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Posted: 13 years ago

I'm just curious to know...

...how many forum members feel sympathy for Anjali as a wife and mother-to-be whose marriage has just crumbled to bits in front of her very eyes, or just hate her guts for hogging Arnav all to herself and trying to break up the most ultimate, amazing, sacrosanct jodi of Arnav-Khushi?

I am SERIOUSLY shocked by the amount of hate in this forum for Anjali right now! It genuinely makes me quite upset.

I'm not married nor do I have any children, but I know women who have been through marriages that have broken down while they've been pregnant and it is the worst thing a woman could ever experience. STOP staying she is psychologically blackmailing Arnav because she is NOT. She just wants her husband back so she can live out the dream she had built for her perfect life with him.

You also have to remember, Anjali is an insecure individual. She is also disabled. When she was saying those things to Arnav in the hospital about how will she look into the face of her child when she knows that child is a product of someone everyone hates (Shyam), as a woman, my heart went out to her.

I know everybody wants lots and lots of Arnav-Khushi romance, and so do I. Desperately, in fact!!

But step back and have a look at what is happening. A woman who wants to abort her child because she is scared her child will never get the status he/she deserves due to their father is a woman in desperate need of help.

I don't post often in the forum, but it's upsetting seeing so many posts against Anjali. Forget from the point of the story, at least trying to understand Anjali from the point of view of a woman.

Peace out.

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Posted: 13 years ago

I totally agree with you. All this Anjali/Daljeet bashing is just tiresome to read.

What was she supposed to do? Stay in la la land and be happy that her husband got kicked out.

Shes pregnant and emotionally damaged. In her pregnancy a woman doesnt want attention from her family as much as she wants it from the guy who got her pregnant in the first place. Call it neediness or vulnerablility or whatever. She got no proof about shyam other than hearsay... who is she supposed to believe? The girl who was flirting with her husband or the man shes been married to for so many years?

In fact im getting really irritated over the whole crying over other characters getting importance in the show. They are actors too, theyre supposed to have roles in here too and shock horror theyre supposed to be able to perform their stories too. the focus will never be off Khushi/Arnav but there needs to be balance in the show like it was in the early days. you need family members and their stories too.

Its like people have ASR wali amnesia and they conveniently forget character traits/past storylines. Anjali has always been slightly unhinged, she values her husband as a God. Take that away from her and shes bound to be creating drama/issues

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: dingle
I totally agree with you. All this Anjali/Daljeet bashing is just tiresome to read.

What was she supposed to do? Stay in la la land and be happy that her husband got kicked out.

Shes pregnant and emotionally damaged. In her pregnancy a woman doesnt want attention from her family as much as she wants it from the guy who got her pregnant in the first place. Call it neediness or vulnerablility or whatever. She got no proof about shyam other than hearsay... who is she supposed to believe? The girl who was flirting with her husband or the man shes been married to for so many years?

In fact im getting really irritated over the whole crying over other characters getting importance in the show. They are actors too, theyre supposed to have roles in here too and shock horror theyre supposed to be able to perform their stories too. the focus will never be off Khushi/Arnav but there needs to be balance in the show like it was in the early days. you need family members and their stories too.

Its like people have ASR wali amnesia and they conveniently forget character traits/past storylines. Anjali has always been slightly unhinged, she values her husband as a God. Take that away from her and shes bound to be creating drama/issues

Exactly! Shyam was God for her! It's like telling someone "you know what, that God you believe in and worship everyday and pray to, he's not real."

When you take someone's religion away from them, esp from someone as pious as Anjali, they feel like they have no reason to live.

This is what is happening to Anjali right now.

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Posted: 13 years ago

yes you are right!! she is pregnant ..her husband turned out to be a f**kin cheat !!

i love anjali!!

but i hate the raizada bros 😡😡😡 and also mami 😡😡

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Posted: 13 years ago

I agree. its sad that people dont see that and instead see Anjali as unnecessarily creating issues between Arnav-Khushi.

Theres not a lot of sympathy for a pregnant and damaged woman here I see. It must be because it impacts Rabba Ve eyelocks. 😉

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Posted: 13 years ago

A woman should think. She must think about the welfare of the child. The whole Raizada parivar is taking hasty decisions. Big business magnets! Instead of throwing blame on others, or seeing thro rosy glasses, They must be practical. The victim (here anjali) should be brought out grief , not by pampering but by making her face the reality , how she should shoulder reposibilities for the child's sake and to not lean on others shoulders. How long can other people carry your burden ?

If the CV's had shown her as a woman who faced reality, took stern decisions it would have been an unique story. But alas! Star plus bahu serial. Can't expect more even if it is a 4 lions production lead by a WOMAN. Can't believe if this is the team that had given strong woman like Kushi.

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Posted: 13 years ago

I agree... I really think Anjali needs some psycological counselling to come out of her current shock and depression.

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: dingle
I agree. its sad that people dont see that and instead see Anjali as unnecessarily creating issues between Arnav-Khushi.

Theres not a lot of sympathy for a pregnant and damaged woman here I see. It must be because it impacts Rabba Ve eyelocks. 😉

I was reading the live-updates before I watched the episodes and people were making such ill-thought out comments regarding the actions of her character that I not only found it embarrassing, but also offensive.

The problem isn't that Anjlai is coming in between Arnav-Khushi, but that Arnav is ALLOWING his relationship with Anjlai to come in between his relationship with Khushi. He needs to assume some responsibility for managing both relationships.

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Posted: 13 years ago

you know why because she is not the lead 😊 dont worry only few feels same as you obviously including me.. i remember once someone had said that Khushi deserves sympathy because she has no one and Anjali doest cause she has the family
i ask .. can the whole family make up for her husband whom she loved so much.. on the top of that .. the baby is going to get the suffering too.. she(may be) have to become a single mother and its not easy!

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: kmv3d
A woman should think. She must think about the welfare of the child. The whole Raizada parivar is taking hasty decisions. Big business magnets! Instead of throwing blame on others, or seeing thro rosy glasses, They must be practical. The victim (here anjali) should be brought out grief , not by pampering but by making her face the reality , how she should shoulder reposibilities for the child's sake and to not lean on others shoulders. How long can other people carry your burden ?

If the CV's had shown her as a woman who faced reality, took stern decisions it would have been an unique story. But alas! Star plus bahu serial. Can't expect more even if it is a 4 lions production lead by a WOMAN. Can't believe if this is the team that had given strong woman like Kushi.

I understand, but would kindly disagree. The child in question is not a burden, but a blessing.

Anjali's character is a character who doesn't look at reality. She never has, and she won't start now. Believe me, I know a LOT of women like Anjali who are dependant on other people for a variety of reason. This is even worse is South Asia where women are VERY dependant on men for socio-economic reasons and would never dream of leaving their lying, cheating, scoundrel husbands simply to ensure their child is able to get fed.

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