Khushi - Men are not toys to play with

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rima

@rima

Stunner

+ 10

Posted: 13 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: cinnabon

I know. How uncouth of Khushi to be over-pally with NK coz she thinks that irks Arnav. It was, however, very suave of Arnav to have groped Lavanya while looking right into Khushi's eyes. That was .. what was that highly sophisticated term for it.. oh right.. flawed man.. right.. that was just Arnav being in the character of a flawed man.

Also, it was not at all bas***d-like of Arnav today to have asked Nani and Di to go right ahead with NK and Khushi's marriage since they are alike. I mean the fact that he kissed her and played with her and relentlessly flirted with her.. oh well, he is a flawed man, not an asshole. He was just being his flawed self. Right.

Of course, Shyam saved her from goons and followed her to Delhi and moved in with Buaji coz she was open and friendly at that point. Right again. Bang on. Also, there are SO many instances of her being open and friendly with Shyam. SO MANY! I just love people who blame women when men lust after them - they are right!

On an unrelated note, I'm compiling examples of blinder-clad, biased fans of actors/actresses being illogically one-track-minded about characters, so I should get out of this unbiased thread and look elsewhere.

Oh, and Arnav - women are toys. Please do continue playing!

Well said. I completely agree. Woman can't do anything. Not even flirt. But men can kiss, be kissed, mollycoddle and do all the other things that hurt another person. Much as I don't see the logic of Khushi's flirting it cannot equal what ASR did to her and that too when she was deeply hurting.

Edited by rima - 13 years ago

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Smriti

@serialjunkie

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

#52

Hi all

I have a slightly different view on this. Khushi does not owe it yet to Asr to act or behave like his girl. She is a nobody to him at this point. Yes, they shared a few passionate moments but truly no promises have been made on either side.

She knows her actions towards Nk antagonizes asr and she is having fun doing it. Again, she has not promised Nk her eternal love nor has she promised asr the same. She is using some harmless flirting to get asr riled up and enjoying his discomfiture. It's a young woman enjoying being a center of attention for a while, there is nothing sinister or evil behind her behavior and if Asr questions her morality, I would put him in the wrong.

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momma1128

@momma1128

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

#53

Originally posted by: rima
Well said. I completely agree. Woman can't do anything. Not even flirt. But men can kiss, be kissed, mollycoddle and do all the other things that hurt another person. Much as I don't see the logic of Khushi's flirting it cannot equal what ASR did to her and that too when she was deeply hurting.

Wait Rima - your other post says you were bothered that she did that???? I don't care if women flirt - I care if we are supposed to think that KKG would do it to bother ASR because I don't feel that is her character. She was worried about a dori being undone for goodness sake.

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Deva

@jwalamukhi

Voyager

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Posted: 13 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: sunaina02

They can be dangerous !!

You have not learned your lesson . You weer open and frank with Shyam and see what it got you into .

Now you are playing with two men side by side .

Khushi - you have not learned your lesson .

May besome day noone will be out there to protect you .

Just , just be careful .

rubbish..utter rubbish...

atleast show some respect for character..there is a lot of difference in flirting and being friendly...

She thinks NK is a good friend of hers...thats why she behaves that why...

and regarding irritating arnav...she is doing it..to control herself...

She is one of the gem on women world...who is so pure from inside and outside...Being open with men doesnot implies flirting...and she does n't even know that she is making arnav jealous...

before coming to conclusions just think once...

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frockstar

@frockstar

Navigator

Posted: 13 years ago

#55

Originally posted by: serialjunkie
Hi all

I have a slightly different view on this. Khushi does not owe it yet to Asr to act or behave like his girl. She is a nobody to him at this point. Yes, they shared a few passionate moments but truly no promises have been made on either side.

She knows her actions towards Nk antagonizes asr and she is having fun doing it. Again, she has not promised Nk her eternal love nor has she promised asr the same. She is using some harmless flirting to get asr riled up and enjoying his discomfiture. It's a young woman enjoying being a center of attention for a while, there is nothing sinister or evil behind her behavior and if Asr questions her morality, I would put him in the wrong.

But does she understand that in this firting, there is a small chance that NK could end up hurt.

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trina2010

@trina2010

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: momma1128

@underline - this is the entire point as to why it doesn't sit well. if she had done it unknowingly, fine. But this was calculated. Call it flirting, call it being overly friendly - she did it to get a reaction out of ASR. If we called and did call ASR manipulative for using La to get a reaction out of KKG, same goes here. Only difference is - ASR is does is with fangs and KKG does it will jalebi sweet smile.

Play with fire you will get burned. We teach this to 5 year olds.

😆

KKG has turned into a mini ASR nowadays. Playing his own games against him

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incandescent

@incandescent

Sparkler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: serialjunkie
Hi all

I have a slightly different view on this. Khushi does not owe it yet to Asr to act or behave like his girl. She is a nobody to him at this point. Yes, they shared a few passionate moments but truly no promises have been made on either side.

She knows her actions towards Nk antagonizes asr and she is having fun doing it. Again, she has not promised Nk her eternal love nor has she promised asr the same. She is using some harmless flirting to get asr riled up and enjoying his discomfiture. It's a young woman enjoying being a center of attention for a while, there is nothing sinister or evil behind her behavior and if Asr questions her morality, I would put him in the wrong.

I know SJ. We are not at all questioning her morality.

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momma1128

@momma1128

Sparkler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#58

Originally posted by: serialjunkie
Hi all

I have a slightly different view on this. Khushi does not owe it yet to Asr to act or behave like his girl. She is a nobody to him at this point. Yes, they shared a few passionate moments but truly no promises have been made on either side.

She knows her actions towards Nk antagonizes asr and she is having fun doing it. Again, she has not promised Nk her eternal love nor has she promised asr the same. She is using some harmless flirting to get asr riled up and enjoying his discomfiture. It's a young woman enjoying being a center of attention for a while, there is nothing sinister or evil behind her behavior and if Asr questions her morality, I would put him in the wrong.

No one is questioning her morality. She does do this knowingly. My fear is that the CVs will write for her as if she had no clue that she was flirting and make ASR - whom we all agree she is trying to provoke - out as the big bad wolf for reacting to it. I don't want her to cry, I guess. When he reacts, I want her to say - why are you so bothered. I don't want typical SP, how dare you question me - I didn't mean to make you angry stuff - which is what we got in the past.

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Ariel

@Ariel

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#59

I dont think ASR ever flirted with La outright. Half the time he barely noticed her. He didnt flirt even when they were dating. During the farak padta hai, his attention was on khushi but he was flirting

with neither women. he stopped immediately when he saw it caused khushi pain. But does khushi stop now?NO!! She is being a little sadistic no?

If khushi was hitting on ASR and he responded by flirting with La then we can equate that to what is happening now. But that didnt happen. Coz we all know how sanskari khushi is right? Not!! But ASR now a single man is flirtingwith her and trying to make her see what she is too stubborn to see but she responds by flirting with NK. Either respond by flirting or asking him why the sudden interest in her or just stay quiet because using NK is not right, makes no sense and doesnt fit in.it just feels out of place . And not to mention it doesnt fit with Khushis character either coz she never knowingly hurts people!! Even if its asr!! she jumps in if anyone even offers him something sweet to eat and now she does this? Seems out of place like i said.

Edit: seeing people talking about morality, i wanted that im not talking about morality. I just dont buy that Khushi would this .

Just my two cents.. Dont mean to offend anyone😊

Edited by Ariel - 13 years ago

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solembaum

@solembaum

Voyager

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Posted: 13 years ago

#60

Just one day when she flirts with Nk and people are up with cudgels!!! In today's episode I did not see Khushi flirting with NK... yesterday she did... but after the dori stuff I don't think she was flirting... She was just being her usual self and why should she refuse him if he offers to help? I don't really understand what people want?? And I hope people are not blaming her for what Shyam was doing... She never had any over friendly relationship with Shyam and never gave him any reason to think that she loves him... In fact she even told him pretty much on his face that she doesn't want to marry him and does not see him that way... I am not sure why a section of fans have so much animosity towards Khushi! It is not really required that the moment ASR thaws , she should declare that she loves him? She is not giving him any attitude , nor has she been mean to him... She is flustered and tries not to show that she is affected... and tried to put on a brave face to show that she is not affected... and it didn't fool ASR at all... so what is the issue here? She needn't have flirted... But since when did that become a crime!!!