Hiyaa my lovely people! Hope your all well and good like always! :) Okay now what I'm going to say many of you won't agree and some of you may, I don't intend to offend anyone at all it's just my opinion like always. It will be long actually scrap that it going to be realllyyy long! So if you're getting bored then you can leave if you wish too that's your decision, I'm just warning you haha. I read a few posts and I looked at their questions and this is my opinion and this is me answering the questions the way I see them.
I've seen a lot of, well I won't call it negativity because I don't think it's reached that point yet but there are a lot of people being quite negative whether it is about Khushi or Arnav. When you moan about Khushi being nosy and Arnav not learning from his mistakes by shouting at Khushi then feeling guilty it doesn't make sense. Yes even at first I thought Khushi was being just plain nosy and that she didn't have to pry into Arnav's private life but if we can look deep into how Khushi is being nosy why don't we all just use a little bit more of our brains, look a little deeper and realize this, that it's only a drama serial. We blame the CV's whenever things don't go according to the way we want it but maybe you and I aren't seeing what the CV's are showing?
What we see as Khushi being nosy might just be Khushi doing her job (she was meant to make La an ideal bahu, for that wouldn't she have to become a bahu first? If I was given that job that's how I would see it but okay everyone's different) like someone already mentioned in another post, maybe Khushi thought that it was part of her job to do that and she didn't force La into wanting to marry Arnav, yes she gave the idea and pushed La a little to think of it but she didn't force La she only made her realize that deep down that is what La really wanted in the first place she just didn't know it and that may have been due the fear she has of ASR and okay even if Khushi was being nosy maybe now that La has left she feels guilty and she thinks that it's her job to bring them together as they parted ways because of her in the first place. Also everyones moaning that Khushi is hell bent on bringing La back but how else do you expect Arnav and Khushi to come face to face again, if La is out of the picture how else will we get to see ArHi scenes? The CV's will have to think of another reason to bring them together which some of us will probably moan about anyway, maybe whilst doing this she herself will become close to Arnav or maybe Arnav will realize he is actually attracted to Khushi kick starting the love part of this Love/Hate story.
Then there is the fact that Arnav always feels guilty after shouting at Khushi so why does he shout at her, well if he didn't shout at her and changed all of a sudden after saying sorry I'm sure we would all say how unrealistic that is and that his character would not change so fast and that the CV's aren't doing their jobs properly. Yes he shouts at her that's part of his character and yes he feels bad afterwards because he doesn't like seeing her cry as there is a part of him that pulls him towards her, if he shouted at her at didn't feel bad there would be no development between them, he cannot just automatically stop shouting at her but he cannot not feel bad afterwards either, yes not a major development if he's still shouting but a little is better than none right?
Yes there are things which don't add up or that don't make sense such as Khushi starting her own sweet business, her father having a heart attack and not having enough money, hit and miss sequences with Shyam and various other characters in my opinion this is to add suspense yes however annoying it is but my answer yet again is that it's a drama serial you won't find much logic here, yes it's our favorite show so we expect more but maybe we are the ones who need to give it some time. Shyam won't get caught yet we all know that, if he got caught so quickly what would be left of his character after he gets caught we will be waiting for the worst point in the show which many of us think will lead to Arnav hating Khushi even more, do we really want to see that right now? He hasn't even started liking her yet. The show hasn't been on for that long so if they get all the problems out of the way straight away what will be left of the show they'll just take it off air.
Yes La still calls Khushi 'Chamkili' but before she used to say it out of spite but now it's out of friendship, don't some of us think we have the right to nickname our friends and to be honest there is nothing wrong with the nickname Chamkili in fact it goes with Khushi's character she's very bright and vibrant as does her actual name she's always trying to remain happy. La has started to dress the way Khushi does because Arnav's family adore Khushi well at least the 2 main people in Arnav's life, Nani and Anjali, she probably thinks that maybe if she dressed like Khushi they'll like her too therefore a step to get closer to Arnav and the family. Like they say Ek teer se do nishane.
Does it really matter and do we really care how educated Khushi really is? Yes the CV's changed the office track but wasn't that because a lot of us had a problem with how similar it was to Geet, KMH and a whole list of other serials and that we were looking for something new in this show, the majority of us didn't want another office love story. So they changed it because we demanded it we wanted something different, okay maybe we weren't looking for the whole Khushi trains La track but how else were they meant to come face to face every day? I'm sure the CV's know what they are doing that is why they are there making a show and we are the ones who sit at home and watch it.
Yes the women in this show are shown as being weak, maybe that isn't the point the CV's are trying to put across, maybe they will show these 'weak' women become powerful, maybe the Anjali who knows nothing but pooja and vrats willstand up for herself when/if she finds out about Shyam instead of breaking down the way we expect her to, Yes Khushi cry's because of Arnav but we seem to see that but not how she's always tried to stand up against him. I'm not going to defend how Arnav hurts Khushi and she hides it because yes that's true she does but like I said it's a show not everything will make sense because none of its real.
I get it we get annoyed when serials don't go the way we want them to or when we think what's going on is illogical. But If you're looking for logic you've obviously not understood Indian drama's that well, and not to be rude but your also at the wrong place, When these serials are made they are made to entertain, to be honest when I watch a serial I don't think of all the bloopers or the mistakes made because I'm just soo into it, Yes I agree everyones different. It will look as if I'm just being defensive and I probably am Lol but I've just seen a lot of people blame the CV's and the characters so I thought maybe if I look at it from the CV's point of view I may be able to answer a few questions. I really am sorry if I've offended anyone, this post wasn't directed at any one individual I read a few posts and I saw these questions so again please don't be offended. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and I'm not here to change anyone's, just putting my opinion forward. I think we should give it some time, well at least I know that's what I'm going to do, The rest is obviously your decision. I know this post was extremely long but there was quite a lot I wanted to say so I will stop now haha.
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