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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bollyfan44

Zara to Kabeer talaq talaq talaq. Where the hell is Zara's self respect? Leave Kabeer high and dry to hang himself with his main attraction Ruksaar, maybe only then will he realize he had a good hearted woman with liberal opinions. He is abusive. Zara is losing herself by remaining with him. His mindset, his behavior, his idea of a wife, his controlling attitude is regressive, chauvinistic, and misogynistic at best.

He does not deserve to be a Qazi, a husband, or even a thought. I do not think he even likes Zara or even finds her attractive, I feel the whole Kashmir incident was an act for his father. He does not want to look bad or irresponsible in his father's eyes. I feel he was willing to make it work as friends and the worry set in because of his father, but Ruksaar is the type of woman he is attracted to.


Then, Adnan has chosen a character who is primmed to fail...If a Qazi is a this kind of person, may Allah save the community...It's like being in Afganistan during the war...I was this documentary a few years ago...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I felt disgusted hearing such words from kabeer.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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You should have stopped watching it .. You should definitely stop watching if you believe something is unforgivable. I know i would have .
This is television, its suppose to give u entertainment and some food for thought .. not a headache and furtherer tension .. I hope u find a show that you can love .. God bless ! 😃
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ghissapitta



Hello hello! Waiting for your thoughts :)





I have unres! have a read 😊
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnjuRish

Hey nandini

Hey even i am in ypntkh forum
I just had a baby a year back so 10pm to 11.30pm1is like my me time after j goes to sleep. I watch tv when i prep for the next day.. Like make dosa batter, cut veggies and stuff
Isa is too close to reality... When i worked in a ngo some time back i saw all types of stuff and i would be right ifii say it made the cynical me more so... Atleast i watchwtv since i want to escape reality


YPNTKH is a lovely show! Hope to see you around in that forum :) That's true, I don't deny this can be the reality of many women in the world, as sad as that may be. But you're right we watch TV for entertainment. And personally, I also watch a show expecting some sort of consistency in characters. I've lost connection with ISA in both regards so I guess that's all from me lol.


Originally posted by: jennifer

I felt disgusted hearing such words from kabeer.


Me too buddy! :|

Originally posted by: JazzyM


Then, Adnan has chosen a character who is primmed to fail...If a Qazi is a this kind of person, may Allah save the community...It's like being in Afganistan during the war...I was this documentary a few years ago...


Haha lmao true that! And it's funny cause with the way Kabeer's acting so arrogant etc...like what has he even DONE to obtain this position? NOTHING! 😕 And like he didn't already know his father got him married to Zara to get him this position? What a dumbass man 🥱

Originally posted by: Bollyfan44

Zara to Kabeer talaq talaq talaq. Where the hell is Zara's self respect? Leave Kabeer high and dry to hang himself with his main attraction Ruksaar, maybe only then will he realize he had a good hearted woman with liberal opinions. He is abusive. Zara is losing herself by remaining with him. His mindset, his behavior, his idea of a wife, his controlling attitude is regressive, chauvinistic, and misogynistic at best.

He does not deserve to be a Qazi, a husband, or even a thought. I do not think he even likes Zara or even finds her attractive, I feel the whole Kashmir incident was an act for his father. He does not want to look bad or irresponsible in his father's eyes. I feel he was willing to make it work as friends and the worry set in because of his father, but Ruksaar is the type of woman he is attracted to.


Well I heard today she at least knows he doesn't feel anything for her but a sense of duty. So that's a good start. Wish she would back off and let him fail and fall so he can learn a lesson but nooo the FLs always have to go around saving the ML who is being a shithead to her, and deal with the vamp who is after her husband. Same old crap in every single show, pity I thought it'd be different this time around. 😆

You are absolutely spot on re: Kabeer! I have nothing more to add! Hope he marries Rukhsar and frees Zara 😆

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Fedex-

Hello Nandini,

I picked up your name from the posts below! First of all let me say a big a$$ thank you for making this post. I am only reading written updates lately after the Kashmir track. And now I don't even think I can stomach reading them. I felt I was the only person who cringed at Kabeer when he said the night is over!!!! He was never this disrespectful before Kashmir trip. The guy oozed class and had some dignity. Big ass thanks for taking the time to reply :D I know what you mean, even I had been reading WUs but made the very silly mistake of watching the last couple of episodes. Needless to say, lesson learnt! Nope you weren't the only one. I agree most people, especially on twitter, seem to think his behavior is somewhat warranted and Zara will 'change' him. Whatever. I'm sick of that shit. He's not a decent human being in my eyes anymore, let alone a decent husband. End of 🥱

Here are my 3 versions of Kabeer.

Kabir 1.0 the guy that was crude but respectful towards woman before getting married and used to put his thoughts across eloquently. He fought with Zara before as well but never like this.

Kabir 2.0 The Kashmir track. Was that all a farce? The way he cried for Zara and the way he hugged her? Were has that man gone? You don't just change overnight. Hence I was always wary of Kabeer 2.0. He doesn't exist in my opinion. They should have never shown this side of him to us if they were going back to him being a robot with hardly any feelings.

Kabir 3.0 never existed before the past few weeks. The guy is going wild and the final nail in the coffin for me was the entire morning fiasco and the way he told Hamdan that he is lucky. Clearly he think that Ruksar is a very good wife material. He walks around throwing his weight around. He has become a self righteous arrogant Qazi. Where has his humility and manners gone?

The Kashmir wala Kabeer just seems to be a like distant dream. I can't even remember that Kabeer anymore lol. Kabeer 1.0 was the version they should've stuck with. Somewhere I feel they made him too lovey dovey in Kashmir then suddenly wanted to back-track cause they thought everything was happening too soon so regressed his character majorly. THAT is what has put me off the most! It was a mistake on their part but the makers have said they've fleshed out the story for a year's worth of the show and no amount of TRP decreases will make them waver.

And about him being a Qazi. It irks me because he has done literally NOTHING to deserve it lmao. N O T H I N G! And isn't it just hilarious how this man knew all along his dad got him married to Zara so he could get the position, but it pricked him when Rukhsar pointed it out to him like he didn't already have a f**king clue?! Come on, man. The level of idiocy and hypocrisy his character has showed recently is truly fascinating 😆

If he thinks Ruksar is wife material then I think they should get married. He should consider this as a strong possibility because clearly Zara is nothing compared to her.

Don't get me started on Zara. The woman has lost it. Where has the spunky Zara gone? The woman is just walking around not even being too upset about what Kabeer said the night before. All she has become is a dutiful wife who wants to protect her shauhar. She should protect him but not losing her own identity.

I wanted to shake her out of her bubble and bring her back to reality but clearly it's not going to happen anytime soon. Its grating on my nerves to even read about both Kabeer and Zara that never existed in the beginning.

I completely agree with you! Rukhsar will keep him happy too. She is a manipulative bitch and will say and do the exact things she knows will please him. Zara is completely wasted on a man like Kabeer. The earlier Zara had 100 times more potential than any version of Kabeer. I wish she would let him fall flat on his face so he can learn a lesson than trying to shield him or baby him from some 'harsh realities' as everyone likes to say around here lol. Let him learn the hard way. Tired of FLs saving heroes when they don't deserve it and also playing 'mera pati mera pati' with the female vamps 🥱


Hey! Sorry I don't know your name. But I love your DP! Fed's a God! My replies in blue :)



Edited by ghissapitta - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ghissapitta


Hey! Sorry I don't know your name. But I love your DP!Fed's a God!My replies in <font color="#0000ff">blue </font>:)






I am Gurneet, call me G 😃

I see your in YPNTK forum? My friends Chicksoup and Infofan are regulars on that forum and want me to watch that show. I haven't had a chance yet. Maybe I need to give it a try cause clearly Zabeer aren't cutting it 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Fedex-



I am Gurneet, call me G 😃

I see your in YPNTK forum? My friends Chicksoup and Infofan are regulars on that forum and want me to watch that show. I haven't had a chance yet. Maybe I need to give it a try cause clearly Zabeer aren't cutting it 😆


Hi Gurneet! Such a pretty name :)


Yup omg that show rocks. It's slow for sure, but for me personally, it's a lovely, calm show. Just what I want. Very relatable and I'm a sucker for the childhood sweethearts trope! Plus Sidhant, the ML, is like the sexiest, most likeable ML I have ever watched on hindi TV. He's not perfect by any means, but the way we get to see both his strengths and vulnerabilities...it's awesome.

I agree with your friends, definitely give YPNTKH a go! 😃
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Feminists and modern people condemn Gul shows a lot, even I was one of them but recently especially after watching this show I realised Gul tries to show these ugly sides of society and men while still making the show a bit fun trying to find the balance in order to not push away her audience, I have started appreciating her again. I think even in QH she managed to touch so many topics like polygamy, modern outlook on life by women, ML respecting females around him even if they're grey, repenting over his ill actions and many more issues, I left that show when it crossed the line and in ISA that phase came a bit too early for me. These recent episodes have left such a bad taste that I won't ever be able to rewatch the initial episodes.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Even if I accept that this is how Kabir's character is, the problem is how Zara is shown. She is putting up with Kabir in the name of love and is more concerned with that petty Rukhsar. If the point is about showing reality, then why not show some realistic strong stance taken by Zara. It would make more sense if Zara was seeking help about these issues from Ayesha, Rima and Imran instead of seeking help from them about Rukhsar. If anything, Zara has much bigger issues in the form of Kabir's views and behaviour but the show is more concerned about showing her focus on Rukhsar and Miraj.

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