I think he didn't got the actual love from his parents properly because in one previous episode he clearly told Omkara that " her mother loves money more than him " ...We all know that his equation with his mother n father is not very good in fact with all like Omkara n rudra equation with their parents in not so well ...n being the eldest Bro n child he has seen so many problems n faces it alone with his grandmother ...For rudra n Omkara I can say that ...shivaay was there to protect them but for him he was alone ...so I think he doesn't want to see his child also like that. ...
He wants to give all love care n affection which he didn't got when he was small ...as he think that only a housewife can provide this love to their child ...so I think this can be the reason for shivaay that is why he is like this n his thinking is like this ..
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