Beginning of a human connection?

Hi Everyone...My resolve to stay away from IF and focus on other things lasted exactly 3 days...😆 and once I made that post yesterday ...I was like an alcoholic in the 10 steps AA program...barely managing to hold on to the first step and giving into having just one drink...and guess what happened...The chaska is back again😛...So here I am actually making a post about todays episode...😃Loved todays episode...for so many things...

> Arnav controlling his anger and actually thinking about how other people feel...WOW that is BIG! And guess what ...the change in attitude did not disappear in a day...it actually stayed with him...overnight and into the next day...Now that is something we can all smile about and feel giddy just like our Jalebi felt today.🥳

> Loved how Khushi greeted him with a wide smile...that is the first time that it has happened...usually...when she sees him she is scared, apprehensive, dejected, all of those...but HAPPY? and that too grinning...that is the second reason to celebrate.

> Payal and Akash...oh cho chweet...Akash is so cute when he talks to Payal..and keeps catching himself saying silly stuff and then does it all over again...Really cute...☺️

> Khushi's thoughts and feelings about marriage...how she romanticizes everything...how BIG that is for her...How pure...How innocent...!! Love this girl for really trying to do her job with La...there is no ulterior motive there...she is genuinely trying to help...What takes me back a little bit is...how is she able to do this...without feeling conflicted or sad...doesn't she have any feelings for our Arnav babu...? Or is it that she would dare not? In any case...If I was in Arnav's shoes that would be the thing that will irritate me the most...that it is Khushi who is pushing La to get married to him...as if there is nothing between them..(and if I was Arnav...I won't even know that this is what is irritating me).

OK...now onto other things

> Nani was mean to La...La is really trying ...My heart goes out to her...Arnav is not being fair to her...although not deliberately...but how can be so emotionally unavailable for her..How can he be so curt all the time? What did she do to deserve this? EVen JP was luckier than her today...

Overall...excellent ...I am hooked!! Is this the beginning of a human connection between two people? When it does not matter that one is rich one is poor...one has status ..the other doesn't...They are just two people who can feel the others pain/ feelings and fears?Comments/ feed-back?

Hi Sush,

Originally posted by: MsUniverse

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> Khushi's thoughts and feelings about marriage...how she romanticizes everything...how BIG that is for her...How pure...How innocent...!! Love this girl for really trying to do her job with La...there is no ulterior motive there...she is genuinely trying to help...What takes me back a little bit is...how is she able to do this...without feeling conflicted or sad...doesn't she have any feelings for our Arnav babu...? Or is it that she would dare not? In any case...If I was in Arnav's shoes that would be the thing that will irritate me the most...that it is Khushi who is pushing La to get married to him...as if there is nothing between them..(and if I as Arnav...I won't even know that this is what is irritating me).

Comments/ feed-back?

heyy Sush!
I know wut you mean girl. its so hard to stay away from IF!
Anyway, I loved today's ep. I thought it wuz the cutest thing when Khushi like BEAMED at Arnav n he wuz like GRR. n she wuz like Whoops! Looks like ASR is bk! See she is already understanding him. She can tell the difference between Arnav n ASR. ASR is the one tht yells n Arnav is the one tht says im sozzy 😭

Nani is just herself. She hates La but you know now I rele feel for the poor girl.

I just don't think Khushi should hav dressed up La like tht n put her rite in the middle of Arnav's bed. It looks like Khushi is setting them up for their freaking Suhaag Raat or sumthing. n the ASR i know will prob think Khushi thinks rele low of him n rele does believe he is Character Dheela or sumthing to do tht w/ La.

I just wonder how Khushi will react to Arnav getting mad at her...😕

Originally posted by: Radhe1085

Actually I have a theory in regards with Kushi's feelings towards Arnav, maybe I am wrong but will share it here.

Kushi as we all know is simple town girl from a traditional family, from the beginning we saw her she never dreamed about any prince charming on a white horse or never did she dream of first love's kiss But she always dreamed about marriage, a family, loving her husband, making jalebi's for her husband. when she explained meaning of marriage to Arnav it was so matured and even today her talk with Lavanya was so beautiful.

So for Kushi her heart, mind, soul and body will always belong to her husband, she will never look at another one. She doesn't even know that whoever xyz is her husband may or maynot love her but she always talks about loving, caring and respecting her husband.

If we notice all those close proximity situations between Arnav and Kushi, she was the one to break the trance and she never once thinks about it even sometimes she thinks she never relates it to love.

And if we take Shyam, lets keep aside all his negativity. He is good looking, he helps them, speaks so friendly and caringly any girl other than Kushi would have fallen for him, Imean the way he is with Kushi and gives her importance and those looks but Kushi never once looked back at him. That is Kushi, she treats him as a good friend and there's the line is drawn.

So in conclusion only Marriage to Arnav will make her fall in love with him, meaning she will love her husband unconditionally.

Hopefully I made some sense here, and maybe CT's can prove me wrong and something altogether different.

Radhe...Sbk...Will write more later...but the thing that I just don't get is...how can she not feel even a twinge of desire for Arnav...I understand that as a small town girl totally believing in traditional values...she has decided that she will save herself for her husband...but her heart has to at least show up wanting something else...? Not that Arnav babu has given her much reason so far to fall in love ith him...everytime...he becomes Arnav...ASR comes charging back...spewing all kinds of insults...His tenderness (when he wiped her tears)...was when she was unconscious...his thoughts about her have been when she was not there to see it...The point about Shyam...is a good one...She is very controlled with him...not even a glance suggesting otherwise...But Arnav...he has to evoke feelings in her that she has to make a visible effort to control...may be I am jumping ahead ...It is too early...

Arrey sushi..

I am with you on this Radhe!

For her love shall only happen after marriage...for her romantic love is synonymous with husband and his affections, care and concern.

So yes! She may be puzzled at why she does not really mind his closeness... even the bruise on the arm did not yield any thoughts of why she did not push him away just that he hurts her...

to her that wiring of love before marriage is short circuited.

Is lucknow express sirf poori station par rukti hai...not on the love station...it will direct dock at the marriage station!!

Sush isnt it kismat connection?

i mean...why does he follow her for one sorry...i know remorse is good, to apologise is even better but why the bechaini..

just cos he had said cutting words...? nothing new...right.but why this time

more than what either of them understand is that they are so alike... yet very different...

Hiya Sushi!

Her bright smile and his confused looks were the best thing...

And the apology part 2 was also sweet...

But I don't feel that dressing La like a bride and making her sit like they do in wedding nite...I don't understand how it will make him feel to look for his wife in La...May be I am missing something major!

And doing all these things for La, again Is she not aware of her feelings or she is aware and want to fight down it?

Nani's attempt to show La down irking high time...

Brilliantly put up everything!