Originally posted by: annikaa
that is what i have forgiven...
yes its something that may hurt i wont forget...but i forgive..
willl explain in detail tom...going off..😆
The coin has sides.
The rainbow has uncountable colours..
Then is Human just mono-chromatically defined??
Of cousre not.
Every damn being on earth has many colours which in general are classified into two blocks-The Good & The Bad.
So when u accept a person ...u have to accept the whole...u can't say..no this part I do not want ..I want excess of this.!
Its all by the angel u see..!
From where I observe...
The leg placing scene..!
His family repu...you know it all...jab baat uski family, uske naam, uski respect ki hoti hain...toh he takes things the way he can get what he wants!
Besides he was vulnerable about his relation with Anika a few mins before where he says to himself he can do it..!
He was in hurt...his opinion that he had formed about her, going against his NKK buniyaad was proved wrong apparently..!
Okay..done he was ready to face it all his way..prepared a deal with third party...Everything in place...it was all a deal for him...all by the head..!
She ends up popping up her nose in his business...and boy...he doesnt like anyone messing around with his deals his business his ways!
And when he sees everything going out of hand...Panic strikes his poor weak heart...He cant take rejection...! What will the media say..!
Everything his life encircled around was on stake...
What does one do...When everything your life is made up of is at stake??
Attack?
No matter how vulnerable you are you attack...!
Trust me when one is in crisis the brain dysfunctions, its all wrong... mis-matched nerve signals jolting and creating HAVOC...
N that comes out as anger...a form of yourself that you yourself might not be aware of!
That you yourself might be scared of!
But there is no escape...you arent under your own control...you are at mercy of situation!
There you go ...you commit a mistake!
And my friend if you keep that HAVOC inside...if you can that is...then you are in for body aliments..!
Example-Heart Attack!
So its all a part of life..!
I m not justifying his action..just trying to figure the cause.!
And yes I was angry..hated him for it...
but as I said
His good side neutralized the bad one..!
His good deed neutralized the bad one!
Simple.
But i would also say...the guilt will remain in his heart and the nightmarish memory in hers!
Thats life...we cant erase certain things they will be there,
But we can learn we can forgive to make peace with present
Also Aren't memories Of Past teacher for future?
And yes, Let going things, forgiving others isn't being coward or being easy being vulnerable being gullible.
Its an art and not all succeed at it!
See Its how I view the scene.
P.S
I swear all this doesnt happen this romantically in real life.
Its tormenting in real life.😡
If the marriage scene happened out of the blue in my life...I would have killed him in self-defense!
Aise saath khoon maaf karwa leti apne!😆
I m sry for the lamba chauda post..😛
Edited by annikaa - 8 years ago