was evident from the last year rakhi episode and in the episode where Anjali had that accident. Arnav seems to be in a perpetual panic mode of loosing her ! Anjali has voiced that insecurity of her's for the first time.
Even when Shyam was thrown out of RM she was shattered but the sense of loosing somebody close was not so evident in her eyes. Anyway, even when Shyam was there in her life, it was alws Arnav who topped her priority list, as we have witnessed in many scenes!

Given the situations she had witnessed over the last few days she has every right to feel the way she is feeling now. She had crossed all hurdles of life just by knowing that Arnav is there by her side, so now if she suddenly sees him drifting away (though unintentionally) then the thing is bound to affect her given her present mental and physical conditions !

I hope the cvs present their past in a very proper way because what so ever may ppl say the Arnav-Anjali past is the crux of the story. That past defines their remarkably strong bond and it also defines the very character of Arnav Singh Raizada !!

Finally, one word on 'Why Anjali is not leaving RM'. The answer is, neither would Arnav let her go nor would she leave him and go. She has repeatedly promised him that she won't leave him ever and what importance Arnav still holds in her life was evident from the last scene of yesterday's episode.

Edited by mpk2011 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: cutebarun



when some1 tells a story, they knw what POV they want to project... Why Payal's feelings r not projectd, while Anjali's is?

Then, why wasnt Akash being a 'character' frm d beginning of d show never was projectd, while NK, who came in between got more emphasis?

Why do we never saw the importance of Akash's father, when he was in the show? Dekha jaye tho, he should hav been d one, who took care of Raizada family in d past, when Arnav was a child. Bt, his opinions didnt count, while Mami is there in every frame.

I'm not telling who r right n who is not! Bt, the story frm d first day clearly hinted dat 'Anjali' is the nucleus, while 'ARHI' is the universe.

If it was just two star crossd lovers, and their prblms, then 'shyam, the brother in law of Arnav' wouldnt hav got engagd to Kushi. That cud hav been any other man.

If it was a 'sister's jealousy towards brother's wife, then Anjali n Kushi wud not hav had Shyam in their life. It could have been 'kushi a girl, who marries Arnav, and Anjali her sister in law, who cant see her brother loving another woman'.



Damn good rep dear !!!!! After 1 yr of show it seems there is still doubt about what the show is supposed to be all about LOL !!!

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