Please do not support domestic violence!Updated:

I can understand that CVs wants to show the rise of ASR...how much his sister means to him...
what he can do for people he loves...how cruel he can be to people he thinks have crossed him.
They want to show intense drama and angst to show intense romance later...alright.

But on the name of romance...TRPS, and high voltage drama...please please..do not support, show domestic violence.
Marital Rape, physical torture of any kind, violence against women in the family...does not account for romance at all. That domestic violence happens to a considerable amount of women over the world and it costs them a lot more than physical health...it a bitter truth of life.

Please don't make it more bitter by romanticizing it. Some aggression in passion, some pull and push might look good in accordance with the emotions of the leads...but do not make go to the darker side of life...because when you make the male lead do that...you are setting a very very wrong example for the viewers.

Hope Arnav is more cold and calculating than this...than he plans to hurt Khushi through other ways than physical.

Please do not show that Arnav physically hurts Khushi and she dumbly accepts it as part of her life for her sister or his sister...do not show sad dumb wrong examples.

Please give us a stronger Khushi...who stands up for herself , her self esteem...and can match his games, she may thereby gain his respect.


A man who uses his physical dominance over a woman is nothing but a coward.
We dont want to see a coward Arnav.
Already its bad enough that Arnav cannot get back at Shyam so he gets back at Khushi instead.
Be a man..fight a man. Dont use a woman as a pawn. What is the girl was not khushi. What would Arnav do to save his sister's marriage then .Is he going to marry every woman that his BIL lusts around for?

Bluefish
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Updated based on some replies , with a request :

Many thanks to all those who have replied...both for and against.
We all are in consensus that domestic violence is wrong...that's a good thing.

We do have difference of opinion over the "thin line", what is really abuse.

I do not mean he will necessarily rape her...even if he suggests they must sleep together ..to ensure he wont do anything to breakdown Payal's marriage...in the future...that is also a wrong way to get the lady into bed. The only way to physical intimacy must be by winning her heart. Sorry, I am an idealist!

If he feels marriage necessary to save Anjali's so be it. She married him. As per his wishes. Now Treat her right..with dignity. and space.

To the question" ASR always manhandled khushi from the beginning what is new now"

Now she is his wife. Under his roof..living together , in a socially accepted union called marriage.
Now..domestic violence comes into play. Earlier, even if he did emotionally/ physically abuse her..she had a home to go. Her home.
Earlier ..they were not a couple. She was always free to say she does not want to meet him or see his face. She had options.
Now she doesn't. She is married to him. and will do his bidding for next 6 months to ensure her sister's marital happiness( wrong example, if you ask me.she should simply tell payal about it)

.Now she does not have options. Its their home. Garima has made it clear her daughter's decision is not welcome. No more home of her own, for some time. Kushi is cornered at this point.
Now..physical aggression beyond a certain"fine line" will account for domestic violence.

There are many women out there who think that their husbands might stop abusing someday..and keep waiting for it. I just don't want IPPKND to support that. Maybe some other serials do...but than I don't watch those other serials...and want my favorite show to remain my favorite.

I agree..and I am sure team IPPKND will not take it so far. But I just felt like voicing my opinion over an 18 year old's forced contract marriage. ASR right now has a lot of power...and even if he did physically violate her..no one will ask him a question. That is what is making me uncomfortable..and im sure ASR will make me comfortable soon because im sure CVS have thought out his characterization in this journey. As I saw on Friday, Garima's slap to Khushi made him angry. Now unless that was facade for sake of others watching...he is against physical violence. Which is cool with me!



Also , request to forum members..

This topic is solely to talk out against domestic violence...against wrong examples being set to impressionable minds.
This topic is not about favoritism, or bashing any stars of IPPKND team, or any forum members.

All comments are welcome...please lets refrain from personal attacks, and stick to the topic.


Again many thanks for all the replies,

Bluefish

the marital rape is just some members' imagination running wild. nothing of the sort is gonna happen, and i agree, arnav shuldnt manhandle khushi

Originally posted by: MadhuriDixit

the marital rape is just some members' imagination running wild. nothing of the sort is gonna happen, and i agree, arnav shuldnt manhandle khushi

Yep..hope so..they dont show rape or attempted rape..because that does not go with ASR character..nor any woman will be able to forgive...he will become worst sinner than Shyam.

But i do think Arnav might impose "sleeping together" as a condition for their marriage.
That is why Khushi looked sad..because he was offering a marriage contract...where he can sleep with her. So he can claim her as his, in his heart ans in front of shyam.
Thats what I think CVS are going for.

Cool

Seriously some members are going bonkers in predicting and imagining😆
It's just their imagination and we don't know yet what will happen. So don't worry abt extreme things as such would happen in actual.

And I believe emotional atyaachaar is far more hurting than physical..this we can see as ASR once again will hurt Khushi with his harsh words and behavior.

i highly doubt arnav wuld make khushi sleep with him. nothing along these lines has even been insinuated in the show, again ppl are just predicting radical things. there were plenty of reasons for her to look sad, for example her sisters marriage wasnt gonna happen if she doesnt secretly marry him

Thanks for your post bluefish... The forum is going wild with predictions on physical atyachar -- of all types... this is surely a no-no. I for one will stop watching if this happens ... and I guess will lose respect for the characters who indulge as well as tolerate this.

Violence against women in any form is not acceptable.

Please, take a deep breath and relax. I don't think Arnav or even if you say ASR, will never venture to use his male power to dominate Khushi. For all the reasons, he might not even allow her near him when tehy are in private away from the presence of others. may may tease her in front of others and deprive his company in privacy. All his tortures will be in verbal other might think as his love where as she will be pricked with nail. HIs words will be poisinous, no matter how he use and I am not sure the family members will welcome her with open hands lovely gestures. She will have to face their wrath as well. So as a dutiful sister she can't disclose his blackmail as that will ruin her sisters life. As a dutiful wife, she can't disclose his hatred as that will spoil his image in front of the family & will hurt the elders (naani, anjali, buva, amma & babuji). now she will be standing on a rope by holding a serpants head. If she losens or tightens her hold even slightly, there are all chances of getting bite ( ger marital relation with Arnav & her futue , i mean her charector), if she falls down, it is the funeral of her sisters marriage & there by end of her maternal family & sasural, If either thing happens she will be the one who will be blamed for everything.