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Posted: 8 years ago
#41

I'm curious to see how they pull off the 3 months. The separation setup is lame and both characters are being butchered again for the sake artificial angst lol. What happens after might be interesting.

The writers make the characters stupid, weak, or evil to progress the plot that I never feel bad for them. As for her drama, I don't really care lol. How many times did he manipulate and hurt her for his own interests. When he does it he's a family man šŸ˜† They even had her lecturing his family to forgive him over his horrendous behavior towards her lol. She took a page for his book and according to him anything goes for family and the means always justify the ends.

With that being said, that doesn't mean she isn't wrong. The only difference between her and Pinky is their intention, but the method is the same manipulating him using weakness. Whitewashing her manipulations is the same as whitewashing his actions for the forced wedding or Pinky's blackmailing. Just because Omru and Jhanvi are a part of the plan doesn't make less crappy. It actually makes it worse because everyone is plotting against him and emotionally manipulating him in guise of protecting him.

Like most tv serial FLs she is taken for granted but it's not like she isn't a willingly participant. You teach people how to treat you and she gave them a free pass to humiliate and disrespect her. She never stood up for herself or her brother because the writers used the "love makes you weak and she is kind as an excuse for her tolerating everything lol. Olivia demands respects tv serials FLs don't lol.

As for the leap, it would be nice if she wasn't spineless anymore and started living for herself again, but I doubt it lol. TRP audiences don't like strong characters that's why they ruined her character in the first place. I haven't watched Gul's shows before but twitter says most of MLs try to win back the FL so I guess that's a positive.

Edited by onlyrani - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: pickachu


Great!!
Exactly my pov
I can't explain myself so come off as anika's hater nowadays but that exactly what i wanted to say.
Can u make it as a post on main forum


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Posted: 8 years ago
#43
You know ideal situation she should've started blackmailing shakti if pinkybwas doing this to her she should've gone to shakti and be like you tell him. But nah phir yeh sab drama kaise hota
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Posted: 8 years ago
#44
Beautiful post.. ā¤ļø specially now..,amidst all the tears 😭
There is only one question I wanted to ask though.. When Shivaay says Usne apni shaadi Tod di.. does it mean he is going to divorce her..?? 😭 that's the only pressing concern I have here.. 😭

Do you have any idea how many times married couples say that to each other when they are angry or enraged with each other ..lol šŸ˜† Given the statistic of that happening, an average couple like Shivvay and Annika would be divorcing almost every 3 -4 months if they took that seriously šŸ˜‰

Of course once the kids come it is not said as often or as loudly because they will hear (so that means the couple does care about their family and kids) but yes it is still said thru clenched teeth or rasped whispers 🤣

On a serious note though, and saying this from watching my close friends go through a rough patch first hand, saying the words are easier than actually acting upon it. Divorce or separation is not the easiest thing for a couple in love to go through no matter that they have developed some very serious issues between them. It is not just a matter of signing papers, it is a matter of going through it physically while sitting either in the lawyers office or the courtroom for more than one meeting.
You will be amazed to know that out of 100 couples there are only about 20% or less who actually go through the divorce if it has been a strong marriage that has fallen apart.

I hope you feel better about the divorce bit or the 'this marriage is over' bit now ..lol
Shivvay's marriage is not over yet - not even by a long shot šŸ˜†


Edited by asya34 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#45
I hv a question to everyone who thinks this is love from Shivaay... The Dude is smitten... He is attracted... But Is he fully in love?
Before u jump on me read on and then decide for ur self...

Let me talk about only the time after Shivaay declared Annika as his biwi... Annika Meri biwi hai...
After that declaration Annika helped get him out from his kidnap.. Annika kept feeling there was smthing wrong with him... She kept getting vibes that Mahi wasn't Shivaay .. Shivaay was in danger... He gave credit to Annika... Annika took a bullet for him... Yes it just brushed her and went... Nonetheless She saved him...
He got beaten by goons n got just a sprain... His Mom was all over him with babaji's lep but dint bothered asking how Annika was even once... Was Shivaay blind that none bothers about Annika? Especially his mother? Was he so blind that he can't see his mother hates Annika?
Annika told him she went to see Mahi Coz someone so clos on looks n hving same voice can't be mere coincidence...he says let police do their work... U don't interfere... He wasn't bothered even one bit that someone looks exactly like him, has same voice stayed as him and yet dint steal anything... Weird... No connection? Then why was Mahi in OM at all? He doesn't even know Mahi is kamini's son... His lack of finding out backgrounds of ppl if they r from respectable professions is seen clearly... His NKK is way too ingrained... Just Coz ranveer is ACP he dint bothered finding bout kamini on his own... Else he wud hv known kamini isn't ranveer's mother n mahi is kamini's son...
He shuns Annika from finding out the truth as well...
Someone already pointed out... Shivaay Dint bother finding out bout Mahi coz Mahi's language proved it he is a Sadak chap and Shivaay know he is najayaz... So y bother finding bout him... He isn't Someone with NKK that Shivaay shud b bothered...

Annika find Mahi's truth but doesn't tell Shivaay coz she is wondering how to tell him... It's a huge truth... It will shake his foundation... She contemplates telling Om but doesn't... She shud keep quiet and bare it for sanity of the house... Pinky aunty will be hurt... Shivaay will b devastated... Let me keep all in dark of what they don't know... If mahi ha slept quiet for 32 yrs he will keep quiet even now... Does annika want to be the reason to break Shivaay's bubble? No... She Let's him stay in peace as he is...

Shivaay's business press conference n even after him telling pan wala that don't share my no with nayantara...She comes there claiming to be Annika's mother... Shivaay When Got to know bout nayantara from orphanage matron dint ask even once how he got her name and location? If he can get now why dint Annika know about it till now? No questions asked... He got name n location n he went... Coz His Need to dig out NKK was so deep that he doesn't even think y Annika doesn't know bout her mom for so many yrs if matron can give him the name and location in one day... Till Now all his findings about Annika's NKK he has shared with pinky... He doesn't doubt pinky even once though he sees her taunting n hurting Annika every time... Y will he doubt pinky... Coz Pinky is his mom... She has NKK... Why will she stoop so low... Only ppl without NKK can stoop low...

When Annika blamed pinky from r getting NT he yelled at her... Agreed He doesn't believe his mom can do such a thing... He dint trust Annika.. N annika was wrong... She pointed it out at wrong time n wrong place... She dint collect enuf proof against pinky... She just blamed infront of all...

But after NT's exit... When Om asked y did NT come here... Shivaay says money... Om points She cud hv taken it when she kidnapped sahil... Shivaay has no answer to that... He doesn't even think who has helped NT... He Knows someone did but who and why... He doesn't try finding out... If he did then he wud hv been a husband who respects his wife n her self respect... When it comes to HIS family he is willing to destroy the opposing person without even thinking if his family is right or wrong... He isn't on right or truth ka side... He is always just on HIS family's side... N annika Still isn't his family... He just says she is... If she really was... He wud hv destroyed NT and found out who tried to get NT in OM as Annika's mother and also hurt Annika coz Annika nvr saw her mom for so many yrs... She lived in an orphanage... A life filled with difficulties... Who dug her wounds by getting a fake mother to demean Annika... Did Shivaay try finding that out? Nopes he dint...
Prinku's wedding... He yelled at Annika... And later said I know u dint do anything... But Then who did...why did ranveer thank Annika... If annika Cud see the cctv footage so can Shivaay... Did he bother finding out... If annika Dint do it who did it... Coz whoever did it wanted others to feel Annika did it...
Annika spoke the truth that OMRu don't deserve his shares... Nuthing in this life comes for free... Nuthing shud... If OMRu can get his free shares so shud Annika coz if they r his brothers she is his wife... Her future too is his responsibility in that case...
What she said about pinky too that Har saas sirf anpi bahu pe ilzaam Dalti hai... Well Well Shivaay u ur self said mom ka Rina dhona...he Knows his mom does nautanki... So y not think even once that may b Annika is saying truth... Mom does want to trouble her all the time... N She does taunt n insult Annika always... Just Coz annika doesn't say anything doesn't time an she doesn't get hurt... She is human after all... Shivaay sees annika like this but doesn't once think may b his mom is at fault and she needs to be told that whatever it is Annika is his wife n she needs to get full respect as his wife... His wife may be an orphan but now she is Shivaay's respect... So If his wife isn't given full respect it is he who isn't being given respect... Annika Even said jisne galati kiyi woh mauffi mange... Did Shivaay think about all event pinky did with Annika till now... No He was just in his hope for SR and kept waiting for Annika... Thinking how can she stay away from bedroom...

He has been wondering and has clearly seen every time anika pinky converse... Annika loses light from her eyes... Annika has tears in her eyes... Smthing is wrong he knows but he doesn't bother finding out what is wrong... Y? Coz Annika isn't isn't as imp to him as his family... Annika rightly told Jhanvi... For a few months with her, he can't leave his mom of life... He hasn't reached that level yet...

Annika telling media his double standards of her NKK and his brother's NKK makes him fume with so much anger that he breaks his marriage then and there with her... Tia Did so bad with whole family... Tried killing annika multiple times but he nvr humiliated her infront of all... Tia infront of media told she was going to mother Shivaay's child... Yet he kept quiet... Here annika speaks one truth(for Shivaay that's the truth that Om is illegitimate) and she has the chip fiasco to talk about and he breaks his relationship with her infront of all... Wow So much for her being his family... She is deffo using his weakness but whatever Annika has said and used till now are the truths as per Shivaay... If They r truth y shud she punished for them and not the ones who r the culprits or victims of that truth? She as a carrier of these news is being punished... That Just shows whr she stands in his life... He is infatuated, besotted by her not in love... He talks about trust and faith being foundation of their relationship... But if he really had trust in her he wud hv reacted to find out the truth behind NT ka entry and prinku's wedding... He dint... So he doesn't trust Annika...

Ppl say Annika shud let him know the truth... Y y shud She be the reason or carrier of truth of his life... That isn't her problem to deal with... She shudnt leave him at Pinky's mercy if she really lives him... Let Pinky tell him the truth... So we'll... Annika shud do everything for him... Even protect him from his mother when he denies seeing every truth she tried to show him before... He Knows she is thinking of leaving coz she has been recording him... Touching him as if touching him for last time... If he doesn't understand what's happening even after all this then when will he... If he is in love he wud hv known what's happening.. He wud hv tried finding out... What he doesn't when pinky insults Annika... He tells Annika mom kuch bhi bol deti hain but unke Mann mein kuch nahi hota... Really Agar kuch nahi hota toh baar baar hurt kyon kare? Jo baar baar kare woh janbujhkar kare... N If purposely kare toh there has to be some reason... Also y shud annika bear it all... Just Coz she is Shivaay's mother? Did Shivaay even bother asking what Jhanvi n pinky were fighting about during kul gotra puja? No he didn't coz pinky yelled louder n created drama... So Jhanvi's voice was trampled... He nvr once thot may b pinky did something wrong...

All in all... Shivaay As per me hasn't reached there yet as a husband... He has got Annika too easily... He doesn't deserve her yet... Yes he took a bullet for her... So did she... She acknowledges she lives him... He yet doesn't do that to himself as well... Just after talking to daadi he thot he was in love... But it's more the teenage butterfly love... Not deep enuf to leave it for for its own good...

See the conviction OMRu had that there is something bothering Annika... Ru Knows annika loves them. And hence cud take her hand n keep on his head and ask for kasam...shivaay sees her lost n in tears... Asks her... Knows she isnt giving real answer... But beyond that let's it be... Doesnt dig it... If he was convinced she was in trouble or was disturbed... He too cud hv given kasam and asked her... But no he won't as he isn't yet there...



This post is far too longer than I anticipated... Will talk about Annika in next one


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Posted: 8 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: asya34



🤣🤣 Ask me about it!!! My husband says that atleast once a week, either casually or in heated arguments!!! Now, this dialogue sounds like a joke to my ears šŸ˜† šŸ˜† Just like in our adolescent days, we get pissed off by our mother's advice and we just say "I just wish you were not my mother' or in the lines of it!!! 99% Words uttered in anger never is intentional and true. the other 1% depends on the person who said!!! Here Shivaay comes in the 99%. So no worries... kahin bhi jaayege, wapas Annika ke paas hi aana hai, koi aur use jhel nahin sakta...😳

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Pearl, lots of hugs and kisses for you for this post. I agree each and every word.
You are welcome 😊

I mentioned in one of your posts few days ago, Shivaay's illegitimacy issue is not for Anika's to deal with and whatever Pinky is doing is not Anika's battle to fight. true.. this is between the man and his parents. She as his wife should support him but that is about the extent to which her involvement should be.

Anika has tried her best to bring to Shivaay's notice all the truths that exist right under his nose, but since they are related to his family, he chooses to ignore them. He can very well tell Anika that you are not responsible for Prinku getting married and he can also apologize for his mom's behavior towards her, but the truth at the end of the day is that Shivaay is still not at all ready to be at a place where he can choose between his NKK and his love for Anika. That is why Anika is doing all this, because she knows that he maybe able to live without her but he will not be able to live with the truth of his birth.
True again. He believed that she had nothing to do with Prinku's marriage but he did not dig into who was responsible if it was not Annika, so that her name would be cleared. It seemed like he was almost afraid that it would be his mom or another Family member. If Gauri could pull up the footage and see the clue I am sure Shivvay re ran it and saw his mother's hand. He recognizes every jewellery she wears. So that means he is not quite there as a husband yet. It is still her or the Family.

Lot of us will say that Shivaay will be ab;e to bear the truth but he won't be able to live with Anika. I don't agree with it, because he maybe in love and absolutely smitten with her, but he is not 'Mere Shivaay' like you mentioned.
No Shivvay cannot bear the truth.
When Shivvay could not bear the truth about his mother being involved with NT because that questioned his respect as her son how will Shivvay bear the truth about his own respect being questioned?!!
That means if he is far from accepting the truth about his mother because she is the basis of his whole NKK, you can only imagine how far he is from being able to accept that he is illegitimate.
He lives in an alternate universe, an illusion (Siddhartha Gautama) and Annika has left him the gift of living in that illusion so as to keep him happy. It is a very sad thing for Shivvay that he has to be protected from the truth like a child in case he gets traumatized by the truth.
He is still miles away from becoming the mature 'Mere Shivvay' - the man who has seen the truth and lived to tell it.


If we look back to Shivika's journey, most of the problems face by Shivika has been because of Shivaay's NKK. His not doing a background check on Tia and then not believing Anika when she tried to bring Tua's truth in front of him. He only believed her because Tia became over smart and lied about the baby being his.
Yes and it has always been Annika who has protected and saved him from these things as the priest said. Now that his buffer zone and shock absorber is gone, or should I say been thrown out by him, he will have to face all the realities of life himself.

When Daksh lied to Shivaay about ONS, he believed him instantly because of his NKK, because how can Daksh a guy with such a high status lie? He just accepted it and Anika had to suffer at the hands of his NKK then too.
Yes she paid the price but I blame Annika there too. She should have known better than to make such rash decisions that would have affected Sahil as well. She should remember the little boy is her responsibility.
I hope she has learned her lesson and does not do it this time around again.


Dev and Prinku incident, how he humiliated her and fired her thinking it was her who brought into their house to meet Prinku, because how can his precious sister disobey his orders? I still believe Ranveer hasn't changed and he is pretending that he has, so sooner or later Shivaay will have to look back and realize that because of his NKK, he let go of a guy who genuinely liked Prinku and wanted to keep her happy, just because he was illegitimate. That decision of his paved way for Ranveer to target Prinku, who will sooner and later ends up suffering through Ranveer;s hands.
Yes. The weight of his sins and his mothers are going to come crashing down on their heads.

Another huge reason why he isn't still 'Mere Shivaay' is because even though he says that Anika and Sahil are his family too, he still doesn't treat them as such. If he did, he would have trusted Anika and let her know about DaiMa's video and Om's truth when he learned of it. His reason for going with ML idea was not just to expose Mrs. Kapoor and Tia, it was also to get rid of DaiMa's video. Wasn't it because of that video, Shivaay didn't say a word when Sahil was being accused of being a thief? For his brother's sake, he let Sahil and Anika face the humiliation. I could never figure out why he didn't tell Anika, even though he knew that Anika loves OmRu as much as he does but still he told Sahil not to tell Anika.
Right again but I will repeat myself when I say Annika was a very easy win for him and that is why he took her and Sahil for granted most times. He needs to earn her this time and I hope that Annika does not make it too easy for him.

Even now, when when he is so in love, he still tends to take one look at evidence and in a fit of anger believe Anika to be wrong, like we saw during Prinku's marriage truth coming out. Yup!

These days Anika has been behaving so out of character that he keep questioning it, but not once did he try to find out why? Anika is being emotionally abused right under his nose but his and his danger signals doesn't go off? She is tragetting his brothers for God's sake and he is still clueless? His brothers have more faith and trust in her then he does. The step Anika is taking tomorrow actually helps bring out Om's truth that he is not illegitimate, so Shivaay should be actually thanking her, but no all he will see is hos brothers being threatened because they are his family, his blood.
Exactly. And what did she say that was so wrong??!! She merely accused him of having double standards that is all. I know Pinky had the media there and hence he blew up but the question she asked was not at all wrong.

Also, when Shivaay found out Om's truth from DaiMa, he just assumed it was OM, because not even in his subconscious he can imagine that DaiMa could be talking about him. That is how much his NKK is ingrained in him. Another example is Mahi. Om is illegitimate, it didn't matter to Shivaay and he hid the truth from his brothers, why? Because Om is still an Oberoi, doesn't matter if his mom is someone else. Whereas Mahi, who shows at his house, pretends to be him after Shivaay is kidnapped, and Shivaay not once wonders why? I mean its practically impossible to find a doppelganger of yourself in the same country, let alone in the same city. And if by miracle that happened, why would the doppelganger get him kidnapped, pretends to be him and not steal money when he could do so by signing cheaque and cashing a huge amount? Not once did he think that Mahi might be related to him someway? How can a guy living a chawl be related to him, let alone be his twin?
That is what I said .. he lives in an Illusion created by his mother, because she wants him to be what she has ambitions for just like Gautam's father did. So he lives in the 'Palace of Pleasures' that disconnects him from the world outside.

The reason for this long post is not to portray Shivaay in a bad light and justify Anika's actions. It is just to explain that Shivaay still has a long way to go when it comes to Anika, their relationship and marriage. Shivika needs this separation for Shivaay and his family, especially Pinky to stop taking Anika for granted. Let them live without Anika and face their problems on their own, they will be yearning to bring back Anika themselves desperately, because they don't even realize it that its Anika who is that the great wall of Oberois now and not Shivaay.
Absolutely true. Neither is wrong or right but both need to find themselves and who they really are before they become a 'we'.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Now coming to Annika the Mahan lady... As some may call her... But to me she is a lady in love who believes love isn't for her and that all those who she loves r destined to leave her...
Annika has had a rather rough childhood filled with loneliness and pain... Humiliation of being called najayaz... Pain of being called orphan at every opportunity... Reminded That she was the unwanted child by nature and hence was in orphanage left to lead a lonely life... Got sahil n his family as her family.. Only to lose them and be insulted by sahil's Bua all the time... The only one who gave her love was sahil... Then the Oberois came... She got respect and love from. Jhanvi, dadi, Om, ru... She felt at peace... After numerous insults and force marriage she got a caring husband... Care and concern she carved from since childhood... She got that in her husband... She fell in love... She is in love but doesn't yet trust relationships to no leave her... She believes Shivaay isn't yet at stage where she is his no 1 and it is true... She isnt his no 1... If She was sure no matter what he wud chose her... She cud hv told pinky u can tell Shivaay all and then. Lose him forever but as she knows she isn't his no1... She is planning to run away... Or leave him before he makes her deeper in love with him. Before breaking her totally... Coz as per her she will always b his no 3... 1 Being OMRu... 2 Being oberoi family... 3 Being her... His So called family...
Annika knows love doesn't stay in her life... Khushiyaan aane se pehele dukhon ka pahad tutta hai uspe...hamesha... And uski life ki yehi sachhai hai... So she is running... Running away before the pahad breaks on her... Is she right? She is being selfish to protect her someppl will say that... Well yes... U shud think about ur self before u think bout others atleast sometimes... But here too she is thinking how it will break Shivaay's existence... She wants to prolong revelations of some thing that will shatter him... She doesn't want to be a reason for him knowing it... She shudnt b the one for the blame again... She shudnt be blamed for separating a son from his mother...
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Originally posted by: vivacious_gurl

I hv a question to everyone who thinks this is love from Shivaay... The Dude is smitten... He is attracted... But Is he fully in love?

Before u jump on me read on and then decide for ur self...

Let me talk about only the time after Shivaay declared Annika as his biwi... Annika Meri biwi hai...
After that declaration Annika helped get him out from his kidnap.. Annika kept feeling there was smthing wrong with him... She kept getting vibes that Mahi wasn't Shivaay .. Shivaay was in danger... He gave credit to Annika... Annika took a bullet for him... Yes it just brushed her and went... Nonetheless She saved him...
He got beaten by goons n got just a sprain... His Mom was all over him with babaji's lep but dint bothered asking how Annika was even once... Was Shivaay blind that none bothers about Annika? Especially his mother? Was he so blind that he can't see his mother hates Annika?
Annika told him she went to see Mahi Coz someone so clos on looks n hving same voice can't be mere coincidence...he says let police do their work... U don't interfere... He wasn't bothered even one bit that someone looks exactly like him, has same voice stayed as him and yet dint steal anything... Weird... No connection? Then why was Mahi in OM at all? He doesn't even know Mahi is kamini's son... His lack of finding out backgrounds of ppl if they r from respectable professions is seen clearly... His NKK is way too ingrained... Just Coz ranveer is ACP he dint bothered finding bout kamini on his own... Else he wud hv known kamini isn't ranveer's mother n mahi is kamini's son...
He shuns Annika from finding out the truth as well...
Someone already pointed out... Shivaay Dint bother finding out bout Mahi coz Mahi's language proved it he is a Sadak chap and Shivaay know he is najayaz... So y bother finding bout him... He isn't Someone with NKK that Shivaay shud b bothered...

Annika find Mahi's truth but doesn't tell Shivaay coz she is wondering how to tell him... It's a huge truth... It will shake his foundation... She contemplates telling Om but doesn't... She shud keep quiet and bare it for sanity of the house... Pinky aunty will be hurt... Shivaay will b devastated... Let me keep all in dark of what they don't know... If mahi ha slept quiet for 32 yrs he will keep quiet even now... Does annika want to be the reason to break Shivaay's bubble? No... She Let's him stay in peace as he is...

Shivaay's business press conference n even after him telling pan wala that don't share my no with nayantara...She comes there claiming to be Annika's mother... Shivaay When Got to know bout nayantara from orphanage matron dint ask even once how he got her name and location? If he can get now why dint Annika know about it till now? No questions asked... He got name n location n he went... Coz His Need to dig out NKK was so deep that he doesn't even think y Annika doesn't know bout her mom for so many yrs if matron can give him the name and location in one day... Till Now all his findings about Annika's NKK he has shared with pinky... He doesn't doubt pinky even once though he sees her taunting n hurting Annika every time... Y will he doubt pinky... Coz Pinky is his mom... She has NKK... Why will she stoop so low... Only ppl without NKK can stoop low...

When Annika blamed pinky from r getting NT he yelled at her... Agreed He doesn't believe his mom can do such a thing... He dint trust Annika.. N annika was wrong... She pointed it out at wrong time n wrong place... She dint collect enuf proof against pinky... She just blamed infront of all...

But after NT's exit... When Om asked y did NT come here... Shivaay says money... Om points She cud hv taken it when she kidnapped sahil... Shivaay has no answer to that... He doesn't even think who has helped NT... He Knows someone did but who and why... He doesn't try finding out... If he did then he wud hv been a husband who respects his wife n her self respect... When it comes to HIS family he is willing to destroy the opposing person without even thinking if his family is right or wrong... He isn't on right or truth ka side... He is always just on HIS family's side... N annika Still isn't his family... He just says she is... If she really was... He wud hv destroyed NT and found out who tried to get NT in OM as Annika's mother and also hurt Annika coz Annika nvr saw her mom for so many yrs... She lived in an orphanage... A life filled with difficulties... Who dug her wounds by getting a fake mother to demean Annika... Did Shivaay try finding that out? Nopes he dint...
Prinku's wedding... He yelled at Annika... And later said I know u dint do anything... But Then who did...why did ranveer thank Annika... If annika Cud see the cctv footage so can Shivaay... Did he bother finding out... If annika Dint do it who did it... Coz whoever did it wanted others to feel Annika did it...
Annika spoke the truth that OMRu don't deserve his shares... Nuthing in this life comes for free... Nuthing shud... If OMRu can get his free shares so shud Annika coz if they r his brothers she is his wife... Her future too is his responsibility in that case...
What she said about pinky too that Har saas sirf anpi bahu pe ilzaam Dalti hai... Well Well Shivaay u ur self said mom ka Rina dhona...he Knows his mom does nautanki... So y not think even once that may b Annika is saying truth... Mom does want to trouble her all the time... N She does taunt n insult Annika always... Just Coz annika doesn't say anything doesn't time an she doesn't get hurt... She is human after all... Shivaay sees annika like this but doesn't once think may b his mom is at fault and she needs to be told that whatever it is Annika is his wife n she needs to get full respect as his wife... His wife may be an orphan but now she is Shivaay's respect... So If his wife isn't given full respect it is he who isn't being given respect... Annika Even said jisne galati kiyi woh mauffi mange... Did Shivaay think about all event pinky did with Annika till now... No He was just in his hope for SR and kept waiting for Annika... Thinking how can she stay away from bedroom...

He has been wondering and has clearly seen every time anika pinky converse... Annika loses light from her eyes... Annika has tears in her eyes... Smthing is wrong he knows but he doesn't bother finding out what is wrong... Y? Coz Annika isn't isn't as imp to him as his family... Annika rightly told Jhanvi... For a few months with her, he can't leave his mom of life... He hasn't reached that level yet...

Annika telling media his double standards of her NKK and his brother's NKK makes him fume with so much anger that he breaks his marriage then and there with her... Tia Did so bad with whole family... Tried killing annika multiple times but he nvr humiliated her infront of all... Tia infront of media told she was going to mother Shivaay's child... Yet he kept quiet... Here annika speaks one truth(for Shivaay that's the truth that Om is illegitimate) and she has the chip fiasco to talk about and he breaks his relationship with her infront of all... Wow So much for her being his family... She is deffo using his weakness but whatever Annika has said and used till now are the truths as per Shivaay... If They r truth y shud she punished for them and not the ones who r the culprits or victims of that truth? She as a carrier of these news is being punished... That Just shows whr she stands in his life... He is infatuated, besotted by her not in love... He talks about trust and faith being foundation of their relationship... But if he really had trust in her he wud hv reacted to find out the truth behind NT ka entry and prinku's wedding... He dint... So he doesn't trust Annika...

Ppl say Annika shud let him know the truth... Y y shud She be the reason or carrier of truth of his life... That isn't her problem to deal with... She shudnt leave him at Pinky's mercy if she really lives him... Let Pinky tell him the truth... So we'll... Annika shud do everything for him... Even protect him from his mother when he denies seeing every truth she tried to show him before... He Knows she is thinking of leaving coz she has been recording him... Touching him as if touching him for last time... If he doesn't understand what's happening even after all this then when will he... If he is in love he wud hv known what's happening.. He wud hv tried finding out... What he doesn't when pinky insults Annika... He tells Annika mom kuch bhi bol deti hain but unke Mann mein kuch nahi hota... Really Agar kuch nahi hota toh baar baar hurt kyon kare? Jo baar baar kare woh janbujhkar kare... N If purposely kare toh there has to be some reason... Also y shud annika bear it all... Just Coz she is Shivaay's mother? Did Shivaay even bother asking what Jhanvi n pinky were fighting about during kul gotra puja? No he didn't coz pinky yelled louder n created drama... So Jhanvi's voice was trampled... He nvr once thot may b pinky did something wrong...

All in all... Shivaay As per me hasn't reached there yet as a husband... He has got Annika too easily... He doesn't deserve her yet... Yes he took a bullet for her... So did she... She acknowledges she lives him... He yet doesn't do that to himself as well... Just after talking to daadi he thot he was in love... But it's more the teenage butterfly love... Not deep enuf to leave it for for its own good...

See the conviction OMRu had that there is something bothering Annika... Ru Knows annika loves them. And hence cud take her hand n keep on his head and ask for kasam...shivaay sees her lost n in tears... Asks her... Knows she isnt giving real answer... But beyond that let's it be... Doesnt dig it... If he was convinced she was in trouble or was disturbed... He too cud hv given kasam and asked her... But no he won't as he isn't yet there...



This post is far too longer than I anticipated... Will talk about Annika in next one




Wooh... woooh... take a breath girl!!! That's Shivaay for us with his flaws.. It takes years normal person to become a husband for his wife in the whole sense, this is Shivaay Singh Oberoi for us, it will take some more time than the normal. Beside, it has just been 6 months since their marriage. Give the man a little space ... Not that I'm supporting him. But that's how men evolve slowly from being a son, brother to husband, then balancing all the relations...

Originally posted by: vivacious_gurl

Now coming to Annika the Mahan lady... As some may call her... But to me she is a lady in love who believes love isn't for her and that all those who she loves r destined to leave her...

Annika has had a rather rough childhood filled with loneliness and pain... Humiliation of being called najayaz... Pain of being called orphan at every opportunity... Reminded That she was the unwanted child by nature and hence was in orphanage left to lead a lonely life... Got sahil n his family as her family.. Only to lose them and be insulted by sahil's Bua all the time... The only one who gave her love was sahil... Then the Oberois came... She got respect and love from. Jhanvi, dadi, Om, ru... She felt at peace... After numerous insults and force marriage she got a caring husband... Care and concern she carved from since childhood... She got that in her husband... She fell in love... She is in love but doesn't yet trust relationships to no leave her... She believes Shivaay isn't yet at stage where she is his no 1 and it is true... She isnt his no 1... If She was sure no matter what he wud chose her... She cud hv told pinky u can tell Shivaay all and then. Lose him forever but as she knows she isn't his no1... She is planning to run away... Or leave him before he makes her deeper in love with him. Before breaking her totally... Coz as per her she will always b his no 3... 1 Being OMRu... 2 Being oberoi family... 3 Being her... His So called family...
Annika knows love doesn't stay in her life... Khushiyaan aane se pehele dukhon ka pahad tutta hai uspe...hamesha... And uski life ki yehi sachhai hai... So she is running... Running away before the pahad breaks on her... Is she right? She is being selfish to protect her someppl will say that... Well yes... U shud think about ur self before u think bout others atleast sometimes... But here too she is thinking how it will break Shivaay's existence... She wants to prolong revelations of some thing that will shatter him... She doesn't want to be a reason for him knowing it... She shudnt b the one for the blame again... She shudnt be blamed for separating a son from his mother...


Yes, agree, she is insecure. It's not insecure of the relationship, but insecure that may be she is not made for relationships, thats y she is running away. I wish she had let him go to see if the love is truly hers or not. But no, here clearly, she is running away from her love, just trampling her love while running away... I wonder till where and till when she will keep on running. Thats why she is making sure that love doesnt follow her!!!!

Edited by abhilashasharma - 8 years ago
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