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--Anna--

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Posted: 13 years ago

Today I got enough reasons on why I always supported ASR in the past one month and I am proud of the fact that I did. When I made posts that supported ASR - Arnav was supposedly very wrong - and I did agree to - throwing her out was not right - yet he was guilty - he was in pain and everyone's judgement of what 'could' have happened to Khushi then was the primary reason of the supposed domestic violence.

Yet today - I realize I was always right! Khushi can never match ASR - she may have a heart but not that matches Arnav's. Even in hate - that man was guilty and in pain and regretted what he did. He cared enough to throw her the blanket and keep an extra one the other day. Did anything happen to Khushi!? NO! Did she get ill!? NO! Was Arnav concerned for her!? YES! And yet even after the regret - he was blamed!

Same thing happened today - Arnav had it coming - yet he suffered - was Khushi concerned!? NO!? Was she even bit bothered that he had sprained his neck!? NO! Did she care he had left the house without eating anything!? NO! Did Arnav surrender to her!? YES! Did Arnav blackmail her!? NO! Even after so much - Did Arnav left her to fall!? NO! Was he concerned about her cold!? YES!

Yet - he is the one who has suffered with not a single regret from Khushi's side. Everyone can go on about Arnav - but the fact of the matter is that Arnav Singh Raizada proves that he has a bigger heart. He does because he can feel the pain and the guilt, however even in her thoughts - not even once was Khushi shown to care.

I am sorry to say - its easier to say that a guy does wrong but what Khushi did today was not right as well. He respected her - he left the room or he could have slept on the bed forcing her to move to the sofa. He cares for her and that is why he did save her from falling even after her acting crazy and giving him a neck sprain.

Strangely such an hooplah was created about Khushi sleeping outside and nothing happened to her - however worse happened to Arnav and then they say Arnav's behavior was inconsiderate.

Love you ASR and always! And I am happy to have understood you :)

Love :)

P.S : Creatives please do not make me hate Khushi. Her antics maybe adorable - but her lack of concern - even in her thoughts - made me wonder does she even love Arnav or is it just Arnav who is mad enough for her and losing his mind.

No bashing against ASR - because whatever one may say - because this guy does not deserve it

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-CoolChick-

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Posted: 13 years ago

i so agree with u. after watching today's epi...one question that struck my mind was...what did Arnav actually see in her and fell in love with????? 😕😕😕

where is da concern and care from khushi's side?? Y is it alwaz Arnav...and Arnav...and Arnav whose shown to be doubly pained and hurted, every single time a tear drops off her eyes ?

Apart from her famous "Inhe mitha mana hai"...i have never seen any sort of concern from her side..m so disappointed with CVs for showing such inconsistency in her character.

Remember during one of the Navratri epis back in Oct...khushi had kept a fast, but the moment Arnav came to knw abt this...he was soo worried...he ran with the tiffin that anjali had prepared to give her...he was and is soo much affected by every good or bad thing that happens to her. But what did we see today...she was nt atall worried that he went to office empty stomach...rather she cared for the so called "LOAN"...😕...i mean...has she really found the reason for her dhak-dhak and acidity??????????? NO...or rather YES !!! as today one member rightly made a poll out of it...SHE LOVES LAKSHMI !!!! n this is da FACT !!

again shes gona fall ill, and itz arnav who is gona be at the caring...worried end...tending to her all night long...tensing in every "AANCHO" she does !

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arsh_sp

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Posted: 13 years ago

yeah i really want to see what arnav bashers have to say about this!!ASR is a gentleman...and as he said HE IS NOT CHEAP!!!!

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ragvir.fan

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Posted: 13 years ago

i agree .i also felt a bit awkward on khushi's action... i mean her reaction was normal like nothing happened and on the dinning table when he left he left withoutt eating.suddenly khushi' xpression changed then i thought that khushi was upset that he hasnt ate anything and left but she was upset on not clearing the credit amount...

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aura9

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Posted: 13 years ago

Looks like in this show Arnav is the delicate darling. Khushi was too bad today Arnav had got his neck sprained and it was like she didn't care nor did she feel guilty for it.

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--Anna--

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: arsh_sp
yeah i really want to see what arnav bashers have to say about this!!ASR is a gentleman...and as he said HE IS NOT CHEAP!!!!

Trust me darling I do not even want to talk about Arnav Bashers! They can do it for all I care because I was given a good reason on why I supported ASR all the time and understood him! I felt sorry for him today and I always will - because Khushi will not be able to match the love he has for her

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asumi

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Posted: 13 years ago

ann! i love you!! seriously! i was crying! all the while . . . yes when khushi was in agony i cried too, but it was different! I knew she will be safe in his hands.

but today- all i can feel is- does his family deserve him? can Khushi ever do justice to the love he will show? she is adorable! i am a girl ( a few years elder to her,but equally childish) i know! but there is a way you take revenge!

when he forced her, when he pushes her, that was when she had to fight back! ( like she always did in the past), not after confession and all ( whether she remembers or not i dont know! but when she can look past Shyam and run around happily sniffing roses, why cant she do the same to Arnav? why cant she cut him some slack? Now for those who say- he did it! now he deserves it- does he? really? what about the time he paid the bills of her father? he dint do it to prove any thing! the time in nainital- i can go on! yes there are situation he was rude, was she not equally rude then? dint she pour hot tea on him? NOW she is not doing it doesn't mean Arnav is at fault! DONT bash him- a humble request!

Arnav! ( if you notice, i never called him ASR, because that is NEVER what he is) i love his character to bits! and like you said anna "THAT is WHY i support You Arnav"

P.S - for all those who say I love him for the looks of Barun Sobti! You are soo wrong!, yes i did start watching it because of barun, i watched shows where the lead is ditto like Arnav, i loved the character there too!
barun as Arnav is one side of the story, Arnav - the character is the other side! please dont mix the looks with character and draw conclusions

P.P.S barun is always cute! thank you for doing justice to such a wonderful character!

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shreyab

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Posted: 13 years ago

R U KIDDING ME!!!!!

HE BLACKMAILED HER TO MARRY HIM ...SHE DOES NOT EVEN KNOW WHY...Y SHUD SHE CARE BUT ANYWAYS SHE STILLL DOES CARE...

i cant believe you want her to b apologetic

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Prathima

@prathikri

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Posted: 13 years ago

Anna a big hug to you 🤗
Was waiting for your post...
I almost wanted to switch off the tv today ..
I said this in Zoha's post also..
When ever he has hurt her he has always regretted it , even when he threw her out he was in pain but today Kushi was enjoying hurting him.. It was plain disgusting to watch.
You know if Kushi had her neck sprained he would have taken care of her but she did nothing..
Playing around is okay but not intentionally hurting another person.

When he was talking to aman about some one cheating for a moment i thought she would think of her family hiding Shyam's matter but no she thinks of the small sum she had loaned..

I really dont care what people her think but you are correct kushi can never match him..

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689471

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Ok so because when he made her sleep by the pool he was concerned does that make it right? Did Khushi know that he was concerned? Is she a mind reader to know her husband love her but is just pretending to hate her? He chose to sleep by the pool, she did not send him there but he sent her there. We have to remember that Khushi thinks Arnav is mean to her and right now she is trying to piss him off. As they say "Everything is fair in love and war" Still I have not forgiven him for letting her sleep by the poolside as the room is big enough. Anyway his own words came back to bite him when he said he can't stay in the same room as her although he's dying to. BTW I also love ASR but his actions are too unconventional and sadistic at times.