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Anisa

@AnnzSageflower7

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: samprettyy
nice post

Thanks 😊

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Anisa

@AnnzSageflower7

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: ridz13sdqt
Much needed right now.. ❤️

I remember feeling this same annoyance when Shivaay was behaving weirdly after Annika's gunshot incident. Let's see where it goes this time around😉

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Anisa

@AnnzSageflower7

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: shalz_123
What a lovely post. N such an interesting take on his pda... Yeaj why not... If his hate was for all to see, may be the love also is...at least for the time being whrn he cant content his own happiness at having her with him, loving her, not trying to stop himself from loving her... So may be he is jist a small kid, who is just too excited. Doesn't mean that he doesn't have his SSO giri inside him... M pretty sure, when the time comes, he is ruthless as earlier SSO, bas font be so to annika ever...

Many will agree with me that Shivaay does everything in extremes, Tadi, anger, fierce protectiveness, love for family, and now love for his wife. Too excited is exactly the word for him. A tad vulnerable too, if I may add. Like the time he wore his heart on his sleeve when he reproposed, just before their breakup.

And how shellshocked he was when she attacked him that day, i remember feeling so sad that she was succeeding and he was just standing there listening.

Perhaps he needs to reconcile the brain and the heart to reach balanced Shivaay 2.0

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@Reeltoreal

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Hi Doc Morning ... you did it again ... I have read and re read what you have written as I was not able to digest this Shivay in Friday's episode . I get what you are saying but i have this question : what is he doing when they were alone ??? Why does he / all think at this stage only pda works??? When they were alone in the chawl they were normal I mean nothing poignant was shown ... they come back to OM n bam this other side erupts . I will even give in assuming that seeing Pinky reminded him of the harsh reality and he needs to constantly touch n feel her to assure himself that she does not disappear/ leave again ... but that still does not define the last scene where in even Rudy n Bhavya were trying to look anywhere n everywhere but at Shivika and I do not even want to talk about precap where Anika 's expressions show how she is feeling

https://vid.me/NOneL

Check this video out ... tell me you feel the same intensity that was there before all this arc . To me he feels like hormonal lusting Shivay than the head over heels in love with his wife Shivay . I do not mind his over protective over possessiveness he shows with Anika it's with in his character as was shown from the beginning. He was shown to be very intense n all in kind of a guy for what he loves n believes in .

The walk to jhoola him seeming lost in Annika not seeing or feeling anyone except her was all fine but this luvakshari n the last scene 🤢 is something I cannot bring myself to relate to .
I want that thin line between lust n Love not to be crossed when they are trying to show this new in love Shivay ...a balance needs to maintained... I am hoping they will do that soon . Do not even know if I made sense .

Too much of an rant may be but I watch IB for Shivay so I think you get the rest :-)

Edited by yash2010 - 8 years ago

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Anisa

@AnnzSageflower7

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: KALVIN
It's late but lovely as always. Yes in spite of so many posts on Shivvay's PDA, i am of different opinion. I did not find anything wrong in his behavior. I am loving this side of SSO. He is SSO whatever he does, does with full authority. When Annika came back to OM after separation, from that time only he is losing control on his emotions but his mind was stopping him. How can we forget Pari washing machine scene, he was completely lost and was doing kand with Annika's hand in presence of Rudy. After so much sufferings and pains he is a complete ishqbaaz after Pinki's exposure and he deserves this happiness. Now his heart won the battle over his mind. For me Ishqbaaz SSO is treat to watch and i am sure much more is on the way from Annika's Shivvay.

Sorry yaar, Saturdays always run away from me.. plus it was pretty tense in here so I stayed away a bit..😆

Before he used to doggedly use logic and discipline to rule his life, perhaps his heart has taken over right now and it's imperfect too.. for him to use both in balance he has yet to achieve..

I've seen friends behave like utter fools after they fell in love , some do love too much and go overboard, sometimes even the girl feels a little smothered. But here Annika is taking it all in quite gracefully, in fact she herself had to stop him.

See that scene where he catches her hand after the family meeting around LOC line.. she issued the challenge

"The challenge I've already made. Let's see.."

"That's what I'm doing. I'm looking... " Looking at you ...

He went overboard with his lovey dovey and she had to snap him out of it... it was so incredibly cute.. at least he can accept that she does that for him.. something very very cute.. and private.

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Nirmala

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Posted: 8 years ago

#16

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lovely wu Anisa, back in the morning

Anisa, Shivaay is a complex man, with 100 shades like his kanji aankhen. This feeling, this LOVE that is bubbling inside of him, is a new emotion for him. He never believed in Love to begin with and when cupid struck him, he does not know how to react, oblivious to all but the emotion that he feels when he is around Anika. He is overwhelmed, he is a possessive man who wants to hear the words from his lady love.

He was chasing Anika around OM after her return, when he was still angry at her, had not forgiven her for hurting his family, romancing her in the hallways with the numerous trip and fall embrace/eyelocks, like a man possessed. Whose every thought consumed his consciousness, fought the attraction tooth and nail, felt anger at his judgement of Anika. Post the grant revelation, he is feeling guilt over his hasty judgement, lashing out at her and is trying to make amends, this girl who never demanded or asked for much from him or his family, means the very world to him now. He is giddy in love, blind to all but Anika and while it is embarrassing for the audience at times... aka the family... they are also seeing the carefree Billu who does not care what the world thinks of him. He is unfettered, free of the shackles that he bound himself to in the name of OBEROI. As Rudra pointed out in his room, post the orphanage visit, Shivaay has become Anika's Shivaay completely, surrendering to the power of love.

Anika is basking in his attentions and is wary yet, holding back from confessing her Love. She is the one who is stronger of the two and is giving him takkar, not yielding to shivaay easily. Going to be made all the more sweeter when she does confess. I hope that HS has a khidkitod scene written for this. The long awaited confession should knock our socks off... like Shivaay is going to be.

Saw glimpses of the carefree Anika when she was throwing flowers at Shivaay, the teasing, the smiles and laughs. There is time for the serious convo that must be spoken, the pain filled separation and how she came back to OM.

Shivaay removing the flower from her hair is a throwback or a completion of what she did, during the fake Shitia wedding. The two have always challenged each other and this yet another game which will cement their love further. The farak games, dard games, haq games and now the love game... who will win or what will make them surrender..oh so sweet...

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shamina

@Sakkiyah

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Posted: 8 years ago

#17

Awesome post 👏👏

Shivaay's journey from SSO to Anika's shivaay...it was a slow transformation.It was not happen in one day.It took months.The wall between is fading now.From Shivaay's side he accepted her wholeheartedly.first she was his takat but now his guroor too.NKK is vanished in his world.

Shivaay was always mature when it comes to his feelings .He always had a control on it.But when it comes to Anika...she was different.He always tried to mask his feelings.But his kanji ankhein always followed her.

Now why Shivaay is showing this public affection to her...

After pari's exit Anika told Shivaay that she didn't know he can love someone this extend.Shivaay was shocked after hearing that.His expression in his face...you didn't know...Anika always understood Shivaay better than anyone.His brothers and dadi also failed sometimes.But she always surprised him.

She didn't judge him and accept him what he is.

But that one question shake his basement.where i was wrong?she didn't know how much i loved her?

He always showed his love and affection privately.

Once he told to the whole world"hamare beech mein jo kuch bhi hai vo hamara hai"

Always he showed his love in private and anger in public.

But one thing i never liked about this character.He can show his anger also in their room.It is between them.Then why he shout her in public...in the presence of whole family.

But Now he is evolved into Anika's shivaay.

Once she herself confessed that she want to become number 1 in someone's life.she wanted to do all the madness in love.Now he is doing everything for her.

She is his first love...The people falls in love first time they will be in a dreamland.They forget about themself and do the things which will make their partners happy.

Here Shivika is in that stage.

And Dadi's two foot distance and omkara's line of control is only accelerating this.

Both were sad when dadi told this rule.Only in functions he is getting some time with her.Always his family is surrounding her and dadi is following him.

In chawl why they were normal like the old Shivika?

Because for shivaay It was a new place and to live like a normal life leaving his luxuries..

He took some time to adjust in this new place.But he was with her whole day and was only want her happy.when he got a chance the nature spoiled his plans.

But she opened about why she is afraid of darkness.

We can't blame him...

Now he didn't want to lose at her.

Pinky and shivaay always had a different equation.For him his brothers and dadi was first priority.After that his mother.she was the sole reason for his belief in NKK.she always loved money above than him and he know it.

But his love for his mother is still there.He believed his mother never harm anyone nor she can think about it.only her words are bitter.

But he was wrong.His mother tried to separate him from his wife by blackmailing her with his birth.she called him illegitimate.kiddnapped him and support kamini.It was a shock for shivaay.

He is angry with her.He is only made a distance between them.

But now too pinky is not accepting her mistakes.

Edited by Sakkiyah - 8 years ago

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Anisa

@AnnzSageflower7

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Posted: 8 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: lams
Lovely Analysis ... Yes the PDA side of shivaay has not been seen by anyone even the family so its a big surprise to one and all ... I think shivaay does it specially for the months of grief that he gave her and to show his mother specifically ...
Yes its a bit surprising to all of us since shivaay hasnt been like that ... lets give him a chance ...its a new realisation for him ..

Thanks!

Even after she was gone, Shivaay's behaviour was extreme. Riding bikes fast, uncaring about his image, distant about everything, like his heart had left with Annika that day and a hollow shell remained. Only time he came alive was when she came back. Jealousy was OTT, fight and reaction to mother's lies was OTT too, you know disowning his mom and all. He does everything extreme.

What it looks like to me is , He is going through some emotional upheaval and he is latching on to Annika for support, she and OmRu had hurt themselves for him.

I would expect a feud with your mother is extremely upsetting emotionally, and he isn't quite his normal self.

He wants Annika to confess she loves him so he can be rid of the guilt he feels. Everytime he talks to his mother, the guilt returns because she still hates Annika.

"My mother, hates the woman I love so much. She hurt Annika a lot. And I didn't know." He had to choose between the two women he loves most in his life. That's tough.

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falsePromise

@falsePromise

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Posted: 8 years ago

#19

Great post as always..

I hope people will now stop ranting about the PDA PDA thing.

Its a phase of their love story...like they had the dark side...they had the tskkar side...this is kinda cute side...im sure soon it will turn into deep romance .

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KALVIN

@KALVIN

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Posted: 8 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: AnnzSageflower7

Sorry yaar, Saturdays always run away from me.. plus it was pretty tense in here so I stayed away a bit..😆

I've seen friends behave like utter fools after they fell in love , some do love too much and go overboard, sometimes even the girl feels a little smothered. But here Annika is taking it all in quite gracefully, in fact she herself had to stop him.

And when you lose somebody very dear to you and no hope of getting her back and suddenly one fine morning you get that person back with no baggage, this kind of behavior is obvious. In this scenario i feel he is still much under control and i am surprised how he is controlling himself. So this is PDA is nothing. Mark my words, a volcano is burning inside him which will erupt very soon.

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