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Posted: 13 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: sbk2


Sunaina,

She's just come out of a broken engagement. She cannot immediately start showing affection for Arnav...
Before Diwali night she was beginning to feel the first vestiges of love for him, then the almost kiss happened, Arnie announced his marriage with La, she was forced to get engaged to Shyam. She gave in to her destiny.
While I do feel the creatives should show Progress in her feelings for him, I do not agree with the thought that she's out to take revenge.
You have to be patient...you cannot forget the good things she's done...

exactly , I cannot forget the good things she had done so finding it harder to have faith in recent avatar of Khushi.
But for her sister 's sake she can easily go out for a date with another man. Thanks God she had alrready blurted about broken engagement to ASR otherwise imagine what ASR would have thought about her .😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
#72

Originally posted by: sunaina02

Shweta - thanks for reminding me . I new she has but could not remember when.

But she wrongly thought that t Arnav would say harsh words to Payal. SHe is not to be blamed , But has she ever seen Arnav disrespecting any other family member . Then why she had such a bad opinion about Arnav?


She's protective about Payal, in fact over protective. And having had first hand experience of his outbursts, when he abruptly announced he wanted to talk to Payal alone, her protective instincts kicked in.
Whatever it is, she apologized to him.
If we start nitpicking every word she utters and every action of hers, you'll find fault with a lot of things. No human is perfect...you cannot expect her to consistently be forgiving, apologizing and repentant for her actions. She's more real this way...at least to me.

Just like its in ASR's nature to be abrupt and blunt with her (in a lot of instances), its in her nature to get defensive with him in a lot of instances.

There was a time when ASR's hurtful words and actions often left me stunned and upset.
Although I would criticize his actions in my posts, I never ever questioned his love for her - nor did I doubt his feelings for her - although he still hasn't even admitted to himself that he loves her.

Be patient...they have recently become single.

I'll take the liberty to quote one of your statements: "This love story is for the lion hearted"
There will be a lot of ups and downs - in Khushi's behavior too.

Picture abhi baaki hai...the real story will begin now. 😊


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Posted: 13 years ago
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^^^
Yes thanks for reminding me my quote . Khushi's diabetic dig has left my diabetic self all chicken hearted . 😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
#74

Originally posted by: sunaina02

^^^

Yes thanks for reminding me my quote . Khushi's diabetic dig has left my diabetic self all chicken hearted . 😃


There are many times we say things we don't mean, we get carried away and utter hurtful words without even knowing we are wrong.

Her dig at his illness was certainly in bad taste, but she did not do it with evil or malice in her heart.
That was her sheer immaturity talking.
She herself has been so caring towards his diabetes.

ASR has said many mean things to her and we know he did not mean it even once.

Another thing is that they did not show him getting highly upset over that remark of hers..,

In fact her farak nahin padhta statement is what tore his soul.




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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sbk2


There are many times we say things we don't mean, we get carried away and utter hurtful words without even knowing we are wrong.

Her dig at his illness was certainly in bad taste, but she did not do it with evil or malice in her heart.
That was her sheer immaturity talking.
She herself has been so caring towards his diabetes.

ASR has said many mean things to her and we know he did not mean it even once.

Another thing is that they did not show him getting highly upset over that remark of hers..,

In fact her farak nahin padhta statement is what tore his soul.




Farak nahin padta is part of the story .
diabetic statement was unnecessary , It just shows what poor quality of script writes this show has.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Girls I Am half way reading through the thread and am loving the suhag rat dialogues by Nithi, Princess and Shwets...gosh you girls are too damn funny...like Sari says please no payash suhag rat ...these two make holding hands also look so awkward...
NadZ if I had any sanity left after reading all the SR posts it was lost after reading your post and your "johny lever" in a salwar description for Madhubala. ROFL...

I must get my eyes checked ...never noticed ASR was wearing a hooded sweatshirt...should go back and watch again..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ Sunaina: Regarding the diabetic comment, that is something the creatives should not have put in.

Regarding Khushi's character: you seem to have made up your mind against Khushi. In that case, none of my arguments or explanations really matter.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: NaDzGirl


partner 🤗

so that means raizadas are extraordinary bunch of people i guess along with guptas 🤣



hey Nadzy...hope i can call u that...sorry to butt-in...north indians weddings do have sangeet function which is a couple of days before the wedding...and business class people do hire choreographers, as the relatives have to dance for the couple...i don't know much details bt the rituals though...but choreographers are hired, along with wedding planners...😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ok caught up on all the posts...I have to say, today Again I am on the same page as Shwets and Zu...While I am happy to see the growth in character for Arnie to realize when he has been insensitive and make an attempt to apologize but the apology was less than full and less than sufficient...more over, he never apologized for disinviting her from the party that in m opinion was worse than what he said..shows complete disrespect and lack of consideration and lack of manners for brides sister...while his envy may have driven him to say the things he did...what makes it more painful is that h meant it...h doubted her intentions ...he wanted to hit where it hurts...

On KHushi,s part contrary to opinions expressed by many I do no find the statement bout diabetes that damaging...because the way I look a it, she is never insensitive to his disease and does not mock it...so the party being less in slat and sugar was more a stamen about it lacking in spice (desi flavor) than anything else...having said that I agree that th dialogue writing could have been better here. What I find more insensitive is her saying that he only cares about money...well he didn't when he decided to help pay ash. But even when Arnie boy does good...he washes it away with comments like "you have never seen a classy party like this"...contempt only generates contempt in reaction...and I am glad KHushi is a real woman who reacts to it like a normal pson does with imperfect and less forgiving response than a ideal heroine...who is so fake I would lose interest...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: MsUniverse

Ok caught up on all the posts...I have to say, today Again I am on the same page as Shwets and Zu...While I am happy to see the growth in character for Arnie to realize when he has been insensitive and make an attempt to apologize but the apology was less than full and less than sufficient...more over, he never apologized for disinviting her from the party that in m opinion was worse than what he said..shows complete disrespect and lack of consideration and lack of manners for brides sister...while his envy may have driven him to say the things he did...what makes it more painful is that h meant it...h doubted her intentions ...he wanted to hit where it hurts...

On KHushi,s part contrary to opinions expressed by many I do no find the statement bout diabetes that damaging...because the way I look a it, she is never insensitive to his disease and does not mock it...so the party being less in slat and sugar was more a stamen about it lacking in spice (desi flavor) than anything else...having said that I agree that th dialogue writing could have been better here. What I find more insensitive is her saying that he only cares about money...well he didn't when he decided to help pay ash. But even when Arnie boy does good...he washes it away with comments like "you have never seen a classy party like this"...contempt only generates contempt in reaction...and I am glad KHushi is a real woman who reacts to it like a normal pson does with imperfect and less forgiving response than a ideal heroine...who is so fake I would lose interest...

Ditto...well said and analyzed

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