Are they ruining the character- Arnav??

After watching the current episodes, I strongly feel that the CVs are upto ruin the character Arnav.

LOL, no I don't think so...

Firstly, I think Arnav is in character cause he's supposed to be that way. He wants to live the way he wants, on his own conditions. And currently, it;s a difference of opinion between him and Nani, and his actions are directed towards proving that nobody can direct him to do anything just for the sake of societal pressures.

As for Lavanya's issues, I find it understandable too, cause Arnav's character is shown to be that way. Till now, he didn't even know how to feel for anyone, so expecting him not to hurt anybody would be wrong. Every character has flaws, and that's what makes it interesting! It'd be so boring if he knew he was wrong treating Lavanya that way. Instead, now he'll realise gradually on his own. At present, he's totally confused about his feelings towards Lavanya himself. I find it totally believable.

Originally posted by: aa123.80

LOL, no I don't think so...

Firstly, I think Arnav is in character cause he's supposed to be that way. He wants to live the way he wants, on his own conditions. And currently, it;s a difference of opinion between him and Nani, and his actions are directed towards proving that nobody can direct him to do anything just for the sake of societal pressures.

As for Lavanya's issues, I find it understandable too, cause Arnav's character is shown to be that way. Till now, he didn't even know how to feel for anyone, so expecting him not to hurt anybody would be wrong. Every character has flaws, and that's what makes it interesting! It'd be so boring if he knew he was wrong treating Lavanya that way. Instead, now he'll realise gradually on his own. At present, he's totally confused about his feelings towards Lavanya himself. I find it totally believable.

As far as I know It is clear that he dont know whether he is in love with khushi but he very well know that he is in not love with Lavanya

i dont think they r ruining him. its just showing how rash he can be when in anger

i am feeling he does not know what he want .. bus ego ha nani aur khushi ka samna as they both dont listen him that is common btw them

Nope. His character is still the same. The character has many shades, which are being revelaed.

about la and love

One must kill his ego when it grow past them otherwise the ego will kill them

Originally posted by: rechup

As far as I know It is clear that he dont know whether he is in love with khushi but he very well know that he is in not love with Lavanya

So his actions are not at all justifiable.

Actually, he's not even sure that he doesn't love Lavanya. That's why he has no idea what he's doing and why. Arnav's character is currently going through a lot of internal conflict. He's denying that he's thinking about Khushi, that he feels for her, AND also Nani's issues with his way of living and not getting married. All this unleashes the rebel inside him. He's not doing all this cause it gives him happiness, but cause it gives him the feeling of being in control of his life.

In fact, this is all totally in character, cause Arnav just said in the last episode, that he thinks from his mind and not heart, and therefore, he doesn't really think about the fact that he could be doing wrong towards Lavanya, or hurting her feelings. I'd be upset if he started feeling guilty already!
For him, as long as Lavanya and him think alike, and they're happy together, it's fine.

Well the beauty of a char lies in its various Shades and the depth it has ...Arnav is one such man ...a kid who became a man to soon thus the disobedient ,stubborn ,rebellious kid still lives in him somewhere ,he is a man who hides his real beliefs,values ,emotions behind that i dont care for nething or neone attitude bec maybe he thinks his family suffered in the past bec of those very things ...and he wants to distance himself from ne such hurt ...as for Khushi she tends to poke out that real self of his ...and that is what leaves him all frustrated and hurt ...if u look from another point he is all cold and distant with Lavs and she is there for him but when he is all trying to be caring with Khushi ...she doesnt listen to him ...maybe bec of the past ...but the message that goes out to him ...is that those things dont work ...

Lavs has become a pawn in the chess game between the nani and her grandson...and when the Nani can try to win the game at the cost of using a girl ...then pota to bacha hai ji.

Imperfections mein hi Perfection hota hai