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Posted: 8 years ago

I am really disappointed with the sbs segments . So dadi will ask Anika and Shivay to live together. I would have supported her had she slapped Shivay first. Anika has clearly told her that he abused and blackmailed her to get married. Yet she orders them to live together. Worse she tell them that they can get divorced but as long as they are married, they should live together. In attempt to provide a partner to her grandson isn't she risking the future of Anika? Who will marry a girl who lived with Shivay ? Or any other man? This was the lady who lectured on women empowerment sometime back !!!

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Samira

@mishti4maan

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Posted: 8 years ago

i know... it's just horrible what they are showing. After hearing about this, she should have said that he is no longer her grandson. People with high class status resort to such animalistic behaviour???

Edited by mishti4maan - 8 years ago

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Mandy

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Posted: 8 years ago

Woman empowerment was just a "Track". That track is over now! Whatever Dadi said then was just to make the track more impactful!

Raat Gayi Baat Gayi! 😆

Dadi is just there to make sure the Maha Milan happens. That is her role and she is fulfilling it. She is not going to say anything to her Gem of a grandson. She only said all that stuff about women in their family being given respect, coz the dialogue writer thought that stuff would sound good coming from her at the time. But now, they think some other stuff would sound better!

#Double standards are the new equalizer

#Hypocirsy is the new Hope!

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Krantikari

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Posted: 8 years ago

We would have all liked it if Dadi slapped him too but...I don't think she has done anything wrong by asking Annika to come back and live in her husband's house. She didn't 'order' them at all. She only asked of them what is normal, husband and wife living together. She has given them the freedom to live apart when/if their divorce is complete.

LOL, it's funny how you show your displeasure at the portrayal of women empowerment or lack thereof and in the same bone you say who will marry Annika after Shivaay. 😆 This is not the medieval ages that no one will marry a divorcee. 😆

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shailu

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Posted: 8 years ago

Dadi is not supporting shivay she is saying to stay together till the proceeding of divorce is done till then shivika are married couple she even try to tell both that destiny brought them and when shivay about to remove manglsutra she holds his hand.
She is supporting Anika not shivay seeing seg we can't assume that she is supporting sso .
Usually elders try to mend there relationships but main thing couple decide to stay in the relationship.
Dadi is just counseling them women empowerment topic has no meaning in such shows

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deejagi

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Posted: 8 years ago

The fact is simple, daadi always liked Shivaye & Anika together and when that has happened why will she slap her pota? If not out of love, he has married Anika out of hatred or anger, but they are married now and to get a divorce, they have to live for 6 months. its not done as per shivaye's wish that he can divorce the next day. dadi will play the same trump card "The family honor" and ask them to stay together as long as they live married. So she hopes to have the things sorted out among the 2 in the mean time and by the end of 6 months, they might forget their differences and decide to share their life forever.

She knows they both love each other but are too stubborn to realize their feelings and accept it. She is now trying to ease out their feelings.

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Maleka

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Posted: 8 years ago

totally agree, she should have slapped her grandson for being so horrible with anika, that was disgusting I hope if not dadi OmRu teach Shivaay a good lesson for hurting their bhabi, OmRu are shivika fan they must take a step.

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: YoonHiChala

We would have all liked it if Dadi slapped him too but...I don't think she has done anything wrong by asking Annika to come back and live in her husband's house. She didn't 'order' them at all. She only asked of them what is normal, husband and wife living together. She has given them the freedom to live apart when/if their divorce is complete.

LOL, it's funny how you show your displeasure at the portrayal of women empowerment or lack thereof and in the same bone you say who will marry Annika after Shivaay. 😆 This is not the medieval ages that no one will marry a divorcee. 😆

Well, I disagree with the part of living like normal husband and wife. The way they got married is not normal. By asking Anika to come and live in OM, she is giving another chance to Shivay to abuse her. She should have at least questioned him on how he behaved with her.

Marriage after divorce part... true. We live in a much matured world where divorce is not a taboo as it used to be once. But if Anika does not go to OM, there is a chance of claiming the marriage void. Why get tagged as somebody's wife when you did not get into the wedlock willingly and want to get a divorce anyway. Why give Shivay more chances to abuse Anika? Divorce is an unfortunate event. But when Anika/dadi knows that the destination of the relationship is divorce, why live the marriage till the divorce. BTW as an empowered women, Anika will stand strong despite the divorce. Yet, we still live in society where a divorce is only a 'second option'. While the degree of embracing women equality is higher compared to the past, there is still a lot of inequality, which we cannot ignore. Even today, a majority of society is critical about divorced women.

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TR19

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Posted: 8 years ago

Exactly dadi's first job was to slap her Billu.only for threatening to kill a kid was beyond limit...instead of asking anika to come back to OM dadi should knock some sense into her billu's dead brain...agar dadi ne ishqbaazi ke elava manners shika te toh behtar hota.