Originally posted by: Angad_Diwani
Well said rima... but the best part of what worried me today is highlighted by u abv... I mean, his sis is shorn to bits and he has romance on his mind???? I mean WHAT THE???? 😡
And shudnt he romance her AFTER he apologises for the abominable way in which he has been treating her , making her sleep by the pool and all??? 😕
I am all for Romance ... even sex, but ONLY after ASR makes amends. Rite now, as u ritely said, he is only feeling bad for his sis and he seems to have taken K's forgiveness for granted. And that is a strict NO NO in my books.😲
And another thing ... what yaar , how can u romance by the poolside when there are sooo many weepies in ur house ??? I mean what the hell was that all about ??? Shudnt u dry their eyes first and then try making moon eyes at ur wifey later ??? I wud feel a teensy weensy shard of guilt...
or am I being picky here ??? 😕
Rima I had raised this in your post yesterday also that ... ASR is not showing regret about what he did to khushi... But today's episodes brought back flashbacks of my experience in urban Indian male mindset...
I have seen a lot of males ... I'll treating their wives then make up sweet talking flirting. But without saying sorry .. If u r the third person watching from the sidelines often in my case it irritates the hell out of you..
If it it happens to u ... U tend to forget it and enjoy the bliss of the moment.., it's wrong no doubt.. But unfortunately Indian males have not yet learnt the art of saying sorry..to their wives..
In the western mindset the wife will screw her husbands happiness if something like this happens ...
He will have to eat crow ...
Nanis behaviour overlooking khushis plight is typiical of Indian households where they always look at their daughters plight... And overlook the daughter in law ...they have their daughter past history of sorrows but are thy aware of of their dil past history..
How was khushis ateeth less painful.. She was leched for months by a married guy.. Was stalked made to feel uncomfortable was thrown off the cliff. And ANJali whose hubby has been cheating on her.. Plight is more.. Why is she the first women with a broken marriage...
When the goings are good Bahu is same as beti.. But when the time to pick comes beti scores in 9 out of 10 cases..
Khushi can only strengthen her position in the house ...when she will give ASR a child...I know long way ahead...we will not get to watch it...but in real life in most rational cases the story turns in when Bahu becomes the mother... Happened with me ... And a few of my friends.
@ a.. Diwani why should ASR dry the others eyes.. When his wife was weeping alone at his absence did Akash Payal come and offer support...they were busy attending parties, restaurant dates.. Coming and saying khushi tumne humein Nahi Bataya if mami could guess it and nk did why did the sis and bro in law couldn't..
Why couldn't Akash guess that ASR is missing he was out of touch for 2 weeks I went to sub Antarctica last week invercargill still came back and facebooked with my family.. Why was Akash oblivious to the situation and now is acting holier than thou. And why should Arnav and khushi dry their tears...they consoled Nani and ANJali who needed it due to their past history..
Arjun
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