Originally posted by: --Anna--
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Sathya, Love the title. 😳 "Reality Bites" - completely apt for today's episode - Waiting for your analysis!! 😉
Whatever I do, however much I resist I cannot help but come up with my bak bak! Today I had decided that - "No Anna, no analysis today!" But nahi - when it comes down to thinking about the episode and how brilliantly fabulous it was - I could not help but pen my thoughts down! 😛
First of all I need to congratulate Sathya and Doodhs for this wonderful thread and I say this not because they write wonderful analysis - but because I have started feeling that the PH actually does read it. While watching the episode all I could think was - that we all had written, discussed and wanted this for I don't know when!! And today - every bit of it was present on TV and my eyes were almost out! 😳
Coming to the episode - The Shyam - Khushi and Arnav angle is still where it was and I do not expect it to move when Shyam has been missing from action. Something that I wanted to ask everyone - am I the only one who misses him everyday!? I don't know but I did expect some after reaction from him - on his planning when such a huge thing has fallen on him but no! Please writers give me Shyam back! 😭
"Khushi spoils and Arnav rectifies"
The trend in Arnav Khushi relationship is that Khushi spoils things and Arnav rectifies it. Today with her open mouth, Khushi did not realize that she was actually harming Preetika's relationship. She meant well, no doubt about that - but did she realize that how would it be taken by the Groom's - Ankur's family!? Nope - she did not. She forgot that in middle class families - one does not question the groom or his family and she even thought right and polite, did exactly that. And the result was as expected - the groom's family decided to break off the rishta.
There where Khushi was directly approaching the Groom's family, Arnav Singh Raizada was playing his own game. He awakened the consciousness of the groom - reasoning with him and making him understand where he was wrong. He hit directly at the nail - and that is why at the end moment - it was Arnav Singh Raizada who saved the marriage from being stopped and hence rectified Khushi's mistake
Significance : Khushi kept a secret that was not hers to keep - her intentions honorable and righteous - just like today - yet poor decision. If today she has landed herself in this whole mess - she is to be partly blamed for it - it has to be accepted that had she made a selfish decision that time - she could have saved herself, Payal and Anjali from the upcoming and impending danger.
Now Arnav is at grave fault - no denying that - nevertheless he is rectifying what he thinks and believes that Khushi has messed up. He feels by marrying Khushi - he has helped Anjali. But then again - whatever he is doing is wrong - but when he learns of the whole and complete truth - he will again rectify what he did wrong.
Khushi's monologues
" Hum inhe kabhi samjh nahi payenge"
"Ek insaan ke do chehre - kabhi shaitaan, kabhi rajkumar"
Khushi has seen both the faces of Arnav - not now but before also. She probably knows him better than anyone else as well. But her understanding of him is still in the beginning stages because understanding Arnav is very very difficult. He is a layered character and anyone who has seen both the important layers - would find it difficult to understand him.
If yesterday's episode was about Arnav's confusion between Head and the heart, today was about Khushi's confusion between her head and the heart. She has seen two Arnav's - and both have made disastrous impact on her. One has made a deep space in her heart unknowingly as her Rajkumar and the other resides in her mind - as Shaitaan!
I want Khushi to understand and I know she will - The Rajkumar is not always WHITE and the Shaitaan is not always BLACK - the person she loves is GREY. And the day she accepts that she would have understood in totality who Arnav Singh Raizada is and what makes this man. Today was again the beginning of her confusion - the man who helped another man become a better and a good husband - and the man who himself is not a good husband. The difference so well shown. And that is where I hope her mind pricks and it keeps pricking for her to get that answer from him on why he married her. This time I can hope we stick to this seriousness than shifting to unnecessary comedy.
Also I would mention here - AGAIN - Buaji and Garima have been a witness to Arnav Khushi bonding on the dance floor. This is the second time after the "gol gappa" incident and I am glad that we have 2 ladies from RM - Anjali and Nani and 2 ladies from GH - Garima and Buaji - who have been a witness to the love Arnav and Khushi share. When time comes - the RM ladies and the GH ladies will join hands and bring these two together.
The mother sees the real Arnav Singh Raizada
A mother's heart is the purest on the whole earth. She is capable enough to know what resides in whose heart and how a person is. She sees, she understands and she knows. Today Garima understood who Arnav Singh Raizada is deep inside. She knew he was not very happy coming into GH - she knew he was obviously finding it difficult to adjust - yet she also understood that he however obnoxious he may seem - he did not deliberately try and make life difficult for them - he did not become a pain - he did not complain.
"Woh dil ke bahut saaf hai"
How true. He is very clean from his heart. Not once has he taken out his anger of Kushi on the Gupta ladies - not once did he complain - his heart is clean - and his actions would be cleaner if not for the misunderstanding he was in.
The mother daughter moment
The mother daughter moment started when Garima asked Khushi of whether she was thinking of Arnav - yet for me it started when Garima starts talking about Khushi's happiness!
Time and Again, I have wondered why are the Gupta ladies - Garima or Buaji NOT questioning Khushi!? Why are they not asking her about her married life!? And today it happened. Today finally Garima asked her daughter about her married life. Whether she was happy or not.
"Tum donon ek doosre ki parvah karte ho - par tareeka alag hai dikhane ka"
How true! Nothing misses the eyes of a mother does it!? Garima has noticed both Arnav and Khushi and she has seen both their interactions - and closely and she can see that both of them deep down in their heart love each other - but when it comes to expression of that love - that is different. When Garima will come to know about the conditions in which Khushi had to marry Arnav - she will definitely hate him - but this understanding of him that she has developed now - will help her to see his reasons. She will be a mother to him then when she will also understand his reasons and his insecurities and he will also be her son when he will repent and apologize sincerely for his mistakes.
Garima asking Khushi for her happiness ;
"Hum khushi nahi hain...(seeing the shocked expression on Garima's face) Balki hum bahut Khush hain..."
That is who Khushi is. Khushi manages to hide her pain behind her words and behind her smile and at this moment the only person who could see through them and understand them was only Arnav and Arnav alone for he was the reason of it. Just like when the truth dawns on Khushi - only she will be able to understand him because she will know his reasons.
She hides her pain successfully and lists down everything that she would actually want Arnav to be like and what he is not. And Arnav knows the pain and understands it - he is a witness to the pious mother - daughter moment and he can see through the lies that Khushi tells Garima and more than that - he can again see that he has crashed the heart of the girl he loves into million pieces - he has finished all her hopes of living a happily ever after - he has trampled all her dreams of having a perfect husband and that is what does not let him sleep at night. However much he may want to hate her - he may want to destroy her - he may want to finish her - he cannot help but regret his actions and now he is not even trying to justify that what he has done was right. The reality is seeping in him - he has spoiled her life - and he is guilty.
Pointers :
1) Everyone was perfect today!! Sanaya was Fabulous!
2) Can I please get Shyam!? I so want to see him now!
Favorite Character of the day :
Khushi and Garima! I absolutely loved the mother daughter interaction. It was beautiful and made me cry and when I cry that scene has to be the best! 😆
All in all a FABULOUS Episode!! However much I tried to keep myself from writing anything - I just could not stay away! 😆
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