Dadi ? Oh please - Page 2

Originally posted by: Bsangama

Dadi is not supporting shivay she is saying to stay together till the proceeding of divorce is done till then shivika are married couple she even try to tell both that destiny brought them and when shivay about to remove manglsutra she holds his hand.
She is supporting Anika not shivay seeing seg we can't assume that she is supporting sso .
Usually elders try to mend there relationships but main thing couple decide to stay in the relationship.
Dadi is just counseling them women empowerment topic has no meaning in such shows

Originally posted by: deejagi

The fact is simple, daadi always liked Shivaye & Anika together and when that has happened why will she slap her pota? If not out of love, he has married Anika out of hatred or anger, but they are married now and to get a divorce, they have to live for 6 months. its not done as per shivaye's wish that he can divorce the next day. dadi will play the same trump card "The family honor" and ask them to stay together as long as they live married. So she hopes to have the things sorted out among the 2 in the mean time and by the end of 6 months, they might forget their differences and decide to share their life forever.

She knows they both love each other but are too stubborn to realize their feelings and accept it. She is now trying to ease out their feelings.

Originally posted by: Bsangama

Dadi is not supporting shivay she is saying to stay together till the proceeding of divorce is done till then shivika are married couple she even try to tell both that destiny brought them and when shivay about to remove manglsutra she holds his hand.
She is supporting Anika not shivay seeing seg we can't assume that she is supporting sso .
Usually elders try to mend there relationships but main thing couple decide to stay in the relationship.
Dadi is just counseling them women empowerment topic has no meaning in such shows

Originally posted by: Guesswhat

Dadi's expectation of Shivay and Anika giving a chance to their marriage of fine... but ignoring the abuse is what disappointing me.

At this juncture, she can not pour ghee to the already flaring fire right? She needs to douse that with her tactics. She needs to act cupid and coolant and not combusting material. She can do the slapping or scolding later by taunting his behavior by saying that was not what she taught him etc and make him apologize as well as realize his mistake. But at this moment she wants her bahu to be at home. She can't allow someone to tarnish her bahu's image in public for staying away at maika even after marriage.

Originally posted by: Guesswhat

Well, I disagree with the part of living like normal husband and wife. The way they got married is not normal. By asking Anika to come and live in OM, she is giving another chance to Shivay to abuse her. She should have at least questioned him on how he behaved with her.

Marriage after divorce part... true. We live in a much matured world where divorce is not a taboo as it used to be once. But if Anika does not go to OM, there is a chance of claiming the marriage void. Why get tagged as somebody's wife when you did not get into the wedlock willingly and want to get a divorce anyway. Why give Shivay more chances to abuse Anika? Divorce is an unfortunate event. But when Anika/dadi knows that the destination of the relationship is divorce, why live the marriage till the divorce. BTW as an empowered women, Anika will stand strong despite the divorce. Yet, we still live in society where a divorce is only a 'second option'. While the degree of embracing women equality is higher compared to the past, there is still a lot of inequality, which we cannot ignore. Even today, a majority of society is critical about divorced women.

What I meant by normal husband and wife is that Annika living in her husband's house, as it happens usually when a couple get married. The wife usually lives under the same roof as her husband. I know that their marriage did not happen under normal circumstances and same way I don't really think that they are gonna 'live' like a normal married couple in the usual sense...like getting intimate and all. We all know that.

Shivaay can abuse her by coming to her home too, she need not live with him to experience his abuse. So there's that. As for not reprimanding him for his behaviour, segments don't usually show the full scene so maybe we should wait for the episode to air before reaching conclusions.

None of the them know what the destination of the marriage is. Not Shivaay, Annika or Dadi. That's why Dadi is asking for Annika to come back to let them figure out their options. Annika herself is an old school girl so for her at least, the destination of her marriage with Shivaay is certainly not divorce. No matter how much she wants it. For her, marriage is a lifelong commitment.

If a woman is truly empowered, she would not care what society thinks of her and her character as long as she can look at herself in the mirror and is satisfied with herself. As long as she stands her ground, it does not matter what society thinks or whether society embraces her or not. If society doesn't embrace her, it's not her loss.

There is nothing normal about this situation. He should have been slapped for his behaviour. His dadi might have got the result she wanted but that doesn't mean Anika needs to suffer.. His brothers should give him a very strong telling down for his behaviour.

I know that it's a fiction but if in real then such girl who is forced into marriage can refuse to register it and when there's no valid marriage registration form then from where does the divorce pop up at all.

Originally posted by: --Amulya--

I know that it's a fiction but if in real then such girl who is forced into marriage can refuse to register it and when there's no valid marriage registration form then from where does the divorce pop up at all.