My final thoughts on the ZaBeer.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hi guys, I don't think I can follow this show anymore lol. I've literally lost all interest. Thought I could stick around because I love Adnan and Eisha's chemistry but I have lost respect for both of their characters, especially Kabeer's.

First of all, the Zara now is just a caricature of what she used to be. Her sense of self-respect has gone for a complete toss, she has no backbone and she is a complete and utter andhi. As a woman myself, I don't have the heart to watch a woman suffer through watch she is suffering through, even on a fictional 'show'.

As for Kabeer, well I've made my stance on him clear several times and I will stick to it. Everyone's entitled to their opinion but I continue to believe they HAVE done a 180 with his character. Rejecting your wife's help makes you spineless, but taking the help of your ex-fiance doesn't? And farz lol?! What farz?! So sleeping with your wife is farz, but being genuinely nice/respectful towards her is not your farz, Kabeer? The way he so callously cheapened the act with his words the morning after, I'm sorry, no amount of defending him is going to make it ok. I'm not here to give people bhashan on what is right and wrong, but that was beyond disgusting and something the earlier Kabeer DEFINITELY would not have done. And today I heard he says Hamdan is a lucky guy? Lmao imagine actually landing up with a husband like this guy. Imagine being a woman, hearing your husband say this about his ex-fiance's future husband, while you are too busy trying to save him from said ex-fiance's psycho ass. I would walk out asap. Wish Zara would too but we know that's not happening.

Too much has happened/been said/done for me to just be like 'oh he'll grovel so much in future and she won't forgive him easily' I'm not sticking around for the possibility of that. We're not sure it'll play out exactly like that and you know what? I say even that is not enough. What he has done these past few weeks, for me, is unforgivable. It's not about just being 'patient' anymore, personally I just won't be able to forget this behavior of his, even if Zara will. I guess I'm too old now to ship couples onscreen just cause they have chemistry and a good story ahead, I have a hard time forgetting unforgivable things like this in the past. *shrugs* So that's that I guess.

Sorry for ranting. Will be back to reply later if there are responses :) Even the sarcastic 'ok bye have a nice life' ones 😆

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hello Nandini,

I picked up your name from the posts below! First of all let me say a big a$$ thank you for making this post. I am only reading written updates lately after the Kashmir track. And now I don't even think I can stomach reading them. I felt I was the only person who cringed at Kabeer when he said the night is over!!!! He was never this disrespectful before Kashmir trip. The guy oozed class and had some dignity.

Here are my 3 versions of Kabeer.

Kabir 1.0 the guy that was crude but respectful towards woman before getting married and used to put his thoughts across eloquently. He fought with Zara before as well but never like this.

Kabir 2.0 The Kashmir track. Was that all a farce? The way he cried for Zara and the way he hugged her? Were has that man gone? You don't just change overnight. Hence I was always wary of Kabeer 2.0. He doesn't exist in my opinion. They should have never shown this side of him to us if they were going back to him being a robot with hardly any feelings.

Kabir 3.0 never existed before the past few weeks. The guy is going wild and the final nail in the coffin for me was the entire morning fiasco and the way he told Hamdan that he is lucky. Clearly he think that Ruksar is a very good wife material. He walks around throwing his weight around. He has become a self righteous arrogant Qazi. Where has his humility and manners gone?

If he thinks Ruksar is wife material then I think they should get married. He should consider this as a strong possibility because clearly Zara is nothing compared to her.

Don't get me started on Zara. The woman has lost it. Where has the spunky Zara gone? The woman is just walking around not even being too upset about what Kabeer said the night before. All she has become is a dutiful wife who wants to protect her shauhar. She should protect him but not losing her own identity.

I wanted to shake her out of her bubble and bring her back to reality but clearly it's not going to happen anytime soon. Its grating on my nerves to even read about both Kabeer and Zara that never existed in the beginning.
Edited by -Fedex- - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Awww nandini.
Again were in the same boat..😭

I didn't watch today's episode after I read the update.

I might just wait for their dance at the summer camp then if nothing improves- bye bye😭

P.s I know it won't make much of a difference but just wanna say don' leave 😭 I will miss you and your awesome posts too much😭
Edited by aqua.m7 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I skipped many epis and finally watched at a strech :

I saw different views , definitely not hurting anyones views or pointing anyone's post in particular ( tbh i dont even remember who wrote what lol ) anyway here's how i see it & going to be very straightforward :
First equating Zabeer relationship with reality.
Sorry I cannot agree with this , i dont believe in fantasy but i have seen innumerable couples out there in real , they arent loveless or doing their farz. If reality is so harsh then I dont think people would have got married in the first place , just for physical needs people can go for prostitutes instead.
Next , i agree their consummation can be realistic , but there how can kabeer behave like a robot ? They consummated because they were attracted to each other ?where was it ? wasnt it robotic ?

Not hurting any religious sentiments , but is a "NO" too hard to say ?You are having marital problems , you dont want to fullfill your wives physical needs at this point dont you have the right o say "NO " for once ? Or is it just valid for women , isnt it sexist ?

Okay you cant say No , fine ! So dosent his usools teach him that his farz includes treating his wife well , be it physically or emotionally. Where did his emotions go when he abused ZARA ?
Isnt it a sin to treat your wife like trash , humiliating her , abusing her ?

Now coming to kabeers behavior towards Ruksar ,by now we all got the answer that why he was ready to marry Ruksar but not Zara.
He wanted that sort of wife for himself ,fine !
Now you are married , you could have said "NO" during the wedding but you didnt , so why you are eyeing on ruksar now ? You missed your chance , you love her you could have married her , why Zara ?

I really wish either Zara leaves kabeer or Kabeer leaves zara , a separation track is much needed.And i amwith you on this I am not watching this show anymore and especially out of this Zabeer shipping for the same reason.

( Sorry If i hurt anyone's sentiments but just had to vent out my frustration )



Edited by smol-bean - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Even i agree... I watching news and suddenly in the ad break i saw the isa morning after scene and i taught i misheard and rewatched during the zee hd 1 channel
I must admit was outraged and disgusted
Even in arranges marriages the marriage may have started off with attraction the husband is not so harsh and heartless ...shes a wife not some random women u slept with
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Thanks for the post...
I haven't watched it today and am not going to watch it... after the farz comssumation scene and the morning after... I have totally lost it.. Can't stomach this anymore.

The worse part is, Zara was hurt when he uttered the words but she didn't even dwell on it...she just went back to being the supportive wife...

This is 180 degree turn in Zara's character too.. The CVs are butchering both Zara and Kabeer.

I thing that makes me wonder is, what would happen if Zara takes assitance from one her male friends for any project or let's say even from Kabeer's friend... Imran. She goes out with Imran ...how would Kabeer feel? Now when she goes out with Imran, there is always Reema..maybe without Reema. After all Rukshar is Kabeer's childhood friend and he goes out with her...So, what is good for the goose should be good for the gander...


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hello Nandini🤗
Hope you are doing well<3
About show I have left it already and don't have any interest in it so not talking about that:/
Meeting you was a nice experience.⭐️
Hope to see you in a new forum soon:)
& Wishing you all the best for your future adventures!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hey...so ur Nandini (reminds me of Ash in Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam)
HI I am Shilpa...ppl on IF who know me calls me Shilpu.


All I wanna say is..." Come let me hug you tight"🤗
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Fedex-

Hello hello!

I need some time to write my thoughts. Will come back and respond either tonight or tomorrow morning!

Reserving 😃


Hello hello! Waiting for your thoughts :)



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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: aqua.m7

Awww nandini.

Again were in the same boat..😭

I didn't watch today's episode after I read the update.

I might just wait for their dance at the summer camp then if nothing improves- bye bye😭

P.s I know it won't make much of a difference but just wanna say don' leave 😭 I will miss you and your awesome posts too much😭


Haha nah I think you'll stick around. You seem to have more patience for Kabeer than I do. I could never forgive a man if he treated me the way K is treating Z, so that's simply why I cannot watch anymore. Some things like this just put me off a show for good.


I'll still be on IF as I watch another show but yeah, sorry man I can't take this shit anymore. Gonna leave with Kashmir memories in my mind 😆

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