In the forum it's difficult to be a Sarun fan UPDT - Page 8

Originally posted by: zaniax

Thankyou for making this post !!..👏

I dun noe why ppl compare SARUN wen this show is abt Arhi and both are equally important . Wat irritates me the most is discussion on their personal lives ,evn though its against IF rules. Besides u nvr noe if anyone frm the CV's or the actors themselves might visit this forum, just imagine wat they'll feel if they come across such posts. Yesterday i read a very disgraceful comment on the dream sequence regarding Barun. ( its not evn worth mentioning🤢). Being a fan we shud respect them and refrain frm discussing their personal lives.

Originally posted by: himba

A very well timed post.

You have echoed some of my thoughts.

Personal life of actors should not be mixed up with the show character.

I don't know if its my feeling or what but i feel that in the off screen interviews Barun and Sanaya have become more guarded and maybe its coz we get their friendship mixed up.

If we want to see them together on screen , as fans we have to respect their privacy and behave a bit maturely.

Originally posted by: sree07

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Can you please ask the mods to keep this as a sticky topic...!

Originally posted by: princessunara

hay i posted this topic a while back.. it echoes ur thoughts.. i also have had enough of this now!! seriously!!
and thanks a LOT for bringing this up!!! it is getting beyond my level of endurance now!!😡

• Loving 1 is easy! but both is torture!!is it?

Ok well let me start it this way..well i have until now been a fan of many actors and actresses..but the thing is in every show i watched until now i had a focal point, meaning s single fav. i liked more that everyone else in it..ex:-MJHT Sanaya (despite me loving everyone else in it to bits too!), BHP- Barun only, Kutumb-Gauri and before that many such..

And lol i have found that life on IF is much easier when u like only one actor/character on a show cz usually 90% have a preference to once character and a very rare 10% or even less show equal love for both characters..
and this is true to this forum also and this is where i am stuck at!!

I belong to that rare 10% who adores and loves Barun & Sanaya equally and love Arnav & Khushi as ArHi and equally..

i came to this show cz of Arnav/Barun and within weeks i fell for Khushi/Sanaya and today i can't measure at all if i care n love one more than the other..

and actually my point is in a forum which usually is filled with members who actually do have a slight partiality towards one character well there r enough topics that take digs at or degrade the other character and the actor..
and annoyingly enough this time around it it double the hurt!! i mean seriously!! if someone bashes Barun I'll poke my head in and defend and if someone bashes Sanaya i'd do the same again!!

it is like to gain something u should bear some pain!! hehe for the first time in my life i love both parties of a couple equally and crazily..therefore it is double the fun watching the show cz i love everything they show even if it is individual scenes with other side characters..

and to have this load of fun i have to get hurt seeing bad comments on either of them..so double the hurt..

Originally posted by: _Dazzling_

Good post Fari!!

I joined IF in Jan 2012 but was a silent reader before that!!

Ok let me be honest,when there are lot of people their views bound to differ!!

I'm a SaRun fan not only Barun or only Sanaya fan and I love the forum!!

Yes negativity is there but I just ignore it!!

I think definition of negativity is also different for everyone!!

Sometimes I also lose it!!

I find many old members here now either only Sanaya fan or Barun fan and they also spread negativity!!

So do you think it's only about new members??

Now personal lives I agree there are fantasies!!

But almost every time some sensible comments also taken as bashing! I think you know it!!

Because as far as I know you've also faced it with some other honourable members of the forum!!

This is all I can say!!

Bidisha

Originally posted by: Keshriya

Fari what an awesome post, loved it, this is exactly the reason I have stopped commenting in those posts, I only comment on genuine spoiler posts, episode analysis, scene analysis posts. I have completely stayed away from Barun and Sanaya praising posts, because its only getting nastier and nastier. Thank God I have the maturity to differentiate that. Anyway I am interested to see how many follow your advice.

Originally posted by: ItIsMyLife

We can ignore the topics created for bashing Sanaya or Barun and their personal lives.
But I feel we have every right to criticize Arnav,Khushi,Anjali,Shyam and the Cvs.Criticizing Arnav does not mean bashing Barun.I hope people understands it.

Originally posted by: incandescent

Shastra you are one of the few members of the forum, who I have noticed to very fair and unbiased. No its't wrong to have a favorite but it's get's difficult when people don't respect other's POV or disrespect other's favorites.

You always have a very balanced view and I respect you for this. I will not deny that what you say does not happen. People do get judgemental at times...it happens with most of us if not all. I become judgemental too. However, I can only speak for my self.

I guess many of us went through this when our views were looked down upon and sometimes certain things come out as a reaction. This is why I am saying, that all of us somewhat responsible for this.

Ranting is fine as long as it not out of the line. But yes, a little bit honesty is the least we can expect from people.

Thank you for honest response. It's valuable for me and hopefully for everyone else too.