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Originally posted by: vivacious_gurl
Res... Geetu detailed observations from my side will come later... As for Om's analysis... Bang on..he is idealistic coz he thinks being that will differentiate him from his dad... But it is actually making him exactly like his father... Inflexible...
As for Tia... She did bring on an intruder inside Oberoi mansion earlier n put the blame on Annika... So for that part I wud say she isn't innocent... But yes for a GF she has immense patience.. N hasn't really harmed anyone atleast yet..
Wow, nice. I had made the exact same post but they didn't let me post it because I had posted too many posts for a newbie
But basically I agree with you. All 3 obros are a product of their dysfunctional family unit.
Both shivaay and om have a mask on them. Shivaay learnt that money,
Class, certain way of speaking and dressing etc is what is respected -
Tej's dominance and his moms lack of fitting into the kind of society' that the rich have built for themselves means shivaay modelled himself more on tej than his own dad or mom. He tries to pretend to be cold, calculative and ruthless because he thinks that's what will get him the respect that his dad didn't get. But he is inherently emotional and caring and an ishqbaaz despite his frequent denials of love as a feeling. He puts on a stubborn act but he can go against his beliefs or atleast listen to people that he loves
Omkara on the other hand is shown to be an emotional sensitive person. But he has wrapped himself in the coat of idealism because he wants to be so desperately different from his dad who he hates and accuses of being ruthless, selfish and self absorbed. His creative outlet that lends him the superficial sensitivity his way of escaping reality. And in that sense his idealism is completely naive. He can't see through people despite pro loaning to be perceptive of their feelings. Because he views them through black or white and only sees what he wants to see. He can't see through riddhimas humanitarian act and he can't look beyond ishanas con act to truly understand the motives of the 2 girls. Ishana was absolutely right that it is very easy to spew idealism sitting in a Cosy environment. He always ran from his problems, wrapped his anger under the cloak of creativity and idealism. And he could afford to do that because he didn't want for anything. He was always provided for and taken care of by tej and shivaay. I think In as much as he was justified in being angry with Ishana for cheating or lying, his anger or intensity of it does not seem consistent with his proclaimed sensitivity. He claimed to connect to her through pain that he saw in her eyes. He is perceptive or supposed to be about people's hidden or true emotions. Despite that he loses his shit when he finds out ishana lied. He loses all sensitivity and emotions because his ideals are not met. He actually gets as ruthless and insensitive as tej when any body does not match or agree to his ideals. And he accuses tej of hurting jhanvi and being selfish and self centred. But for most parts he is like that. He escaped through Drugs and art and didn't necessarily emotionally support his mom or younger bro. He isn't emotionally available to his girl friend either (it's a different story that she is phoney and fake) but she atleast seems to want to be available for him.
Rudr is the most protected. He is encouraged to not think too much and hence he always seems to stay at the surface level and hence his superficiality with girls. He has always had everything handed to him, he has been loved and pampered. So he really doesn't think too much and just goes with the flow. But he is actually more capable of balancing emotions and judgements compared to the 2 older brothers.
All 3 girls will help the brothers see thier truE self for what it is and on the process make them all more balanced individuals.
I love shivika but that journey is now almost nearing completion . Am really waiting for iskara
Track now to see how ishana shows the mirror to Om. He will be a lot harder to 'correct' than shivaay imo đ
Originally posted by: vivacious_gurl
No geetu I think otherwise... Tia isnt being used... She also has been a planner... She never gets angry on Shivaay for anything... Gives him all the space... Nvr forces him to decide wedding date... All coz she doesn't wanna be on wrong side of Shivaay... She wants him to marry her... Whatever be her motive but the motive will be effective only if he marries Tia and hence Tia has been extremely patient... She deffo isn't innocent thought she hasn't done anything till now..