I Have Forgiven Shivaay Singh Oberoi..! - Page 4

i forgive him and so will she.. she just needs him alive

Annikaa love ❤️ - reposting from another post and I may be wrong but here is my take on it
and believe me this is me taking Shivvay's side - not Annika's ..lol

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But now will she forgive the one who gave up his life for her?
Will she?
Yes she will ... but the question here is 'should she without him actually addressing it and asking for it'? "Can she truly move ahead and look to the future without her past following them like a dark shadow?"

I know ... I know ... he took a bullet for her, he loves her more than life itself, she is his Jaan and he will protect her no matter what, he trusts her more than he trusts himself, she is the goddess who is on the pedestal right now and who can do no wrong!
That is all good and healthy for the relationship and for the marriage as they move into the future but what about the ghosts "Shivvay and Annika' from the past who still haunt this relationship that is blooming? They spew venom in the nectar that is forming in this newly formed love and turn it to poison every time they do

YOU CANNOT BUILD A HAPPY FUTURE IF YOU ARE HAUNTED BY THE GHOSTS OF THE PAST

There was a time when he did not love her.. when he did not even respect her ... when he thought she was sub human and meant nothing... when what happened to her after the one day wedding was of no consequence whatsoever as long as she fulfilled her part in his plan ... when he threw her on the bed and intimidated her.. when he physically, mentally and emotionally hurt her ... when he trampled on her pride and her self-respect like it was worth the dirt from the streets that she came from ...
When he forgot that this Annika,he was breaking and treading on like she was of no significance, was the same Annika who had risked her life, self-respect and her pride multiple times to save the very thing he was putting her through the humiliation for - HIS FAMILY AND HIS REPUTATION

Shivvay and Annika need to lay those ghosts to rest and give them a farewell so that they do not haunt their future. They need to revisit and heal the raw wounds that are still festering and that emerge everytime he says or does things to open them up again. He needs to give Annika the balm that will sooth that pain and heal it once and for all.

Shivvay needs to ask forgiveness for all that he has done on the most important day of their life - their wedding day, so that he is true to all the vows he took when he walked around that sacred fire with her. He needs to list them and check off all the actions so that if one is missed she can let him know. This act will ensure that in the future it is NEVER thrown back in his face that it was left unresolved.
He needs to seek Redemption before she even asks for it.

I guess the point I am trying to make here is that it needs to be a relationship of equals. Right now Annika is superior to Shivvay in the fact that she is selfless and is forgiving him even though he has not asked for forgiveness. That matter of the forced marriage between them has not been addressed so it will always be an unresolved issue of how she was wronged by Shivvay. For it to be a relationship of equals - so that Shivvay does not feel like she will always hold that against him - he needs to confront his wrongs and admit them before he asks for forgiveness. Otherwise it will always be thrown in his face when they have fights or arguments in the future.
I will forgive him once he does that - for his own good 😊

fully agree 😭 poor shivaay baby took the bullet for his love

He was forgiven by me the way he realised how bad he was with sahil.. used him for his own selfish motive and sahil beat him up was a bliss for me...today what he done shows his love for anika is too deep. so yes I have forgiven him for everything he has done.

I forgiven him already...

Originally posted by: LyssaPie

i forgive him and so will she.. she just needs him alive

Baaki Hisab she can do it herself with tadi later ehehe

Originally posted by: asya34

Annikaa love ❤️ - reposting from another post and I may be wrong but here is my take on it
and believe me this is me taking Shivvay's side - not Annika's ..lol

Repost
But now will she forgive the one who gave up his life for her?
Will she?
Yes she will ... but the question here is 'should she without him actually addressing it and asking for it'? "Can she truly move ahead and look to the future without her past following them like a dark shadow?"

I know ... I know ... he took a bullet for her, he loves her more than life itself, she is his Jaan and he will protect her no matter what, he trusts her more than he trusts himself, she is the goddess who is on the pedestal right now and who can do no wrong!
That is all good and healthy for the relationship and for the marriage as they move into the future but what about the ghosts "Shivvay and Annika' from the past who still haunt this relationship that is blooming? They spew venom in the nectar that is forming in this newly formed love and turn it to poison every time they do

YOU CANNOT BUILD A HAPPY FUTURE IF YOU ARE HAUNTED BY THE GHOSTS OF THE PAST

There was a time when he did not love her.. when he did not even respect her ... when he thought she was sub human and meant nothing... when what happened to her after the one day wedding was of no consequence whatsoever as long as she fulfilled her part in his plan ... when he threw her on the bed and intimidated her.. when he physically, mentally and emotionally hurt her ... when he trampled on her pride and her self-respect like it was worth the dirt from the streets that she came from ...
When he forgot that this Annika,he was breaking and treading on like she was of no significance, was the same Annika who had risked her life, self-respect and her pride multiple times to save the very thing he was putting her through the humiliation for - HIS FAMILY AND HIS REPUTATION

Shivvay and Annika need to lay those ghosts to rest and give them a farewell so that they do not haunt their future. They need to revisit and heal the raw wounds that are still festering and that emerge everytime he says or does things to open them up again. He needs to give Annika the balm that will sooth that pain and heal it once and for all.

Shivvay needs to ask forgiveness for all that he has done on the most important day of their life - their wedding day, so that he is true to all the vows he took when he walked around that sacred fire with her. He needs to list them and check off all the actions so that if one is missed she can let him know. This act will ensure that in the future it is NEVER thrown back in his face that it was left unresolved.
He needs to seek Redemption before she even asks for it.

I guess the point I am trying to make here is that it needs to be a relationship of equals. Right now Annika is superior to Shivvay in the fact that she is selfless and is forgiving him even though he has not asked for forgiveness. That matter of the forced marriage between them has not been addressed so it will always be an unresolved issue of how she was wronged by Shivvay. For it to be a relationship of equals - so that Shivvay does not feel like she will always hold that against him - he needs to confront his wrongs and admit them before he asks for forgiveness. Otherwise it will always be thrown in his face when they have fights or arguments in the future.
I will forgive him once he does that - for his own good 😊

Originally posted by: xsumi

fully agree 😭 poor shivaay baby took the bullet for his love

i have forgiven him and im sure annika has totally forgiven him

cant see shivika in pain 😭😭

get well soon shivaay ❤️

Originally posted by: TeriGalliyan

He was forgiven by me the way he realised how bad he was with sahil.. used him for his own selfish motive and sahil beat him up was a bliss for me...today what he done shows his love for anika is too deep. so yes I have forgiven him for everything he has done.