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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dadi Is. The most irritating person she was never good with her daughter in laws firstly what if tia was a hood girl and loves sso how she treated tia just because she likes Anika so. And anika ki bhi self respect taken away due to her I camt tolerate her for 2 min also and her horrible expressions making her eyes big she is just insane I also hated her when she always talks about ishqbaazi and all firstly do sometjing of your son oldlady due to him janvi is suffering and what she is doing ranting about ishqbaazi all the time and their is no takkar on shivika relationship and also not in rudra relationship irritating lady
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Old mad lady she is . ..i think it is her who has the most pride when it comes to khandaan. ..humara khandaan ma divorce nahi hota...such a hypocrite she is ...telling her bahus to do all the sacrifice for the so called parivar sindoor khandaan whatever. ..as much as i hate tej i agreed when he said that just cas something didn't happen before should not happen ever... janvi diserves a better life and even tej even though he is not saint diserves a new start. ..not all lovestory are forever...they may have loved eachother in past and make still care for eachother deep down but things change sometimes love is not enough we just need to let it go instead of dragging a burden. ..
Pinky is hatelove when it comes to janvi taj i love her its like u go women. ..but when it comes to shivika and tia she is maha irritating. And dum ..i don't know how can a same character make me love and hate her at the same time. ..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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There is 50% chance dat RuMYa will soon decide to divorce each other which many of us wants but dis Dadi will somehow get to know of their marriage n force them not to divorce cuz no divorce happened in their family. Why dis oldie forcing her 40s or 50s era beliefs on others when times have changed?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I have not watched the episode. But I started to dislike Dadi after she trivialised the way Shivaay married Annika and didn't even give him a slap when Annika told her she was forced to marry him. She started to preach about Sindoor and Mangalsutra etc without even thinking if what she is saying is fair to someone who got blackmailed into marriage. I didn't see her show enough anger on her grandson.

Also, what if Tia really WAS kidnapped and Shivaay really loved her? Then what? She will force Shivika to stay married even if neither want to stay married? Where does she get her ideas? Her idea of Takkar Ki Ishqbaazi is the woman just continuing to maintain tradition and living in the house even if she is unhappy and her husband doesn't love or accept her. (How Shivika was) or husband is cheating her (Jhanvi and Tej).

That Sanki old woman needs to be sent on a long Pilgrimage and not seen for 6 months, till everything gets resolved. I really don't want her telling RUMYA her MS and Sindoor and Saat Phere rant as well! Had enough of it!
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Luna46

. Just because she was in a happy relationship, she thinks that she can force all the couples to stay together in the name of sindoor and mangalsutra.

@bold- its a daily soap...even her sautan can appear one fine morning😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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This oldie was too annoying yesterday. She don't have guts to tell Tej to throw Svetlana out but she can only give lectures on marriage. She is d main reason for dysfunctional family. She 1st ruined Jahnvi n Pinky's life n now she is hell bent on ruining Anika's life too. Why she always has to interfere in others matter? Pinky said nothing wrong abt divorce. She may have fought n hated Jahnvi but she truly cares for her. She understood dat she may come 4m poor family but Jahnvi is more miserable than her even coming 4m rich family. I hate Dadi's chalk on a blackboard irritating tone n her stupid lectures. Just cuz she had happy marriage doesn't means everyone will be happy wid their marriage. These women r so filthy who take advantage of their old age to control others.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#17
Well she comes from a different generation..
Now its a different generation..

Her teaching might seem right..
But may not necessarily hold true..

The thing is that even of she says things for the right.. with a reason that seems baseless to our generation.. Thats
The Generation Gap..!

We must not forget the generation before ours has far more experience than ours though not necessarily the conclusions drawn from their experience always fit the frame in our situation.

But you see life is all about.. Striking the right chord between the generations..
Cause the old is as much required as the new.

My point of view 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
#18
@Juhi:

I dont like the way Kalyani Dadi uses her age to control people. That is what she did during ShiVika forced wedding. She continued to push for them to stay together, and even forced Annika into Shivaay's room, knowing full well he forced her to get married. Worse still, she continued to expect her to do rituals even when Shivaay flatley refused to accept her as his wife.

With Jhanvi she has always been unfair. Never stood for her when she wanted to return to work after kids. She just let her be forced to stay home because that is what TEJ wanted. Between Tej and Dadi they ruined Jhanvi's life. When it comes to Pinky too, Dadi always tells her to understand, be quiet etc. She never understood how Pinky felt left out and how Pinky felt like she preferred Jhanvi. She never even reprimanded her son for not taking Pinky to any work functions and cutting her out. Never stopped Tej from cheating on Jhanvi with Svetlana. She should have threatened to cut him out of the business. I am sure she still has more shares than everyone else. A woman as controlling as her would make sure she did.

While her intentions are good, I dont think even SHE realises what a control freak she really is. She uses her age and rank to supress others and tell them what to do, which is what I dont like.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#19
Agreee.. 11000 %

She was such a sweet character who shared an adorable bonding with her grandchildren... Now they have reduced her thinking to be way too much backward...

In the name of keeping family together, she wants her DILs to just swallow up all the insults and humiliation thrown at them...

Pinky was so right ... They already have three children... Forget marriage, has Tej ever thought how it wud affect their upbringing and how it has affected !!

Pinky proposed them to get divorced, Dadi pretended near heart attack as if that is the first time she has heard of that word...

Pinky asked her to exercise control on her son... She became like, No we should not do zor zabarzasti... 🤣

I mean ... Just say it na that u will support ur son and not utter a word to them... Moreover, wud always want women to be submissive to them... Why paint the misogynist thinking with family bonding lectures... 😆
Edited by FantasticLife - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#20
@annikaa - While I agree that the Generation Gap is responsible for some divergence in thinking, it doesn't justify Dadi's behaviour wholly. She has been positioned as the matriarch of this elite family who holds an exalted place in society. She has been shown to have a special bond with her grandchildren and they respect her immensely. And it isn't mere deference. That wouldn't happen without her having a certain degree of empathy with them. Without them feeling she understands them.

She has her daughters in law obey her unreservedly. She has her sons respect her. Had she wanted to, she could have made sure that Svetlana was dealt with much much earlier. As Pinky correctly pointed out, how can it be okay to have your son's mistress living in your house along with your daughter in law and children? She has allowed it to reach a point where her son will walk out if she insists upon him choosing between wife and mistress. And it is that fear that keeps her away from confrontation.
She harps on about the sanctity of marriage without paying heed to the importance of self respect. A joint family system will only thrive when the rules laid down are fair for all. And are equally applied to all. When you have positioned yourself as the family head, you have to think beyond your own ideas of what is right and wrong.

To a large extent, it is the fault of the CVs because they aren't clear in their characterisation. If you think of what the character was initially and what she is now, you can see the confusion writ large. They showed this evolved matriarch in touch with today's generation, and now suddenly she has stepped into a time machine!

Just my thoughts :)

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