Put Lipstick on,Dress it up,a Pig is still a Pig:MODP27 - Page 21

We lack social viability. It's not how you perceive it but what you believe in.

On a moral high ground what are the things that matter to you, a shattered heart or a broken wrist?

The pain is equally due for a change within.

You pointed out in the 2^nd thread about how women need to be thankful for the freedom they are experiencing now. The freedom they have received with due course of time, facing hardships and rightfully fighting and voicing their opinions.

QUOTING SJ -"In the beginning, women had very little to no rights, so our ancestral sisters fought for their rights and through much hard work and suffering made huge inroads. The things we take for granted such as right to walk unaccompanied, right to drive, right to vote, right to work, right to birthing choices etc were hard won rights."

I wanted to just bring this here to share what i meant by "nari mukti andolan" it was in true sense meant for understanding that we aren't here to fight for a woman's rights. The battle has been won already, thankfully by our elders; we are just giving it a rightful place. The mukti is ours we need to exercise it well.

Getting back to IPKKND – We aren't up to being receptive to everything they show in the name of fiction. We like voicing our opinions and rightfully speak about what is wrong is wrong and will not change.

Justifying a misunderstanding – I understand, but justifying an abuse in the name of an underlying passion is not acceptable.

Please correct me if I am wrong and overtly intense about this issue.

Originally posted by: geetmaanluv

i guess i fall into the "kid" category as im neither married nor have children. but i wasnt so disgusted by arnav's actions. im not an arnav drooler or anything. but from my point of view he has done far worse. he done this exact thing in nanital where he left her out in the cold and slept on the bed nice and warm. i dont remember if people were this outraged then. maybe bec now they r man and wife that his actions r being interpreted as domestic abuse. im not justifying his action as right .. he is WRONG. just pointing out that they dont consider each other as spouse. and he hates her ... well trying very very hard. what he did yest; was really worse than throwing her out of a window... or grabbing/twisting her arm that is actual physical abuse. and i think majority of us have forgiven him for that. i thought yesterday was n improvement in asr character. even in his asr mode he felt slight remorse and guilt which has never been shown this blatantly before.

bottom line.. under the circumstances what he did was very wrong. but in my opinion at least this was not something he cannot ever redeem himself from. i think the way asr was portrayed initally ... he would/could have done much much worse. esp. to the person he thought tried to hurt his sister. im not saying this as a justification to his action.. just that he has done much worse before and has been forgiven for it.

Originally posted by: bluefish

Atta Girl...healthy discussions should never be stopped...glad this one got re opened.

More power to you girls who are very rightfully discussing Domestic abuse on name of love -hate track. I just didn't understand, if ASR felt remorse, why he did not bring her in and put her on the couch.?? What was so difficult about that.

The more Im watching the repeats , the more i feel he needs a Shrink ASAP. Either ASR, or the CVS who think this sells for passion.

We are not living in the cave world. I want Strong Independent Khushi to come back...please.