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Posted: 13 years ago

#121

Originally posted by: Riyu-N181128
Hi yes its a good post and also true

I know i am a new member no offence to anyone...

I tried to make friendship posted replies ...my first post with so much love to all the members here and could not find any response

i have thought to leave the forum now

i thought this place is inviting and friendly when i saw the forum and all as silent reader

no offence to any1 may be i am wrong...but leaving disappointingly...

well i'll keep loving all of you the show and specially the stars...

i know this post wont count in too...any ways love you all so so so much and also the show...:)...love you guys...i will miss you alll

Oh no dear, every post counts. I guess your post got pushed back. it happens a lot nowadays because of the large number of posts. I know we are sort of having a family feud now, but the forum is great place to hang out. I am sure you'll make lot's of friends.

Stick around and comment in different posts and people will get to know you. 🤗

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incandescent

@incandescent

Sparkler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#122

Originally posted by: Double007
Great post Fari (can I call u that?)

I am a SaRun fan (I can hear a few going "pshhh what a liar" lol) I just have a preference for Sanz. I don't know but I believe there is nothing wrong with that. There are many members here who are partial to Barun and partial to Sanaya. Though I may be a die hard Sanaya fan, but in no way do I hate Barun/SaRun. ArHi would not be ArHi without SaRun. ASR would not be ASR without Barun. As a matter of fact I love SaRun to the core, their friendship I admire, and Barun is a gud actor. It's some of the fans I hve a problem with. I hve gotten in several arguments (and ur a witness to tht) and one of the reasons for that is the indirect comments towards other actors/actress. I say, if you don't want to praise both the leads (though it would b gr8 if u do), then praise ur fav. without bringing the other in. And this isn't for BS fans only, I have seen this from SI fans too, neither groups can be called saints. What is the need to bring the other in? This is exactly what makes those posts a war zone. If Barun is being praised or acknowledged, Sanaya fans will come in to put him down and make a sarcastic comment, and if Sanaya is being praised, it's like some BS fans are itching to give their two cents which is always negative. Then we wonder, why these BS/SI appreciation topics are closed! Wasn't on IF till a while ago, but my sister's very active on IPK forum so I kinda know how it was 6 months ago, and to be frank, we weren't on a killing spree back then! 😕

As for the comments on Mohit, they r so ridiculous it's not even funny! I said this yesterday as well, there is nothing with wishing SaRun to be together because it's natural but why comment everytime? We know there r MoNaya fans here, and they get hurt by these comments. Just now, there is a topic in MJHT forum where a SaRun fan made an MID to bash Mohit, calling him ugly, and is comparing him to Barun! What kind of a Sanaya fan are you when you can't accept her choice to b with Mohit? What kind of a Barun fan are u if you can't accept him being with Pashmeen? Though I must admit the former happens more than the latter! Let's let them make decisions about their life, it is theirs after all!

Oh crap it's so long! Sorry! :)

Hi there,

Sure you can call me Fari. 😊

There is nothing wrong in having a preference because we all have different reasons for watching the show. Some started as SI fans, some as BS fans and some as neutral fans ( who knew nothing about either of them) and a very rare kind who liked both or they like both equally.

It's ridiculous to blame just one side for bashing because a section of both groups are responsible for this. This is making things difficult for all fans who wants to watch and discuss the show in the forum in peace. Nowadays, even when you criticize a character or scene, it is taken as actor bashing and we can't even blame people for misunderstanding. It is easier to misunderstand people because of unfamiliarity, we are becoming too judgemental about people we don't know well. It is not possible to know everyone in the forum but we are clearly losing our tolerance.

The worst part is, whenever there is a BS praising post / SI praising post it is bound to get closed because someone will surely come and bash. Why can't BS/SI fans happily co-exist like they used to. Some people just can't see BS / SI praise. Why?

I have to agree that Mohit is getting bashed a lot lately. I guess he is easily targeted because Pashmeen is not in the public eye. But both has been called ugly. What kind of a fan are you if can't accept their choice?

Thanks for your reply. Don't worry about the length of the post. I am glad I got it all of my chest and I am glad if I helped others to get it off their chest.

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Archu

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Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#123

😊awesome..post and valid points.👍🏼

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Sanjeeda

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Sparkler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#124

With all honesty I want to say that its usually the Barun appreciation/defending posts which are getting closed. I am not being biased but this is what I have seen happening most of the times.

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fascination

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Voyager

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Posted: 13 years ago

#125

I totally agree with you.

There is so much negativity in this Forum. And this negativity is also touching other Forum as MJHT...someone made a post and bashed Mohit and it was a so called SaRun fan.

With this negativity we are giving a bad image to the forum because other forum are much more peacefull...

The forum is totally a mess, people bash Barun and Sanaya but also other Actors and serials...

I totally agree with you the forum was great before because we used to respect other people point of view, everyone was friendly, we tried to avoid fighting with members but it's like that some people love it.

I remembered the days when we have sensible post and bashing was not in our dictionnary...

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incandescent

@incandescent

Sparkler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#126

Originally posted by: AR-ARHI_naila
Fari, a great topic! hats off dear for such a wonderful post.👏

I totally agree wid you. I used to see so much drooling posts in the forum everytime I logged in. but now I miss them soo much!!! there were so many ASRish scene lately, but I didnt see a single post in the forum praising him. I was really really disappointed. I was never good in making drooling post, but I enjoyed reading some of them like from Zoha or shy. but I havent seen them for ages now.

and then the time came when the bashing started. everytime Khushi does somthing funny, people rushed to make tons of posts how she is behaving ott and is not worthy of Arnav Sing Raizadas wife. I was like if ASR have no problem with his wife's childish behavior then why this hue and cry from us? and the "class" discussion really gave me a headache.
Arnav was being bashed too. I just wondered if we can love this ruthless, arrogant ASR from the beginning, then whats the problem now? I was not in the forum during the initial days, so dont know if he was bashed for throwing her from his cabin, breaking her sisters marriage etc etc...but despite all this we loved him. but how come we were no more able to do so when he forcefully marry khushi or throw her out of the room in their marriage night? I was so so disappointed with all this. and the man-handling posts just made me laugh seriously.

there so much more that I could say, but then it will take a thousand posts.so gonna stop now.

Whether it's characters or actors, members or cvs, everyone and everything is bashed nowadays.

Naila this isn't just about drooling but since you asked, do you remember when the original Teri Meri aired or when Khushi danced to Didi tera jethji?...the forum was full of praises.

Those were not serious scenes or moments. But we praised every single thing be it performances, the costumes, the dance, how great BS and SI looked. Sometimes it is all about having fun. We didn't feel like logging off. Where is the fun now?

Compare this to the new Teri Meri. How many praising posts did you see? Did you see a single post praising BS? Yes there were some some post which praised both and some praised which praised SI's outfit and how great she looked. How many people participated?

It is because people are afraid to praise/ drool nowadays.

Criticising character's or their actions. Khushi was heavily bashed after the marriage track. ASR was bashed when he threw her from the window too. But back then, people still praised the actors. But now people don't.

Zoha is busy at the moment and Shy just came back from vacation. But many of us are disappointed with the forum, majority of us are disappointed.

Thanks for appreciating the post. 😊

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rima

@rima

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#127

fari. a very good post. i joined the forum late. yet I can feel the difference between october to now.

quality of assessment has moved from the actor to the person.

judgement of the actors has moved from the role to the person.

rea is mixed with reel as both feed off each other. the forum s a dismal place where only some are trying to reason while others runs loose saying what they want.

thanks for the post buddy. very much needed. just hope it works on people's minds

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-Sukh-

@-Sukh-

Explorer

Posted: 13 years ago

#128

I agree totally on discussing their personal lifes. I thinks its really sad that fans sometimes dont manage to differentiate between Real and reel life characters/ppl!

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ipsita

@sweet_ipsi

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#129

sometyms it feels really bad to see the condition of the forum...agreed dat its a forum so there wl be diverse opinions...but of late the content of the posts have changed...more than analysing the characters some ppl are laying more stress on the actors,discussing their personal lives...& the most weird thing is dat people are comparing barun & sanaya...im sure the no. of posts that are getting closed due to fights have also gone up...a lot many ppl might also be scared to give their views bcoz thr is a high probability of gtng misunderstood...

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