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Originally posted by: smol-bean
I skipped many epis and finally watched at a strech :
I saw different views , definitely not hurting anyones views or pointing anyone's post in particular ( tbh i dont even remember who wrote what lol ) anyway here's how i see it & going to be very straightforward :First equating Zabeer relationship with reality.Sorry I cannot agree with this , i dont believe in fantasy but i have seen innumerable couples out there in real , they arent loveless or doing their farz. If reality is so harsh then I dont think people would have got married in the first place , just for physical needs people can go for prostitutes instead. I get what you mean but I haven't seen the world so I feel like there is a chance there are relationships like this. But I can't imagine one where a husband agrees to sleep with wife for duty/cause she has rights on him, but doesn't think it's his duty to treat her with respect? That's unbelievable for me!Next , i agree their consummation can be realistic , but there how can kabeer behave like a robot ? They consummated because they were attracted to each other ?where was it ? wasnt it robotic ? Yeah now this I have a problem with too. If they wanted to show him robotic and unfeeling should have stayed CONSISTENT with this. He was very obviously attracted to her in the first few weeks and now it's like the attraction just 'switched off'? And sorry, I don't buy the whole 'he's just busy' drivel people are dishing out. That makes no sense and just cause a man gets busy doesn't mean he forgets how to be nice/respectful. 🥱Not hurting any religious sentiments , but is a "NO" too hard to say ?You are having marital problems , you dont want to fullfill your wives physical needs at this point dont you have the right o say "NO " for once ? Or is it just valid for women , isnt it sexist ? No idea, but you're not hurting anyone's sentiments. I think it is a valid question and we can't pick and choose what can/cannot be criticized. I just can't get over the fact that Kabeer would put more emphasis on THIS farz than the farz where you also keep your wife genuinely happy. He's doing a shit job on THAT farz!Okay you cant say No , fine ! So dosent his usools teach him that his farz includes treating his wife well , be it physically or emotionally. Where did his emotions go when he abused ZARA ?Isnt it a sin to treat your wife like trash , humiliating her , abusing her ? EXACTLY!Now coming to kabeers behavior towards Ruksar ,by now we all got the answer that why he was ready to marry Ruksar but not Zara.He wanted that sort of wife for himself ,fine !Now you are married , you could have said "NO" during the wedding but you didnt , so why you are eyeing on ruksar now ? You missed your chance , you love her you could have married her , why Zara ? You know what I might come back to the show if Kabeer-Rukhsar get married. She has worked hard to get him and he likes her, so why the hell not?! 😆I really wish either Zara leaves kabeer or Kabeer leaves zara , a separation track is much needed.And i amwith you on this I am not watching this show anymore and especially out of this Zabeer shipping for the same reason. How I wish Z gives K a divorce but we all know the opposite is more likely to happen 🤢 Same, I cannot 'ship' them again every after this, no matter how man dance or dream or lovey dovey sequences they show. I'll never forget this.( Sorry If i hurt anyone's sentiments but just had to vent out my frustration )
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