Annika's humiliation : 3rd May,2018

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Today my post may come under "rant" but I need to get this off my chest. Some may sneer at me and call me "mahila morcha log" but I don't care! To me entertainment is not about just going with the flow but it must be felt too.There has been lots of inconsistencies in Ishqbaaaz which we laugh or shrug off but sometimes somethings going overboard needs to be objected upon.I am just doing my bit,which my heart feels is correct.Many may disagree.To each her/his own.





Annika was objectified today and it was implied that she is on sale like a w***e. Does walking the ramp as a model equal to selling oneself?Should a woman always be judged and the man go scot free ?People/media questioned about her relationship with the cocky arrogant 🤬 "cricketer" just because she was walking the ramp with him and was apparantly"divorced".Does that imply divorced women are free for all and can be insulted anytime?

The idea that insulting a woman = insulting the woman's partner/husband/friend and is the easiest way to getting revenge is obnoxious. If this is nayi Soch and if this sorts of ideas are endorsed by a team predominantly comprising of women (producer+screenplay writer+ channel producer+stylist) then I must say it's disheartening.

Tomorrow SSO will come across and punch the guy for daring to challenge him by calling his "ex wife" a saleable commodity and we all will (including me) will cheer from the sidelines.
I cringed at the dialogue " Waise to Annika ki itni Aukaat nahi thi,lekin ab jab Viraj Solanki ne iska haath pakar liya hai toh iski bhi keemat badh gayi hain"




But, shouldn't we all take sometime time and genuinely think whether first degrading a woman publically and then becoming saintly by rescuing her is endorsable?

I was disappointed that Annika,my khirkitod woman was reduced to being a helpless delicate darling who did not give back? Where is that woman who earlier would have slapped and punched the man off the stage? She had dared to slap SSO once and now she just bears insults after insults without a word? Harneet and Co ---do you need to glorify a man by insulting a woman? Wouldn't it have been better if she stood up herself,slapped the man black and blue and roared that she is a woman who is just doing her job and minding her own business and that does not give any right to people to mock or judge her folllowed by the support of SSO who would then have roared that "Annika meri biwi hain! If anybody dares to insult her they have to first go through me.Whether we are married or divorced it does not justify the humiliation heaped on her.Our realtionship status is private.Jo kuch humare beech hain woh sirf humara hain.Sirf aur sirf humara.We don't need outsiders to comment."
That would have got a clap from me.


Note : A small request to those who respond to the post.Please be polite and be within the boundaries and rules of this forum.We may protest but in a dignified manner.We may disagree but lets agree to be within our limits.I wrote what I felt and have not intended to bash any character,real or fictional.Its just that the scenario presented today hurt my dignity as a woman.

PPS :
Can we just chuck her off?😡



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Posted: 7 years ago
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I'm honestly struggling, I can't bring my self up to watch the episodes anymore! I have almost given up on reading written updates and caps even, I see a lot of people get exited over the episode and I think that's good something good is happening il be able to watch my fave show again! Then i start watching the epi and give up halfway because I can't take this! To me I want that ishqbaaaz that was coming on air three weeks ago! I don't like the new characters!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hriju321

I was disappointed that Annika,my khirkitod woman was reduced to being a helpless delicate darling who did not give back? Where is that woman who earlier would have slapped and punched the man off the stage? She had dared to slap SSO once and now she just bears insults after insults without a word? Harneet and Co ---do you need to glorify a man by insulting a woman? Wouldn't it have been better if she stood up herself,slapped the man black and blue and roared that she is a woman who is just doing her job and minding her own business and that does not give any right to people to mock or judge her folllowed by the support of SSO who would then have roared that "Annika meri biwi hain! If anybody dares to insult her they have to first go through me.Whether we are married or divorced it does not justify the humiliation heaped on her.Our realtionship status is private.Jo kuch humare beech hain woh sirf humara hain.Sirf aur sirf humara.We don't need outsiders to comment."
That would have got a clap from me.


I agree with everything you said. It was a difficult to watch that scene. And what you said above would've been a perfect way to handle this. Let Annika handle herself first as a woman before Shivaay comes into the picture. What I'm hoping now is that this still happens even if in reverse order or any other. Harneet has surprised us a few times by bringing out social issues and this is definitely one of them so I'm hoping she comes through again. Great post!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Agree to every word that you have said. Hard to believe this was the girl who slapped Shivaay once upon a time. Annika has metamorphed into something new altogether (read new characterization by the writers). Is the only way to get ratings is humiliating a women,her marital status is not of a concern here because a woman is a woman. When will TV shows begin to take a stand for woman. I so wish the the second scenario that you had mentioned played out with Annika saving herself first & SSO barging in later on. Btw, Poojaji is here for a longer stay definitely. The character of Pooja is yet another example of terrible characterization of woman, wanting a much married man for whatever reason. She is in OM because of a fake marriage, which in itself is strange & none of the characters seem to be bothered at all. It's like OM got a new sofa set. All are okay with it. Terrible writing again with glaring loopholes.
The portrayal of woman in tellyworld is either an abla naari, sacrificing lady or totally vampish. This trend has to go...pronto!!!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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👏 👏 👏
Exact feelings for that particular scene, I really wanted that Anika give a hardest slap to that Viraaj at the stage itself and shut his mouth, So that he can know his keemat very well...My heart cried for the Khirkitod character I used to love, I really felt bad for her. That scene will be really wonderful if the writers have gone this way..but Sigh!!!! they think that showing abla nari bechaari types FL brings TRPs and liked by viewers...🤢
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Naju2388

I'm honestly struggling, I can't bring my self up to watch the episodes anymore! I have almost given up on reading written updates and caps even, I see a lot of people get exited over the episode and I think that's good something good is happening il be able to watch my fave show again! Then i start watching the epi and give up halfway because I can't take this! To me I want that ishqbaaaz that was coming on air three weeks ago! I don't like the new characters!


Naju 🤗
We all are struggling.I am on WU and today watched only these last few minutes and precap and that itself pushed me into depression.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: mon95


I agree with everything you said. It was a difficult to watch that scene. And what you said above would've been a perfect way to handle this. Let Annika handle herself first as a woman before Shivaay comes into the picture. What I'm hoping now is that this still happens even if in reverse order or any other. Harneet has surprised us a few times by bringing out social issues and this is definitely one of them so I'm hoping she comes through again. Great post!


@ bold : Me too hoping that she comes through and preserves the innate character of Annika.Keeping fingers crossed.

Thanks.😳
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Ohh god!! Rimi.
So right dear.

I dont know what I felt after watching the epi. I felt like crying.
Anika was so distraught .
Where was that girl who dared to slap The SSO?
Why did the CVs make her a glass doll?

And Harneet ne aaj bahut bada kaand kiya.
I felt humiliated ,
Standing there in front of world , a man talking about her keemat.
No self respectful woman can undergo that.It was too much.I dont know why I felt raw pain after watching the epis

Finally why do they show that bosses are bitches?

P.s Surbhi's acting was so perfect. She had that so lost look like why cant my pain go away.
Nakuul too phenomenal acting


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Posted: 7 years ago
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I saw few people are 👏👏 Viraj for giving back to SSO ki tadi ka jawab and they enjoyed it...😡😡😡
It was outright disgusting to watch that scene with so much drag and focus on Viraj ka manhandling, Anika ka abala nari mode oh so because Shivay ke izzat ka sawal hain and Shivay getting furious with as he watch Anika being humiliated... thy dragged the whole thing for close to 5-6 min...🤔

sorry but muzhe aja Anika par ghussa ayaa... she should have just given a chamattt to that Viraj right thn thr...


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Rimi i completely agree with you, and hope for a tight slap from Annika's side tomorrow.

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