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Hi everyone, like many of you guys arshi is one of my favorite couples, and I just simply adore them :)
After watching the whole wedding fiasco or reading the discussions or analyses that fellow members posted, I just want to warn you all that what I'm about to talk about might not very pleasant, but it's my opinion and I hope I don't get Chapals by the End of this post. Now back to the topic :$
I know I know half of the fans support arnav and his reasonings behind his cruel decision or others supporting Khushi and her tears.
After watching all the senarios the one thing that kept on pushing me to post my piece of mind is that how far should a person go in a name of love? Yes that is a question, that has been making me constantly think about all of the relations Khushi ever had from as a baby to now as a married woman. Yes, I believe in moving And forgiving people, yes I do believe that after every dark night there is a morning with a new beginning but lets face it guys every morning brings in joys with attached sorrows. I feel really bad for Khushi not because we share a same gender, but because a girl with such an innocent heart have to face such cruel facts in life. Honestly I feel After this whole misunderstanding and realization senarios comes to end, I seriously want Khushi to leave every single person who ever made her feel unloved that can be arnav(yes him, he needs to realize his mistake, he needs to earn her love) her bua, her so called jije or her amaa, let it anjali or Nani. By the end of this 6 months wedding,I want Khushi to walk out of these people lives with pride. Yes I want her to turn cold towards them, make them realize their mistake, let them live them with a guilt. I want her to walk out on everyone and make herself strong ,so strong so that she can move on with her life, leaving these people behind. Be a successful self made woman. Show the world who she really is show them a money she can earn not by pacifying some rich guy but her own hard work let it be fashion designer. I don't want Khushi to forgive them like she always did. Not anymore, because this event of her life has finally showed her who really is hers. A family ( i ll be particular) or a group of people you spend your most of the time, people you grow up,or someone who supports you through your good and bad times. Let it friends as some prefer their friends a family, because they mean a world to them . Yet I wonder and wonder that How can a mother or let alone a sister who "loves" Khushi so much cannot understand the reason behind her silence or her tears. How can they not see a girl with shattered heart, who they "loved" so much? How can they not understand her when she can understand them and their pain so well . That's it I think It's a high time for Khushi should move on for the sake of her own self respect after the misunderstanding chapter ends. I want her not to have "rabba va" moments like that with Asr(that's who he is to me for now ), so that he would not walk out on her .I want this whole "leaving them all alone, moving on going somewhere away from all these people" to happen so that these Rabba va moments happens without any guilt or regret. Yes I know I'm taking this far too seriously but I'm a hardcore fan of Arnav and Khushi and I really want this show to be different and not something like "you said I love you and I said okay I forgive you " to happen. I want them to be as real as they could be , as the story itself conveys a message that every Khushi has its sorrows and challenges to face I want this story to be really like the title "is pyaar ko kiya naam doon" I want it to be a story where distance shouldn't matter kyun kay yeh dil ka Mamla hai dost. I know my point of view towards the next chapter of the story is quiet depressing but that's how great love stories or hate stories happen. I want this all to happen so we can truly have a reason to be fully attached to this show .
Sorry for any errors ,
And making such a long post but really I needed a place to take it all out now.
Please share your views and let me know what do you guys think.
Thanks
Neahakhan:)
After watching the whole wedding fiasco or reading the discussions or analyses that fellow members posted, I just want to warn you all that what I'm about to talk about might not very pleasant, but it's my opinion and I hope I don't get Chapals by the End of this post. Now back to the topic :$
I know I know half of the fans support arnav and his reasonings behind his cruel decision or others supporting Khushi and her tears.
After watching all the senarios the one thing that kept on pushing me to post my piece of mind is that how far should a person go in a name of love? Yes that is a question, that has been making me constantly think about all of the relations Khushi ever had from as a baby to now as a married woman. Yes, I believe in moving And forgiving people, yes I do believe that after every dark night there is a morning with a new beginning but lets face it guys every morning brings in joys with attached sorrows. I feel really bad for Khushi not because we share a same gender, but because a girl with such an innocent heart have to face such cruel facts in life. Honestly I feel After this whole misunderstanding and realization senarios comes to end, I seriously want Khushi to leave every single person who ever made her feel unloved that can be arnav(yes him, he needs to realize his mistake, he needs to earn her love) her bua, her so called jije or her amaa, let it anjali or Nani. By the end of this 6 months wedding,I want Khushi to walk out of these people lives with pride. Yes I want her to turn cold towards them, make them realize their mistake, let them live them with a guilt. I want her to walk out on everyone and make herself strong ,so strong so that she can move on with her life, leaving these people behind. Be a successful self made woman. Show the world who she really is show them a money she can earn not by pacifying some rich guy but her own hard work let it be fashion designer. I don't want Khushi to forgive them like she always did. Not anymore, because this event of her life has finally showed her who really is hers. A family ( i ll be particular) or a group of people you spend your most of the time, people you grow up,or someone who supports you through your good and bad times. Let it friends as some prefer their friends a family, because they mean a world to them . Yet I wonder and wonder that How can a mother or let alone a sister who "loves" Khushi so much cannot understand the reason behind her silence or her tears. How can they not see a girl with shattered heart, who they "loved" so much? How can they not understand her when she can understand them and their pain so well . That's it I think It's a high time for Khushi should move on for the sake of her own self respect after the misunderstanding chapter ends. I want her not to have "rabba va" moments like that with Asr(that's who he is to me for now ), so that he would not walk out on her .I want this whole "leaving them all alone, moving on going somewhere away from all these people" to happen so that these Rabba va moments happens without any guilt or regret. Yes I know I'm taking this far too seriously but I'm a hardcore fan of Arnav and Khushi and I really want this show to be different and not something like "you said I love you and I said okay I forgive you " to happen. I want them to be as real as they could be , as the story itself conveys a message that every Khushi has its sorrows and challenges to face I want this story to be really like the title "is pyaar ko kiya naam doon" I want it to be a story where distance shouldn't matter kyun kay yeh dil ka Mamla hai dost. I know my point of view towards the next chapter of the story is quiet depressing but that's how great love stories or hate stories happen. I want this all to happen so we can truly have a reason to be fully attached to this show .
Sorry for any errors ,
And making such a long post but really I needed a place to take it all out now.
Please share your views and let me know what do you guys think.
Thanks
Neahakhan:)
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