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I know I am going to upset a whole lot of Forum girls, but truly I found her caring also in the last episode so annoying.
Because even then she was not behaving normally and respectful of someone who is sick but she was being so OTT in asking how he is feeling that I can't blame him for thinking she was acting. It definitely did not look genuine to me.
Never has she shown Arnav that she cares and loves him. She is also equally damaged like Arnav in an emotional sense. She is good to everybody but is ready to attack him for even the slightest thing. She is so busy impressing Nani, maim, Anjali, mama, Akash and looking after Payal that she really doesn't bother about Arnav. She is even quiet with Shyam, always has been even before she knew about his marriage.
I find her very selfish in her relationship with Arnav, if you can call it a relationship. While he blows hot and cold, she just does not show any interest. Everything she is doing is for sister Payal's marriage according to her. That is all she cares about. Before she was doing everything for La.
Even in her own mind she has not yet felt it was time to win over Arnav.
I feel sorry for Arnav. He married her because of the MU but we must realise he married her because he loves her. Had he not loved her he would not have married her. He would have come up with another solution to this problem with Shyam. He married her because he did not want to lose her. Of course he gets angry every time he sees her with Shyam because she does not say anything about him, and tries to cover up everything every time. He is not a fool. Like he told her "Just because I don't say anything does not mean I don't know anything"
Instead of spending her whole time annoying and irritating him and us, why doesn't she try to find a solution to the problem between them. Why does she not try and win him over.
On the odd occasion when she has given him some attention, he just melts. She can see that. But she is so stubborn. She has so much pride and ego too. Why keep attacking ASR for his ego. Khushi also is so full of pride where he is concerned. Everyone can see that. When Anjali advised her about being loving and gentle with him and then seeing him change towards her, what did she do. She made a mockery of the whole thing. He is not stupid you know.
She has no respect for his work or his position.
She purposely acts even more uncouth and like a villager. How come Payal carries herself in a more dignified manner, speaks good English and does not shout and scream like her.
She is just trying to impress Anjali, nano and co.
Not interested in Arnav, and that is what that really annoys me.
However bad he is sometimes, we have to admit he has changed and mellowed so much for her. Take for example holi, dancing in sangeet and so many other instances. Many times he has controlled his anger and said nothing. But has KHUSHI changed for him. NO. She does not want to change e.g. improve her English, her dress sense, her OTT behaviour.
I know many of you are going to get upset with me but I just love ASR / Arnav character and when I see Khushi not even thinking in terms of love and caring for him, it really upsets me.
Your comments are most welcome.
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