Why Dadi is not sympathesizing wid Tia who was kidnapped? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Roseymi

I would say Dadi is desperately tring to cover Shivaay from what he did to Annika...

from her pov ..if it is so...then Tia was kidnapped fine ,...but what Shivaay did to Annika is way more than that...riight now she is indebted to Annika...coz that girl is mum and did the marriage...which on the other way could have completley destroyed not only Shivaay but Oberois...

its like she is taking the responsiblity of what happened to Annika and trying to mend it.

If Annnika had a father won't he demand the same from Shivaay..to accept her and the marriage...

Just my opinion..need not be right...

Originally posted by: angel_juhi04

If Anika had a father then I don't think he will want his daughter to stay married to a man who only tortured her n threatened to kill his son. Which father will want his daughter to stay wid her abuser unless d father is greedy n evil?

Originally posted by: yellomellow

Good point. She is extremely selfish. I missed the earlier episodes, but judging from her behavior I don't think she is too fond of Tia😆In her defense, no one seemed to be feeling bad for her at all during her little speech about being a victim. The amount judgment and lack of compassion she was getting would have been sad if we didn't know she was bad lol.

I don't think she was telling Anika to sleep with him. I think it was supposed to be her taking her "right" back for her and giving her the acknowledgement she thinks she deserves. It would have had more impact if Anika actually wanted this,but she doesn't. It was childish, but it was obvious she was upset her grandson didn't acknowledge her so she just returned the favor. Tit for tat. Is it Tia's fault? No but she doesn't care. She was trying to make point that it isn't her place (at least now) and she was technically right, but she completely ignored the fact Anika didn't want this "right" either. If she was really on Anika's side then she wouldn't be there at all.

It would have made more sense if everyone behaved like an adult and discussed what actually happened (and more importantly how to resolve this mess), but then we wouldn't have any drama.

Originally posted by: Roseymi

I would say Dadi is desperately tring to cover Shivaay from what he did to Annika...

from her pov ..if it is so...then Tia was kidnapped fine ,...but what Shivaay did to Annika is way more than that...riight now she is indebted to Annika...coz that girl is mum and did the marriage...which on the other way could have completley destroyed not only Shivaay but Oberois...

its like she is taking the responsiblity of what happened to Annika and trying to mend it.

If Annnika had a father won't he demand the same from Shivaay..to accept her and the marriage...

Just my opinion..need not be right...

Originally posted by: Roseymi

Dear...yes..ofcourse but if her father had raised a question on this what would have been the Oberois reply? would they give him money / which he won't accept then what can the Oberois do so as to keep him quiet?..

no genuine and loving father would accpet this marriage but he won't sit quiet either. there would be a reaction.unless Annika herself takes responsiblity and shows courage ...a father would go to any extent to make the Oberois pay for this deed..which here unfortunately the girl is not doing...

So incase this happend what would the senior Oberois do?. Dadi would instantly assure that he rgrandson will honour the marriage...won't she ? now what the father would in return do is another point...

Here Dadi is exactly doing the same. according to her thoughts she is trying to rectify what her idiot grandson did.

this is just my opinion ..don't know what the real DADI onscreen is thinking.

Originally posted by: poemssyndrome

See I get your point. But I just feel that she should ask Anika what she wants. She is trying to patch up Shivaay's mistake bcoz she is thankful towards Anika & feels guilty for what she did. But her guilt wasn't justified. Shivaay deserves a tight slap to justify that guilt. But She is being selfish in the fact that she never asked what Anika wants. Maybe All Anika wants is to go home curve into a blanket & eat 16 tubs of vanilla ice cream instead of sleeping on the edge of Shivaay's pool & see him get naughty naughty with Tia.

Originally posted by: asya34

<font color="#0000CC">just to add my two cents here if you don't mind...
Dadi was fine with Tia till 2 things happened that were completely Tia's doing with no external help or pressure, that weakened her position in the Oberoi Family -
1. I think Dadi was quite disappointed that Tia walked up when Shivvay announced her as his wife without even a pause, hesitation or a look of guilt before she took her place next to him. In fact as Rudy pointed out she floats like the legit daughter-in-law of the mansion and has airs like a princess. It looks to the family like her position as Shivvay's wife has already gone to her head. That may have left a bad taste to start with.
And even if we agree, for arguments sake, that he put her on the spot by announcing her to the media, the whole unnecessary speech she gave after she stated how happy she was and the indirect remarks about Annika, was compleytely not required. If she was smart she would have kept the 'bit**ness" with Annika private. She is getting to confident and comfortable about her plan.
By making that part of the speech she made just made the whole situation worse for her. Dadi is after all older and has seen more of the world. I am sure that the hidden meaning in Tia's speech was perfectly clear to all the family, especially Dadi
2. Why in the world would you go to the man's room and try to seduce him when you already know what majority of the family thinks of the marriage situation right now. You got your position as wife declared to the world and stick with that plan. She should have been wining Dadi's confidence by keeping her views and opinions in mind to put up a show of being good and understanding. The bedroom scene put the final nail in her coffin. I do not think Dadi took that very well...lol
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Originally posted by: asya34

just to add my two cents here if you don't mind...
Dadi was fine with Tia till 2 things happened that were completely Tia's doing with no external help or pressure, that weakened her position in the Oberoi Family -
1. I think Dadi was quite disappointed that Tia walked up when Shivvay announced her as his wife without even a pause, hesitation or a look of guilt before she took her place next to him. In fact as Rudy pointed out she floats like the legit daughter-in-law of the mansion and has airs like a princess. It looks to the family like her position as Shivvay's wife has already gone to her head. That may have left a bad taste to start with.
And even if we agree, for arguments sake, that he put her on the spot by announcing her to the media, the whole unnecessary speech she gave after she stated how happy she was and the indirect remarks about Annika, was compleytely not required. If she was smart she would have kept the 'bit**ness" with Annika private. She is getting to confident and comfortable about her plan.
By making that part of the speech she made just made the whole situation worse for her. Dadi is after all older and has seen more of the world. I am sure that the hidden meaning in Tia's speech was perfectly clear to all the family, especially Dadi
2. Why in the world would you go to the man's room and try to seduce him when you already know what majority of the family thinks of the marriage situation right now. You got your position as wife declared to the world and stick with that plan. She should have been wining Dadi's confidence by keeping her views and opinions in mind to put up a show of being good and understanding. The bedroom scene put the final nail in her coffin. I do not think Dadi took that very well...lol

Originally posted by: poemssyndrome

Exactly she is being selfish in the fact that she is thinking what she wants. Not what Anika wants. Nobody is actually thinking what Anika wants. Not even Anika I think! But we can give it to her. She is in a bad place right now.