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Posted: 8 years ago
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The ritual of Groom carrying his Bride to the temple is also done in some part of Maharashtra, with the exception that it is done after the marriage. Below is the link which explains about a temple town where Groom has to carry the bride for around 450 steps, as a promise to take care of his wife for the rest of life.

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There are more curio shops than you can count; feature of any temple town in India. There are more visitors. Khandoba, the deity to whom the temple is dedicated, is the kuldevata' of a number of communities in Maharashtra. Tradition demands that when a man gets married, the first thing he has to do is to visit the Khandoba temple in Jejuri. Tradition demands that on the way to the top of the hill where the temple is located, the groom must carry the bride; to signify that he'll take care of his wife for the rest of his life. Now, that's a difficult task indeed. There are total 450 steps till you reach the fort-like temple. Nowadays, most grooms take two or three steps carrying their wives, and if you want to preserve the precious memory, you have the local photographers who will click your picture and deliver you the prints in 20 minutes flat.



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Posted: 8 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: Arshika_arshi

In Bengalis there is one such ritual where the new bride has to wash her husband's feet and wipe it with her hair..


Ki bolchho?? Seriously??😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I know even I have not heard of these rasams before...

But it's fiction so sab chalta hai I think.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Girlabouttown

I know even I have not heard of these rasams before...

But it's fiction so sab chalta hai I think.


No the Jhula Rasam happens in South Indian families.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: PSharada


Actually Jhula Rasam is done in some south indian families - After engagement or after marriage. The newly weds or engaged couple are made to sit on a flower decked swing and family members push it wishing them and blessing them.

yes Sharada...Jhula rasam is done in Brahim weddings of tamil and telugu people! but it is done after wedding!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lost_Somewhere



Ki bolchho?? Seriously??😆


Yeah have seen it during my pishtoto dada r biye.. 😆
also recently saw it in some Bengali serial also
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: deeps_92

yes Sharada...Jhula rasam is done in Brahim weddings of tamil and telugu people! but it is done after wedding!


One of my telugu friend had the Jhula rasam after engagement Deeps - They had a photo op also done at the rasam. So yes the jhula rasam happens in South Indian families. It is not something that has been written for the show.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Kithne saare rasme hain yaar.. Wow.

I mean, as long as we get to have fun and enjoy some cozy moments or even sweet moments, sab kuch chalega!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arshika_arshi


Yeah have seen it during my pishtoto dada r biye.. 😆
also recently saw it in some Bengali serial also


Confirmed it from my aunt now. Yes there is a ritual like this, however a very old one. Most families these days exclude this ritual. But some prefer to follow it.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Found the rasams new and interesting. Although have seen jhoola rasam many times being south Indian.
I guess in situations where groom faints, someone from the bride's family should step in.. A brother, chacha, mama, someone. But where is the fun in that, heroine ko tho hero hi uthana Hai. I would be pretty bored if the mama or the adulterer chacha carries her for the rasam, better that it is advay.

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