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Posted: 13 years ago
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Looks like khushi is loosing importance and everyone is just focussed towards arnav and his pain...director needs to give some scope of acting for khushi as well due to the following reasons:

a) Khushi is a orphan though she has a family when situation like this comes first thing normally people say is we did favour of getting u and taking care of you now u did this to us...this is when a person is hurt the most that people remind her she is a orphan.

b) She has always been patient enought to forgive ASR's arrogance and insults and still keep smiling always and spread happiness everywhere, yet she doesnt get her share of happiness.

c) She was forced by her family into a relationship with a stranger just for their selfishness and pushed her to a ring of fire with a womenizer called shyam, i would say her family are the culprits for her situation today...had they not forced her she would have not had any relation ship with that bas***d.

b) Unknowingly she was so much in love with a person and today that person is going to hurt her the most, she looses everything family love her happiness everything.

e) She is with or without will marrying the person who hates her the most in this world, which means she has sacrificed her life for others and no one understands that atleast until they know the truth.

f) She will continue to love him despite his anger and more and more insults and hurt herself more.

Arnav has always made decisions for himself and as he says he has written his fate, but what about khushi she has never got what she wanted, always gets what others give her, So in my view Khushi is the one suffering more here and not Arnav, Arnav just have to deal with the current situation of saving his Di's marriage and keeping his Di safe from the snake, Khushi has lots more to go through and face in upcoming episodes, hence please dont forget our khushi she is an angel she has to make everyone realize what she has been through and should not forgive anyone in my view.

Adding few more points from couple my friends stated below:

g) Khushi could forgive ASR so easily, the guy who got humiliated her in public by giving the video tape, Did he ever ask sorry to khushi for the act of his then? NO HE DINT.

h) Khushi could forgive ASR once again, when out of his anger pushed her into a situation where she was trapped in guest house and almost going to be hurt or would have died, though later he took her safely to her house, did he apologise for the act of his then ? NO HE DINT.

i) Khushi could forgive him so easily everytime he hurt her physically by getting bruses on her hands, did he ever apologise for the acts of his during those situations ? NO HE DINT.

j) Only a couple of times we saw him aplologize was when he unknowingly hurt her during his parents death ceremony and another time which i dont remember, on the other hand Khushi has always apologised whenever she did a mistake knowingly or unknowingly.

When he can remember all the good times he had with her and the times where he feels she betrayed him, why cant he remember the times she was hurt because of him and yet she always forgave him and was normal with him, he should remember all these as well and give her a fair chance to explain herself, even as a normal human being we at times get angry and say things do things which are wrong however we regret immidetly and makeup for that, and try and get the otherside of the story...its only fair if ASR hears to her side of story and then upto to him to believe it or not, if he doesnt give a chance to explain herself i would be dissapointed if khushi forgive's Arnav easily when situations change.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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agree, Cv's should also give importance on khushi past and all.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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There are points I agree and disagree with. definitely shes seen quite a lot of angst in her life. She has taken a lot of insults from ASR, but do remember she is the also the one who has seen a selfless side of him, of what he can do for his loved ones. ASR is a very complex character and the person who loves him and gets him to love her unconditionally in the end, will have to forgive him several times. Love takes time to overpower your past, hatred and mistrust and Khushi will have to hang on till tht time (that is if she really wants ASR).

Also, I think if the situations were reversed somehow, Khushi would have not given ASR the benefit and would have condemned him just as easily. Because they are at the nascent love stage - trust, selflessness and dedication has a long way to go. I think the marriage track will reveal all the insecurities both live with and how they will start accepting that in each other. I dont know this is my personal opinion but I think once Khushi understands and changes ASR, he will shower the world on her. Of course, the choice is always hers - Forgive or Forget.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i think that is what will be next... khushi is still unaware that all hell has broken loose with arnav. when she know they will show her reactions and feelings like they have been showing arnavs
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Posted: 13 years ago
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CVs have not given her importance. She is a sweetheart and will fight back. I hope she is not a depressed soul. I couldn't take her heartbreak and tears during Diwali and now it is going to be worse.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tingding

There are points I agree and disagree with. definitely shes seen quite a lot of angst in her life. She has taken a lot of insults from ASR, but do remember she is the also the one who has seen a selfless side of him, of what he can do for his loved ones. ASR is a very complex character and the person who loves him and gets him to love her unconditionally in the end, will have to forgive him several times. Love takes time to overpower your past, hatred and mistrust and Khushi will have to hang on till tht time (that is if she really wants ASR).

Also, I think if the situations were reversed somehow, Khushi would have not given ASR the benefit and would have condemned him just as easily. Because they are at the nascent love stage - trust, selflessness and dedication has a long way to go. I think the marriage track will reveal all the insecurities both live with and how they will start accepting that in each other. I dont know this is my personal opinion but I think once Khushi understands and changes ASR, he will shower the world on her. Of course, the choice is always hers - Forgive or Forget.



Well if we want the serial to be real and different Khushi should be shown giving back to shyam and Arnav both from time to time, she should show to arnav that she too has a indentity and she did all this only for the sake of Anjali Di and her Jiji ( In case she was blackmailed by Arnav on breaking Payal's wedding) and not due to the his dhamki's...she should show him that she is not scared of anyone and she is not wrong this time...she is taking all the crap he is giving purely to keep others happy...and finally when the day comes when arnav realizes his mistake she should definitely not forgive him so easily...he should go through the same phase she would have through till then and make him realize that she is the most important person in his life now...Hope CV's have something different in store for us... and for once i want to think that if ASR and Khushi have a conversation during this wedding i want khushi to suggest this marriage idea to arnav to prove herself that she want not trying to be the other women in his Di's life and she is ready to prove herself by marrying the person who has no respect trust or love for her...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Post wedding... Khushi will get a lot of screen space (hopefully) to prove her point!
Meanwhile... I think they both are in equal pain right now... I do agree Khushi had to act on others wishes till now... but how about this... she realized her love for Arnav twice... She is getting married to him, that should pave the way for happiness, right? Forget reel marriages... even in real marriages, the first few years are the difficult ones... they will yell and scream at each other and will kiss and make-up soon!! happy thoughts!!!😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I've been a very silent observer on india forums, but this post. ALL the awards for this post. 👏
I am quite frankly very tired of everyone bashing Khushi. She's young and naive, have we all forgotten that? She's been through so much at such a young age. Sure, ASR's anger is justified right now because he doesn't know the entire situation, but later his actions towards Khushi will not be justified.
Sure Khushi is making a mistake by not telling ASR anything, but that's her character. The tagline of the show "Nafrat pass aana na de, Mohabbat Door jaane na de," it is not just a tagline, it's a representation of both the leads. Arnav's nafrat will never let him get close enough to Khushi, his pessimism will allow his head to think of the worst things alive. And khushi's mohabbat will NEVER let her optimism go. So sure, bash her optimism guys 😕. But this post is the truth, we are forgetting khushi.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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well i was gona make a post on tht as well...though my heart was dancing to see the angry ASR back, but this time khushi is in serious trouble, she was a victim and she is going to be a victim again. i seriously felt bad when tht creep gave a look to khushi and khushi tried to ignore him while thinking how disgusting he is, and ASR noticed it, tht time his expressions was like ...she is not happy for my sis's baby coz she be obviously sleeping with tht creep, and there is no reason he would not think to this extent (i read this in a post in forum and i strongly agree).
but in all this , a poor innocent and pure soul is getting stains on her purness and clean charachter.
dont they know how a girl feels after being harrassed by sucha creep. some time it feels like ur worlds is been finished and after that having a husband like ASR, who is so blinded in his sis's love that he can burn her standing right away...she is the most effected charachter from all this situation i think.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thank you for this post. I thought we already forgot her because all I read is 'Arnav's anguish' 'Arnav's pain', 'Arnav's revenge'. The person who is going to bear the brunt of it as you rightly said is Khushi Khushi and only Khushi

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