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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hi Swathi!

Glad to see your post. As usual...very well written...driving the point straight home.


As I wrote in Neem Sundari's post, I got tired of complaining everyday about the sleeping arrangements...every single day I hope the creatives will address the issue after coming up with some plausible excuse for Khushi to demand it herself...but No!
Everyone, including Khushi seems to have moved on.
I am thoroughly disappointed that she is still made to sleep outside...and aghast that the creatives have shown ASR totally over his guilt of making her sleep in the cold...

It seems, they are not going to do anything to change this situation...😒
And I think its just a bunch of us gals cribbing about it...😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Shann20

Boy was I glad to see your remarks😊 and yes no one is perfect Thank you for replying

@Ankifan

Thank you for your reply and I did cut some slack and wrote an apology addressed to the younger members. I came to this forum as a neutral member but after having seen some of the most atrocious and revolting stuff that was written against the female character especially in the month of December and January believe me I am really mild in comparison. I hate taking sides and prefer to remain an observer but sometimes a person has got to do what a person has got to do and hope to read some of your own posts as well

@surenkal

Thank you for that link and I will go there to see it and for your wonderful reply. Yes you have said it right that is the message that is going out to more impressionable minds/

The problem why this forum is polarized is precisely because he is a character we all love to hate and hate to love and when is shown as being just like any other serial soap character it really gets to us and yes I do hope they redeem him soon

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Posted: 13 years ago
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  • I made a similar post yesterday; pl check out 54018798.
These days I find ASR's character quite despicable, it is nose- diving steadily.
Of all the things he made khushi go through, this one is the most repugnant.
Even khushi being disowned by her family does not reflect so badly on him, since I put the blame more on the family,they know her from childhood and should have stood by her - they are more to blame than ASR.
But treating her like a stray dog is the limit! My blood boiled yesterday when I saw the scene of hottie waking up , so cool and casual about the fact she is sleeping out and looking for her there! I mean how dare he? ASR's character is beyond redemption for me now.
Whatever they show after this , however much is the love or passion , this thing will always be at the back of our minds that this is the same guy who treated her like an animal,and hence the magic and charm will no longer be there.
The CVs have dug the grave for a nice love story with this plot.
This is THE PITS. IT HAS HIT THE NADIR!

At least now they should show khushi sleeping on the couch in the living room and making him answer the family! She should do that. What does she have to lose anyways? Why should she shield him? In fact his very love for his sister should be used as a weapon by her to turn the tables.
CVs PLEASE MAKE HIM PAY FOR THIS DEARLY!

And yes, I am sure that later at some point if he does bring her inside, there will be people going 'awww so sweet!' To quote ASR's own words 'Unbelievable'!

I am reminded of one earlier post where it was pointed out that since he loves her he has the right to do so and yet another saying 'awww so sweet he carried her inside the next morning,and not kicked her awake' !!

Is this just barun's charisma at work? As pointed out, CV are riding on it, show any type of abuse,but get the hottie to heat up female fantasies - designer tees,sweat pants,make him smirk and viola,you have a superduper serial!

Edited by anoushka_113 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#94
Brilliant post, totally agree with your reasoning and i hope the CV's listen to us as well. I guess what they are trying to do is to get us offtrack and unfortunately it did work for majority here on this forum...there are other posts as well which states that sleeping arrangments needs to be changed.From personal POV i find this barbaric and uncalled for. My theory is as a husband or forget husband a decent human being will not do this. So you are full of rage and want to punish her???why not punish the BIL???isnt he equally to be blamed???infact more so because the girl and you never declared your undying love to each other so technically she is single...and you wearing nice tight tshirts gives you the right to continue with this horrible treatment???hmmm i am sorry but i dont get it.
What I would like to see is that they either change the sleeping arrangments or khushi should just not sleep outside...it is disgusting to even watch now. People will drool on the oh so sexy and hot ASR and say he did it out of love and all but i dont buy it and i really hope they change this soon.
Love your post though
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: serialjunkie

I've stopped thinking about the characters of this show or even bothering to analyze them. I raised my concern when I first saw domestic abuse and brought to the attention of people who would hear me. However, the domestic abuse continues albeit more subtly and swept under a rug sort of way. I will continue to voice my criticism and appreciation as and when my sensibilities demand and be gladly labeled a basher or a sour-puss if others cannot stomach my opinion.

To tell you the truth, I am beginning to understand that he CVs are pimping ASR's assets to deflect from poor scripting, story and lack of imaginative tracks. And believe me its working. Personally, I do not find conflict in drooling over Barun's assets versus pointing out the obvious domestic abuse by the character ASR. The former appreciates the actor Barun while the latter condemns the character he enacts.

An interesting thought occurred to me the other day. Imagine a forum dominated primarily by males of 13 to 30 age group, drooling unabashedly over a female character, describing every physical aspect of her, posting pictures after pictures of her assets with comments in the same neighborhood of those written for Barun - would we still be so forgiving of that male forum?


Very well said my dost!!! Thaliya...👏
@red me very much in the same page...

FLS, I dont have problem with droolers, but unfair bias is sometimes too much to take.
I can point out atleast 10 posts made yesterday in threads having very rational discussion abt the sleeping condition and domestic violence in this tone ' pls, i cannot hear anything abt Arnav cos i like him so much, i agree to your post but i will never oppose Arnav'
And on top of this, these very same people try to pick on Khushi for the minutest things... Talk of being logical.
Also IF CALLING FANS DROOLERS IS OFFENSIVE THEN CALLING PEOPLE WHO STAND AGAINST ATROCITIES 'SPREADING NEGATIVITY, BASHERS' IS ALSO OFFENSIVE !!!


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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Sree07

Again I say I have no problems with all the drooling pictures of him and it has been going on right from the start of the series so have no trouble with that at all. I don't think I have even bothered on that subject as I too also enjoyed the pictures but right now when he is most awfully mistreating her and then the very same pictures of that scene are uploaded as droolicious is where I draw the line for myself and not anyone else and I don't know if you have noticed but the number of posts glorifying him as a sex object has really shot up Last week in just one night I saw 5 consecutive posts on his physique. Any idea why? Would appreciate your input

@Sevpuri

Thank you for that lovely appreciation of Barun . I do hope he knows he has an incredible fan in you

@Magical Poolside

Thank you for your reply and again the timing of all these drooling pictures stink. We have all identified these pictures as scenes from IPKKND and just when you thing oh lord why did he talk and treat her that way how long is this misery going to be prolonged then along comes these posts, I only see the title and I think oh no not again.

I have always enjoyed his pictures before and will do so in the future but forgive me if I find them jarring right now

Please continue enjoying them nothing wrong😉 I ranted life goes on till the next exasperation

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: frockstar


To tell you theAnd on top of this, these very same people try to pick on Khushi for the minutest things... Talk of being logical.[/DIV]

Also IF CALLING FANS DROOLERS IS OFFENSIVE THEN CALLING PEOPLE WHO STAND AGAINST ATROCITIES 'SPREADING NEGATIVITY, BASHERS' IS ALSO OFFENSIVE !!!




Agree with you in both of these points...it's like hum kare tho character dheela and tum karo tho raas leela

No offence meant to any but it's what I have observed from being a spectator in this forum
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: frockstar


Also IF CALLING FANS DROOLERS IS OFFENSIVE THEN CALLING PEOPLE WHO STAND AGAINST ATROCITIES 'SPREADING NEGATIVITY, BASHERS' IS ALSO OFFENSIVE !!!


Not at all offensive and we dint even talk about it.. I would req u to read the posts that we posted to the TM..
We offended comments like ASR/BS fans section cant see beyond his looks.. As many of us being ASR/BS fans we have not liked the way ASR is shown now, we do not agree with the sleeping arrangements as well.. All we tried to say was mature and immature comments will be passed out from bth ASR/BS and KKG/SI fans, y blame the whole section for it as if all are brain dead bimbo's who cant see beyond looks.. This was offensive and nt what u said..

@TM, glad u understood what we actually wanted to convey.. 😊

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Annie I've been trying to respond to your post for the last 20 minutes but I can't my internet connection has been playing up for the past few hours and IF on my phone is giving me headaches in responding so sorry! I've been reduced to mere spectator which destroys the forum fun for me! There goes my football pitch lenght post about the ArHi scenes today! 😆 But the game sounds fun!
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Rabba-Ve-Delena

Annie I've been trying to respond to your post for the last 20 minutes but I can't my internet connection has been playing up for the past few hours and IF on my phone is giving me headaches in responding so sorry! I've been reduced to mere spectator which destroys the forum fun for me! There goes my football pitch lenght post about the ArHi scenes today! 😆 But the game sounds fun!

Ouma,
I am waiting patiently ( NOT ) for my hero-Nipun97- to post today's episode with subtitles. I am still waiting. Get the hamsters to peddle faster to kick start the internet. Better still use that 300lb hamster. He is getting too fat in dire need of some exercise!!😆

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