Sushpective: as good as it gets? (update pg10) - Page 9

Originally posted by: sunaina02

Shweta - thanks for reminding me . I new she has but could not remember when.

But she wrongly thought that t Arnav would say harsh words to Payal. SHe is not to be blamed , But has she ever seen Arnav disrespecting any other family member . Then why she had such a bad opinion about Arnav?

Originally posted by: sbk2

I actually would like to understand what exactly people think Khushi should apologise for about the party.

Did she spoil it by adding two drinks and a dessert? Did she sabotage the Thai dance performance and substitute it with her own? Did she demean Arnav's standing with the guests? No, none of them even realised that the menu and dance additions were not part of the original program ... Arnav's dignity was not compromised in any way. The only thing I had an issue with was Khushi's introduction speech - it should have been more graceful ... especially about the Thai dance.

So what should she apologise to Arnav for? For spoiling his party? Which she didn't actually do?

What she should feel bad about ... according to me ... is the fact that she dragged their private feud into the party, that she let her hurt at his behaviour affect her to the extent of making her do all that ... and that she definitely did, regardless of what she said about doing it for Payal. And that was started by Arnav by excluding her from the party ... it was equally personal for him, although it was also rank bad manners to not invite the bride's sister to a casual cocktail party for friends (elders were excluded which means that it was meant to be a fun party, not an official one) . So although Khushi did try to ignore her own hurt by deciding not to go, and was prompted into going by Payal's dismal phone call, Buaji's words and then NK's phone ... once she went, the rest was definitely her way of getting back at Arnav for his rudeness and mean-spiritedness.

Which is what Khushi is ... she doesn't take Arnav's rudeness lying down ... she never has. She answers back, or gets back at him.

But she didn't spoil his party. She spoilt what HE wanted to do ... and part of what he wanted to do was to to do what she DIDN'T want to do ... it was between the two of them alone ... and it stayed that way ...and when Arnav taunted her, it was again only about them ... it wasn't about the drinks or dessert ... or even the dance per se. So I agree with Shwets, if he had yelled at her for changing the menu or the music, then she should have said sorry for that. He didn't ... it was never about that at all in the first place ... and HE knew it.

Nadz, agree with you ... yesterday felt like a filler episode ... seems like all the cv's are on leave for New Year's. But to answer your questions - yes, these days many people who can afford it, hire choreographers for the sangeet functions ... it's become ridiculous IMO!

Originally posted by: DiyaS

I actually would like to understand what exactly people think Khushi should apologise for about the party.

Did she spoil it by adding two drinks and a dessert? Did she sabotage the Thai dance performance and substitute it with her own? Did she demean Arnav's standing with the guests? No, none of them even realised that the menu and dance additions were not part of the original program ... Arnav's dignity was not compromised in any way. The only thing I had an issue with was Khushi's introduction speech - it should have been more graceful ... especially about the Thai dance.

So what should she apologise to Arnav for? For spoiling his party? Which she didn't actually do?

What she should feel bad about ... according to me ... is the fact that she dragged their private feud into the party, that she let her hurt at his behaviour affect her to the extent of making her do all that ... and that she definitely did, regardless of what she said about doing it for Payal. And that was started by Arnav by excluding her from the party ... it was equally personal for him, although it was also rank bad manners to not invite the bride's sister to a casual cocktail party for friends (elders were excluded which means that it was meant to be a fun party, not an official one) . So although Khushi did try to ignore her own hurt by deciding not to go, and was prompted into going by Payal's dismal phone call, Buaji's words and then NK's phone ... once she went, the rest was definitely her way of getting back at Arnav for his rudeness and mean-spiritedness.

Which is what Khushi is ... she doesn't take Arnav's rudeness lying down ... she never has. She answers back, or gets back at him.

But she didn't spoil his party. She spoilt what HE wanted to do ... and part of what he wanted to do was to to do what she DIDN'T want to do ... it was between the two of them alone ... and it stayed that way ...and when Arnav taunted her, it was again only about them ... it wasn't about the drinks or dessert ... or even the dance per se. So I agree with Shwets, if he had yelled at her for changing the menu or the music, then she should have said sorry for that. He didn't ... it was never about that at all in the first place ... and HE knew it.

Nadz, agree with you ... yesterday felt like a filler episode ... seems like all the cv's are on leave for New Year's. But to answer your questions - yes, these days many people who can afford it, hire choreographers for the sangeet functions ... it's become ridiculous IMO!

Originally posted by: sunaina02

I dont know why - is it sanaya's style of acting or the script , I am no longer convinced Khushi loves Arnav. Maybe she feels some sexual tension when touched by Arnav, may be she feels some kind of human sympathy but love , no she feels no love for Arnav. Like us , she is all out to take revenge, God knows for what .

Originally posted by: anjs

hey Sunaina...even i was thinking the same thing yesterday, but later realized that for her, its easy to hide her feelings for him, if she denies him being nice...cause she knows this other side of him, for which she fell in love with him, but then he broke her heart, she was forced to get engaged...then he broke LA's heart...even while leaving LA never mentioned that he didn't love her, so its better for them to break up now, rather then live with a no-love wedding...instead her words were that there is no use to stay now that the engagement is called off...though she didn't blame Arnav but she didn't mention this simple thing to Khushi...and khushi isn't realizing this...she is blaming Arnav for LA's tears...

so its easy for her to stay away from her feelings, if she thinks he is not a good human...

Originally posted by: -Nithi-

Diya 😃

Ages since we talked 😛 You are bang on !

@bold - that is the whole point for the apology, isn't it ? I will explain my POV on this.

She did what she wanted to,in HIS party. Being a sister of the bride does not give liberty to do that, isn't it ? ASR has invested his time, love and care for arranging this. So, by executing her plan, she disrespected his way of expressing love. If Payal is uncomfortable with a grand wedding, will she drag them to a temple ? No, right ?

@bold again - you said it.

Then from where humare jiji keliye dialogues came in ? They both are contradictory.

We know that mistake is on her part too. Thats why I did not even expect an apology, but a remorse from her side. Admission to self that she has wronged him. This is essential for her character development.

Money and Power put me off to no end. Its like ASR bringing in aukat crap again. They both have grown together this much, and she says that ? No, I can't even imagine she said that out of flow or something like that.

If ASR uses aukat again, will it taste good ?