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enigma17

@enigma17

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Posted: 13 years ago

#81

Originally posted by: FairyLiquidSoap

An Apology

In retrospect and after a cooling off period I do realize I have targeted a section of the forum age wise for which I do apologize. Some of you have maturity beyond your years and many of you are also friends whose posts and opinions I have always admired or treasured. Age should never matter.There fore I am removing the words teeny boppers etc and replacing it with immature and less life experienced which can apply to any one from 8 to80 and if in spite of this people still take offence then I am afraid there is nothing else I can do about it😊

Trust you will understand that my anger and frustration got the better of me for which I am now sorry

FLS.

A smile on your face please as this is rather a difficult confession for me to make.I am 99 years old but look about 60 years with the help of Oil of Delay!!! ( Its buy one get one free at the moment if anyone is interested ) I am a strumpet of a mama I still drool after Mr Sobti,

Waits for the campaign to oust little old me out of IF!!😭😭😭

Its my age!! I DIGRESSED!! Sorry

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oh.petite.one

@oh.petite.one

Voyager

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Posted: 13 years ago

#82

Originally posted by: FairyLiquidSoap

An Apology

In retrospect and after a cooling off period I do realize I have targeted a section of the forum age wise for which I do apologize. Some of you have maturity beyond your years and many of you are also friends whose posts and opinions I have always admired or treasured. Age should never matter.There fore I am removing the words teeny boppers etc and replacing it with immature and less life experienced which can apply to any one from 8 to80 and if in spite of this people still take offence then I am afraid there is nothing else I can do about it😊
Trust you will understand that my anger and frustration got the better of me for which I am now sorry

It isn't the age factor that people are offended with.

I understand that you were angry and frustrated, but that really isn't a good enough reason to suggest that a lot of the members here are shallow and condoning of domestic violence, just because we appreciate a actors good looks, it was kind of insulting.

Edited by oh.petite.one - 13 years ago

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enigma17

@enigma17

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Posted: 13 years ago

#83

Originally posted by: Rabba-Ve-Delena
Reserved, the title has me intrigued!

Hi Ouma😊

The title ( Denial is not a river in Egypt! ) reminds me of quest posed by friends using the following words. The sentence construction had to incorporate these words, defeat, deduct, defence and detail.The words had to be used in that order... Ready??... Sure???...

De feet of de duck went over de fence before de tail!!!

😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳

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AllSmiles86

@AllSmiles86

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Posted: 13 years ago

#84

Originally posted by: FairyLiquidSoap
Don't deny what is the obvious and don't rationalize abuse as forgivable when he seemingly shows his angst or is dressed up sexily. Don't give false sympathy that you get his situation because it demeans us all here and especially those caught in real life abusive relationships

Well said! I must stay that your posts are such a pleasure to my eyes. Your hold on the English language and your treatment of emotional paradigms is quite beautiful. With that being said, this pos is, for the lack of a better phrase, out of this world. You showed us how most females, when presented with an Adonis-physique and mannerisms, expresses abuses in any manner, we somehow such flick it off like a booger. We tend to forget that the heart this Adonis has is despicable in many aspects, yet we forget that.

I hope the CVs realize that despite the many efforts the likes of Farhan Akhtar are promoting to alleviate domestic abuse against women, portraying ASR like a feral beast will cancel out the efforts.

Despite all that, I hope ASR turns around and seeks redemption!

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Rabba-Ve-Delena

@Rabba-Ve-Delena

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Posted: 13 years ago

#85

I s the combination of the two not possible? Bravo on the way you spoke your mind and I won't deny that I drooled over Barun yesterday but then it is equally true I was frustrated at the continuation of the poolside sleeping track and what was worse, ASR's apparent indifference to it now - I guess one can appreciate Barun's assets and also be irked by the CVs ignorance in what they're condoning! I can understand why you'd get the notion the Barun droolers are that ones who indirectly condoning ASR's behaviour or sometimes directly and openly justifying it BUT I assure that isn't the case.

The CVs get it really right in this show sometimes but they also get it wrong and badly wrong it seems. They're skating over it continuously I know there are many who simple do not care, think it is of little importance but the fact she is still sleeping outside isn't given much focus shows either the writers don't know how to step out of that one and backtrack or they're using it as a trump card to show Arnav's hate towards her weakening or his complete redemption when he apologises and invites her back .. we cannot predict.

I understand your frustration but those who appreciate Barun for whatever reason aren't simply those who are turning a blind eye to what is happening to Khushi.

For me I adore them both. Yes I still think the writers have damaged his character by the poolside arrangement but it only prove how weak their writing is when Khushi can assert herself and tell Arnav not speak to her in one or another but hasn't fought for her right to sleep inside, so either she prefers it that way or she doesn't ... it's the writing that is flawed here.

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FairyLiquidSoap

@FairyLiquidSoap

Sparkler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#86

@Dashing girl

Honestly Dashing girl even the fun of watching those once upon a time IPKKND has gone because all that comes right to the fore is his current jerky behavior. Like I said I don't deny reality and that is what comes right in front and sadly the CV's have messed it up real bad with this current hate track. There is hatred and then there is derogative hatred and this is what is letting the serial down but then like you wrote there are some who are willing to be comfortably numb and happy so whatever makes folks cheerful and thanks for responding.

I did like your post on the faking hatred and faking love it was very insightful

@laddoo598
Thank you so much for your reply and I did not mean to be this hard hitting but sometimes when you go for a review of the night' episode and all you get is five consecutive posts on his physique and I am not kidding, it happened last week and when you see those pictures and connect it with a scene where he may have just mistreated her again it really jars. I have had no problems with drooling posts before everyone has a right to like what they want but the timing and the words stinks right now. And yes you made a very telling comment what if this was not Barun then how would the forum reaction be. Once again thank you for replying and this is going to be a real long night for me trying to reply to all

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MentalExotica

@MentalExotica

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

#87

Originally posted by: Sevpuri
NO WAY !!
How would you have reacted if someone passed judgements and called you an idiot ?

Noone has been rude but i do think some ppl in this forum are way too rude and pass offensive comments..

i havent seen those posts but i don't banish anyone's opinions.

respect all.

i only commented on those parts of this post that i agreed with.

FLS has well apologized for the same. i am sure she didnt mean to hurt sentiments.

SevPuri - personal scoop - ur ID makes me hungry.

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thechaigirl

@thechaigirl

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Posted: 13 years ago

#88

Dear FairyliquidSoap,

First of all I would like to say great and much needed post!!!

Having said that I should tell you I am one of those "forum members" who were busy drooling over Barun in Nike tshirt and ucla tracks and I was little disappointed to see that our drooling over Barun would be interpreted as condoning ASR which certainly me and others do not…but I understand that you wrote in a frustrated state.

For me what is important and should be the focus is the premise of your post which everyone in the forum agrees to. I am a newbie having joined the forum only last month and I love the way people discuss and share ideas/opinions with each other….I absolutely find the forum a great place where I get to read opinions which are so varied and often different from mine

The reason I used the word much needed for post is that I feel the cv's are aware of the public opinion that the forum conveys…and I m glad that your post brought the attention back to an extremely dangerous/ disgusting idea being propagated by the cv's. I am glad to see the response your post has got so far and hope to see more….

I saw posts about getting rid of 'ji ji " and finally today we were rid of the "ji"………I am hoping that cv's see the public opinion on the sleeping arrangements and realize that they are catering to an educated, cultured audience who will not keep quiet/accept such trash being thrown at them….

Gud post…

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FairyLiquidSoap

@FairyLiquidSoap

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Posted: 13 years ago

#89

@docgirl

I had to laugh at your comment and yes so true Great hearing from you😊

@nottygarfield

Thanks for that lovely compliment and by the looks of some of the responses I should have remained missing for some more time😊.

I honestly give up after tonight's episode he is going to tie her into a contract using Payal so yeah more fun and frolic our way

@midnight sun

I am glad you brought it up this is a new trend and one which is starting to irritate. Previously you had a wonderful few who would make it real fun and absolutely hilarious for us to see and there was nothing you could find offensive but suddenly a whole lot of posts dedicated only to describing or targeting his physical attributes have mushroomed and you would be glad to know you were not the only one quite a few also shared with me via mail and were getting put off by this trend

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Blue Rose

@uniquebluerose

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Posted: 13 years ago

#90

Well my two cents on what i feel on today episode!!!

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/54059891�

all i can say is even after fuming and fretting you have managed to write a decent post with hundred percent sense while i in my anger and frustration end up writing a totally confused post!!! which rarely makes nay sense!!!!

so sad but true!!!!! and yes i agree with the sleeping arrangements does to get justified even if Khushi actually had an affair with Shyam!!!

and well don't even get me on how the reaction will be if Khushi did anything half as bad as this...i remember post calling her stupid for going back to her parents house or still worse telling the wrong thing at the wrong time to Shyam a few friday back...

I wish i were able to quit this didi ki saut and her bhai nonsenscial whims.... I still can't understand the rant of i will send Payal home i will send payl home...did he swallow a broken record and nope his saying it all wet and hot doesn't give it any new meaning!!!!

CVs have totally butchered the loves story, the characters the essence of their romance everything!!!