Spice Girls Hangout:Paving the way for RTR! - Page 39

Originally posted by: .Mandy.

New article is out, Arnav gets help from NK

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Now this I got to see

Originally posted by: .Mandy.

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Morning Vee

Originally posted by: --Sari--

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2">Wonderful posts all, enjoyed reading it...Everyone unanimous on - Anjali needing a shrink😆 Nursing a sprained shoulder so typing is a little painful, so will not be commenting too much. Btw, I saw a lot of references to perfume chariot/lady...Can anyone shed some light?😆
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Originally posted by: --Sari--

Wonderful posts all, enjoyed reading it...Everyone unanimous on - Anjali needing a shrink😆 Nursing a sprained shoulder so typing is a little painful, so will not be commenting too much. Btw, I saw a lot of references to perfume chariot/lady...Can anyone shed some light?😆

Originally posted by: .Mandy.

Diya great post, it is his line about Shyam which worked against him. I wouldn't have minded a thing he said to Khushi had it not been for that line, that just took things too far and added to his RTR. Arnav should've been shown remembering that particular line when he reflected on what he told Khushi, that would have made him hate himself more

As for Anjali, as many have pointed out here the family is at fault for her damaged state of mind. I know she has been through a lot in her life but they did not help matters by trying to keep a fantasy world going for her. The constant need to sheild her only ended up doing more damage, now she desperately wants to cling to that fantasy because she doesn't know how to live without it. Anjali is going to push her brother too far, it already started with this episode but one thing she hasn't realized is the extent to which Arnav loves Khushi. For Arnav, Khushi is going to become his primary focus as he is going to repent big time for the pain he caused her. Khushi's broken spirit and attempting to distance herself from everyone including him is something that will crush him and give him a much needed wake up call. I'm looking forward to him being so desperate that he seeks help from NK, the maha episode is definately going to be a treat to watch.

Originally posted by: DiyaS

Doc, do you want my take on that? Anjali was playing the victim game here ... she had no intention to cause herself or her baby any damage at all.

Let me explain my POV - a seriously suicidal person makes sure that he/she will succeed in their attempt. A depressed person who is not yet suicidal makes attempts that are more like calls for help, cries for attention ... and I think Anjali was doing just that.

What was her first reaction when Arnav threw Shyam out? To stop talking to him.

What does Arnav usually do when Di stops talking to him? He promptly reverses whatever decision/action of his that made her take that step ... take expelling Khushi from the house for La, take cancelling the sangeet.

This time he DID NOT do that ... he did not go running to call Shyam back ... he backed his wife.

So what does Anjali do next? She goes to her own doctor, well known to the family, and asks for an abortion, makes it very clear that she is in a disturbed state of mind, and then stays in the clinic till the doc has time to inform someone ... or, as happened, someone comes looking for her. The trail of crumbs she left with the unpaid auto driver also points to that - she wanted to be found. Then she picks up a blunt artery forceps/needle holder ... were there no scalpels/scissors lying on a tray of surgical instruments? Nope, she wants something that will look dangerous but is not ... and she waits for someone to find her ... and go crazy enough to be ready to give in to her every wish ... which is what her Chotey always does.

To ensure that he does that, Arnav is promoted back to being Chotey ... the brother who always fixes her world for her ... can he pretty please do that again? Including getting back her loving husband ... because some 'buri nazar' has hit their happiness ... someone is trying to separate her and her brother ... 'hum dono ko kya ho gaya hai?'

And Arnav being all kinds of a gullible emotional fool when it comes to his precious Di, goes running to Khushi and spills out the exact same words Anjali used ... all because of you, Di has lost her happiness ...
Yes of course, her true happiness lay in being married to a two-timing conniving scoundrel ... Really Bitwa, where DID your brain go for its holiday?!!!

Emotional blackmail at its best ... for all that it might be unconscious as of now ... but it won't take long for it to become conscious and deliberate.

Originally posted by: -Vee05-

Morning!!! Am so relaxed after so long!!! Day off woohoo!!!

Originally posted by: ipkbs

<font size="4">Vee!🤗</font>

<font size="4">you're off finally!</font>

Originally posted by: Diya

I do hope you're right, and Arnav starts to stand up for Khushi now ... she has taken a lot of crap, and needs some wooing ... even more, she needs to be respected by every member of the house, not only Arnav ... but definitely starting with him!