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Posted: 13 years ago

#321

Originally posted by: sunflower52
I read the updates and decided to give a skip. I am going to stick to your post only and thathya's.

Unless and until they do not bring Khushi to the level of ASR in intensity in their love. I am not going to watch.

This is suppose to be shown 2 people in love not one sided.

You are right Khushi was least bothered about Arnav. I do not know why ASR had to smile on her comment.

To me just seeing her smile him eating her food is not going to convince me about her feeling. She has to show more.

Salma! I wish I had the courage to avoid it - I just lose out! And then people coming here piss me off further more when They do not understand the differnece between bashing and discussion. Some people really need to go to school again!

My point exactly - if its a love story - why the love always from his side!? I did like her yesterday I would not deny that - for me that samm concern was a start! Yet - I want more from her - I want her confsuion to end and her to realize her feelings and to convince me of the intensity that Arnav has! She does not match up to his level.

True Arnav has done bad from her pov but so has Khushi from his pov! Yet I see the same intensity from his side and the confusion from hers. I want that to change if nothing else.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#322

Anna

you made some good points but i so don't agree with what you wrote

Arn does have a good heart but he will never come close to matching Khushi.

Look at the points you make

- He threw khushi a blanket... this was after she had endured all that yelling and glaring and a slap from her family while he just stood there ( ok he was hurting but he did treat like a dog)

- Arnav eas hurting today? none of his family seemed too concerned but you could tell Khush does

care immensely for him. You can tell by the way she keeps saying " his wife"

- The food she took for him she said " from tomorrow i will make special food for you.

You have to remember he has bashed and mistreated her so much that it seems to her that he does not care. She does not know that he would be hurting cause of Shyam. The way he threatens her

about Payal... in Khushis mind that is the ultimate.

For you to say Khushi will never math Arnav ... that is a far fetching... Arnav has a heart

but Khushi and heart that forgives

Just my opinion

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Posted: 13 years ago

#323

Originally posted by: mzeesana
Anna

you made some good points but i so don't agree with what you wrote

Arn does have a good heart but he will never come close to matching Khushi.

Look at the points you make

- He threw khushi a blanket... this was after she had endured all that yelling and glaring and a slap from her family while he just stood there ( ok he was hurting but he did treat like a dog)

- Arnav eas hurting today? none of his family seemed too concerned but you could tell Khush does
care immensely for him. You can tell by the way she keeps saying " his wife"

- The food she took for him she said " from tomorrow i will make special food for you.

You have to remember he has bashed and mistreated her so much that it seems to her that he does not care. She does not know that he would be hurting cause of Shyam. The way he threatens her
about Payal... in Khushis mind that is the ultimate.

For you to say Khushi will never math Arnav ... that is a far fetching... Arnav has a heart
but Khushi and heart that forgives

Just my opinion

:)

Thanks for your reply! Coming to the basic point - no ones feeliings depends on what the other person feels! If you love someone - you do not care whether the other person treats u like crap - u still care and that is what I saw missing during the sprained neck incident. Arnav may have done wrong anfd I will never deny that because I know that - but that does not mean Khushi will fall low enough to laugh at his pain and taunt him. I do not know about you guys but when I had a neck sprain I was damn hurt and no one laughed at me instead I was off from office.

Secondly - To your points :

1) Yes Khushi got a slap from her family - but Arnav was also not accepted very happily into him! Ofcourse no one could slap him - but why blame Arnav for that!? Blame Garima!

2) Khushi calling his his wife does not show concern - its just her making full use of the situation. If she really cared - she would have been worried about his neck sprain and atleast about the fact that he did not eat anything - the concern was not there - yet when it came later - I liked it! So just calling herself his wife - does not show care. Btw - Anjali was concerned - about the neck sprain and him not eating anything.

3) She said that - she did not doi it yet! However I would say I would love it if she keeps her promise!

Now coming to bashing her - Arnav was rude only in the beginning and that was well understood why - If I can see Khushi's POV then also see that Arnav was in for a misunderstanding and he still is - but did it stop him from covering his head when he saw her about to get hurt!? No! Did it stop him from making her fall in the bathroom!? No. From his POV Khushi is a cheater - who cheated his family Just like Arnav using Payal is ultimate for Khushi - similarly Khushi is cheating his sister - that is ultimate- he could not care - yet he does and these small instances are to prove thatm But does it depend on the fact that Khushi is a cheater!? No - when you love - u just love and when you hate - you just hate!

I do NOT want Khushi to apologize to him - I want that concern even in that hatred. And I see that more from Arnav and that is why he has a bigger heart!

P.S : Khushi knows she has hurt Arnav - she has a hint and yet she does not play on that!? Do you think that is care!? I do not. If someone tell me that I have hurt them - I would try my best to find out what I did wrong - and I do not see that from Khushi.

That is how I percieve it to be!

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Posted: 13 years ago

#324

Thanks for your reply! Coming to the basic point - no ones feeliings depends on what the other person feels! If you love someone - you do not care whether the other person treats u like crap -
when someone treats you like crap on continous basis... then a day comes when you just loose it. You can imagine Khushi has had to endure her fathers illness, no money her family not working and so on... and on top of all that ASR's behaviour ...
Despite all that she was drawn to him... She said to him in holi

pata nahi kyu me apke dur nahi rah sakti...

the looks she gives him seeing him eating she adores him...

u still care and that is what I saw missing during the sprained neck incident. Arnav may have done wrong anfd I will never deny that because I know that - but that does not mean Khushi will fall low enough to laugh at his pain and taunt him.
You talking of sprained neck?... he threw khushi from his office...
sent her to park cars in the rain... let her sleep out by the pool without a blanket
and further she is sleeping out and he is sleeping in and he does not have the gumption to like stay awake at nite and worry about her

it seems like every one goes gaga as soon as he shows little care... not saying he does not care he does ... he has a pure heart BUT come on... khushi laughing at his neck pain? you have to remember she sees it as funny as might ASR never gets hurt he is strong...
she is not laughing at him out of spite ... she is laughing at him out of fun and its a play between them...

I do not know about you guys but when I had a neck sprain I was damn hurt and no one laughed at me instead I was off from office.

Secondly - To your points :

1) Yes Khushi got a slap from her family - but Arnav was also not accepted very happily into him! Ofcourse no one could slap him - but why blame Arnav for that!? Blame Garima!

blame garima???? she is a mother who is upset and is not getting an answer ... ASR was hurt and he forced her to marry her and didn't care what happens to her he cared more for his DI ( rightfully so) but from KKG pov it was all unfair to her ... she was sacrificing for her sister and taking all this crap cause of him... and then to sleep out... it would drive a normal person insane... for him to even be in same room as him and smile at him and talk to him is cause of who she is ... he does not deserve that ...

2) Khushi calling his his wife does not show concern - its just her making full use of the situation. If she really cared - she would have been worried about his neck sprain and atleast about the fact that he did not eat anything - the concern was not there - yet when it came later - I liked it! So just calling herself his wife - does not show care. Btw - Anjali was concerned - about the neck sprain and him not eating anything.

care that he did not eat anything? he is a big boy... a rich boy... a stubborn boy...
Anna dear Anna he does not even have a hot body 😉 lol
3) She said that - she did not doi it yet! However I would say I would love it if she keeps her promise!

she will... she thinks of him ... she rushe dto tell him don't eat the jalebi its got sugar.

if she did not care she would let him OD on sugar

She is a woman with a very good and clean heart that she would give it to him without
question. She would follow him to the end of the world...

her standin behind him at holi ... her running to him at the hospital... she knows he is
the only one for her ... she trusts him but at the same time she is a minx... she is not
heartless... i mean less heartless than ARN ... she is the heart in that relationship

Ok i made enough points ... phew

and Anna you are awesome by the way i love your posts ...

cheeer :)

Now coming to bashing her - Arnav was rude only in the beginning and that was well understood why - If I can see Khushi's POV then also see that Arnav was in for a misunderstanding and he still is - but did it stop him from covering his head when he saw her about to get hurt!? No! Did it stop him from making her fall in the bathroom!? No. From his POV Khushi is a cheater - who cheated his family Just like Arnav using Payal is ultimate for Khushi - similarly Khushi is cheating his sister - that is ultimate- he could not care - yet he does and these small instances are to prove thatm But does it depend on the fact that Khushi is a cheater!? No - when you love - u just love and when you hate - you just hate!

I do NOT want Khushi to apologize to him - I want that concern even in that hatred. And I see that more from Arnav and that is why he has a bigger heart!

P.S : Khushi knows she has hurt Arnav - she has a hint and yet she does not play on that!? Do you think that is care!? I do not. If someone tell me that I have hurt them - I would try my best to find out what I did wrong - and I do not see that from Khushi.

That is how I percieve it to be!

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Posted: 13 years ago

#325

@Mzeeskana : Darling ! I get ur point! Khushi has suffered a lot and she is not to be blamed for it! And I am again saying - I do not want her to say sorry or be aplologetic - I just want that thought. Nothing more - nothing less.

Now coming to what Arnav has done - darling I always say he was a ruthless monster. But why ccompare the ASR who was not in love now!? See the change he has had in love! That is what is my basic point - If u see the change in ASR after he has fallen in love with Khushi that is very much different than in Khushi. Arnav's character has grown and so has its expression of feelings!

Now look at Arnav's character - he was a stone hearted person - Khushi changed him so much that now he expresses so much! And why do u feel is a small thing that he does!? when Khushi's bangles broke - did he need to react the way he did!? No he did not! Yet he did - his desperation was shown - the feelings were shown! But Khushi's character who is supposed to feel - does not now instead she taunts and smugs at him, Not done! So it is huge for when I understand Arnav the person and realize how much he has changed - He sure does have a big heart then and therefore.

That scene was incosiderate - And that is why I liked the concern of Khushi today but it still does not match my expectation of her and how I see only passion from Arnav's side too!

And I am saying again feeling is important - the thought should be there - she does not have to do anything about it!

U put ur point well - so no issues :) A good discussion always welcone not rude comments!

Love :))

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Posted: 13 years ago

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That scene was incosiderate - And that is why I liked the concern of Khushi today but it still does not match my expectation of her and how I see only passion from Arnav's side too!

And I am saying again feeling is important - the thought should be there - she does not have to do anything about it!

U put ur point well - so no issues :) A good discussion always welcone not rude comments!

Love :))

ok you make lots of sense but to me all the past visions of what he did to her comes flashing... and you are right this was before he fell in love with her ... and i think he does some of those things still cause he loves watching her in action... i truly believe that ... he just in awe of her and enjoys watching her frown and get all confused and suddenly has some " dumb" idea which just does not feel dumb ...

I think he loves how her hair falls on her face i notice he is always looking there...

one thing that hit me today was about her laughing at his pain ... but you know what i think i do " grudgingly" have to admit that was not khushi character ... and the side of me that would have liked to just see the scene was her to not only show concern but force him to let her treat him and not take no for an answer ... that is Khushi... and the scene i would have watched like 20 times lol...

So darling this round goes to you hehe... well you have to remember i am biased and blinded when it comes to KKG 😉

for some reasons todays episode just went by fast... they could have given if a little touch of romance but i guess KKG rigt now is out there to prove a point

will watch out for your write ups and refute every point you make lol 😉

so just curious... how much gaga do you go over ASR?

love back at you :))