Khushi - Men are not toys to play with - Page 19

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Posted: 13 years ago

yep me too feels tht she should be so careful before her every act...NK is so cute and itz bad to take his advantage...

khushi we lyk u...and feels tht u sholud nt do anything wrong...:)

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: sunaina02

I am thinking in the Indian context where men have the priviledge to do certain things and women do not . My concern is for Khushi because she will be blamed for over-flirtaton and everyone will think she is the one who encouraged Shyam .

Well I never wanted to warn Arnav ?
I never felt from my heart to do that . I do not absolutely mind - you people calling me anything or bashing me but I post here What i feel straight from my heart . I never pretend to be righteous or never try to be diplomatic .


I wanted to keep at bay, thus initially I just expressed i dint want her to flirt,,,,prevention is better than cure,,,avoid (like they says doodh ka jala chanch bhi phoonk phoonk ke peeta hai) she really need s to be extra cautious after shyam's fiasco!

But it's a bitter reality,,, a very very very bitter reality that women cannot get away easily, n they have to prove themselves sometimes even for no fault of their own!


HISTORY SAYS SO,,,

All religions have seen that,,be it in ISLAM , HINDUISM, CHRISTIANITY ,(I know only these) I dont want to mentions those saintly names here in such a petty issue , but we know who all thos great respected ladies I am talking abt! not giving it a religious angle!

But it is this worlds bitter reality,,,not only INDIA, it still exists in every part of the world!!! Blaming the woman is the easiest thing !!

i dotn want Khuhsi to give a slightest chance to Arnav to doubt her sanity , N kHUHSI'S deliberate flirting with NK might turn the tables against her,,but I am also sure he wont suspect her (hopefully), coz he has seen her innocence , I would luve it if he stands by her!

AT LAST,,,,,I'd say CHILLAX PEOPLE! it's literally not a bashing post!!!! I get this as a post by a woman, for women, on a woman!


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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: cinnabon


I know. How uncouth of Khushi to be over-pally with NK coz she thinks that irks Arnav. It was, however, very suave of Arnav to have groped Lavanya while looking right into Khushi's eyes. That was .. what was that highly sophisticated term for it.. oh right.. flawed man.. right.. that was just Arnav being in the character of a flawed man.

Also, it was not at all bas***d-like of Arnav today to have asked Nani and Di to go right ahead with NK and Khushi's marriage since they are alike. I mean the fact that he kissed her and played with her and relentlessly flirted with her.. oh well, he is a flawed man, not an asshole. He was just being his flawed self. Right.

Of course, Shyam saved her from goons and followed her to Delhi and moved in with Buaji coz she was open and friendly at that point. Right again. Bang on. Also, there are SO many instances of her being open and friendly with Shyam. SO MANY! I just love people who blame women when men lust after them - they are right!

On an unrelated note, I'm compiling examples of blinder-clad, biased fans of actors/actresses being illogically one-track-minded about characters, so I should get out of this unbiased thread and look elsewhere.e

Oh, and Arnav - women are toys. Please do continue playing!

i second u. she should be like payal always cry baby worried about past and future and depending on younger sister. least bothered about khushis trouble with shyam. khushi should think how asr feels and thinks of her but she should not live her own life. you are right. btw did i miss episodes where they showed khushi flirting with shyam. i thought she was ready to marry him for her family -- satya
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Posted: 13 years ago
women will be women right ? no matter what a woman does she is always wrong !

god! when is this gonna change?

khushi is just trying to tease arnav a bit as she got a new weapon in hand.
when nk offered to hold the boxes bfore giving it to him she stole a glance at arnav. her eyes were full of expectation that arnav will say something but he didn't.
when nk offered to go with her, again she looked at arnav. again he said nothing.
she could hv told nk that yes " these r the same bangles which we chose " instead she told that they r different. is this flirting ?
and hvn't u noticed ? nani and anjali also r using nk in arnav khushi matter. what abt it ?
when ASR said something abt nk kkg wedding khushi gave him a furious glance.
and khushi will b blamed for shyams actions no matter what ! whether she flirts with someone or locks herself in a dark room doesn't matter.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: serialjunkie



Su - you hit the iron when it was hot. I know we are all unhappy seeing our ASR getting sidelined while Khushi gallivants with NK. I think this sidelining is good for his soul. He will realize that unless he does something, he ain't gonna be getting his girl.

As for SA men being molly coddled by mothers and told of their superiority over women, its ironic that women play that role do it unto themselves. I agree, I have met many many aunties who think their sons are God's gift to humanity. While I am an only child and was raised as a son by my parents, I could never see eye to eye with some of my classmates and colleagues over this.

Infact, one of my now best friends was raised by such a mother and after interacting with me for 4 years of college, he told me that I helped him look at girls in a totally different light. He never thought girls could be independent and their world does not revolve around guys alone. So yeah, in that respect I agree with you, I truly hope I raise my son to respect women and he has a great role model at home, my very own ASR (not Barun, my husband silly)

i love your parents as i love my parents. we two sisters were brought up in the same way. men with wrong intentions need no reason to be after a girl. even 5 yr old can be molested. even if u laugh with ur freinds (girls in ur group) they think we are flirting. but unfortunately world revolves around men and independent women are wronged. u are forced to live ur life their way if not u are said to be with no morals and values - satya
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Posted: 13 years ago

nah...I say let her be careless,break hearts and flirt all she wants.

If the raizadas doubt her on the basis of her behaviour with nk then God help them...what a pathetic excuse for grown up/matured characters!
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Posted: 13 years ago
she startd flirtin wid NK only so dat she can make arnav jealous but she should stop dat now...she is nt realising her actions r goin to hurt either nk or arnav big time 1 day😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
Smriti (SJ)
Thanks for you post .
You have understood what I wanted to say .
Many interpreted my message differently ans as I am marked as a Khushi hater - think that this is a negative post for KHushi.
But believeme - I just wanted her to be careful and CVs must have got my message too, KHushi is show more mellowed further on 😃
We talk about equal rights in a world which is not equal . So there is no harm to be extra careful .
Recently in Canada a husband got jail term because of marital rape.
Can you think such happening in India ??
Edited by sunaina02 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: sunaina02

Many interpreted my message differently ans as I am marked as a Khushi hater - think that this is a negative post for KHushi.

Had been debating since Day 1 u made this post - to wat to comment or not...but went thru all the comments and its been pretty radical and quite interesting...couldnt avoid not saying anything...😊
Su,I totally agree this was never a negative or Khushi bashing post...also we all r more biased towards ASR is also a big reason for the debate to heat up !!!
I understand wat u coming from,in our society watsoever happens, the first person to be blamed is the girl...its been happening from ages...and thts y girls are only advised to be careful...parents of a girl always has more responsibility than a son...
Khushi is naive,innocent...she knows and performs her duties/responsibilties to the T...but sometimes her carefree or lets say childish nature gets her into fix...For once also she never encouraged Shyam...and thts y when his fiasco came out...her family supported her ( which was quite a brave move for this show unlike other soaps esp Ekta whr the women has to shed buckets of tear to prove her innocence even to her family)...But it will be interesting to see hw Raizadas will accept it...as of nw they hv been shown to be broad minded...and I am pretty sure ASR will never doubt her (dori scen) but still blame her for hiding the truth...
When it comes to NK,they have still to reveal the plot cmpletely for us to jump to conclusion...Khushi doesnt knw she is making ASR jealous,but she realises it annoys him if she talks to NK...she is just being innocently playful...and obviously like u said seeing her track record and the implications she might face,she should be careful...but c'mon u got to give her on this...she is vry young and still thinks these ppl r her family ...Big bad world is outside...
We will get mellowed Khushi later when the drama and masks unfold...but tell me is it justified ??? Just because ppl read u wrong u kill ur innocence ???
Men wid wrong intentions will stare and assume stuff even if u r top to toe covered...its their nature...(in offices,when we all r wearing full formals,y do men still stare????? their nature)
Thats all I hv to say in short 😆😆Hope didnt offend u !!!

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