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@amulya

Originally posted by: ghissapitta

Glad you're still enjoying the show! Not everyone should be super-stressers like myself 😆

Originally posted by: --Amulya--

Its like the show suddenly took a U-turn as they realised they're going with 4X speed with both leads almost in love with each other, hence they went on reverse track showing the ML is only on his "farz" mode... LOL, you said out what I couldn't, was the sex bad!! otherwise what is the reason for his sudden character change!! I call such people as double-faced.

Originally posted by: attiya1.3

I am getting what inconsistency you are saying and with ruks part even I agree.

But ruks part is kind of seeded by runs in kabir head of wife's help and spine blah blah...

For you ,its kabir character inconsistent.

For me, it's Zara...the strong, powerful and thoughtful Zara just fell in love after single moment and became pankha of kabir..

OK I get, that love can happen in sec but, I don't believe in this point.

For me , Zara became a inconsistent character, still, a gave benefit of doubt as maybe in real, people fell in love in a sec😆

All right our topic of discussion is always their sex life🤣

Ok I am off to work. If there are any more replies, I'll come back to them later! Thanks as always for your comments! Just glad to know I am not the only one baffled as to how a lead can be shown so inconsistently within the matter of a few episodes 😆

Originally posted by: eufara_naghm

All right our topic of discussion is always their sex life🤣

But Kabeer was not wrong in agreeing with Zara about THAT but the after morning was just disgusting

I mean of course in Islam you can't deny your wife from her physical needs but you've to take care of her mentally too...I mean it's in all religions I think

So what the hell (believe me I want to use THAT word but star will come) does he meant that in the night she was the wife so couldn't deny her and in the morning wife finished?!😡

And Zara's at fault too,she should give him some space in his work life .

Originally posted by: ghissapitta

Ok I am off to work. If there are any more replies, I'll come back to them later! Thanks as always for your comments! Just glad to know I am not the only one baffled as to how a lead can be shown so inconsistently within the matter of a few episodes 😆

Have a good day/night everyone! 🤗

Toh mr. Kabir ahmed yeh pyar vyar ki chakkar mein nahi padna chata shouhar hone ka jimedari nibha raha hai because only he can't be gunegar infront of Allah..he was so normal after what happen between them well zara looks like melted infront of kabir so she will let him continue with his shouhar ka farz at the same time zara will crave for his love..which kabir don't know what it is. Its so weird to see how someone change so quickly kabir who was the one respected woman how..just fullfilling his farz and zimedari.

To be honest, I don't even know where to start. After reading through the different comment/opinions, I'm still lost on where i stand. Starting off with Kabir. Ooh. This guy is mad confusing. Not in just Kashmir, but also in the first episode when Kabir and Zara meet, they are somewhat affected by each other. Then the whole issue of the triple talaq perception shows them how much they differ. In Kashmir, it is very obvious, that Kabir is affected by Zara. The breakfast scene, where Kabir feels bad about for sitting on the floor seeing Zara's upset face. And he cares about her, so he buys her something to eat. Then the whole hotel room romancing with the bedsheet and foot thing, And then right before the kidnapping scene, where Zara comes in a burka and he ask if she wore it for him? Then definitely the night scene after the kidnapping where he holds her hand and the next morning where he looks for her in bed. It all shows that he cares and feels of her. Even after coming from honeymoon, little moments like, when he sits on the table to eat with everyone, or her putting the pin on him before he is officially declared Qazi, shows she has an effect of on him. But it all suddenly changes when Ruksar hurts his ego by saying that he is Qazi only because of Zara and not for his capabilities. And he is hurt. And he refuses to let her interfere in his work. When she offers the Meher money, he is insulted, because the night before he was being vulnerable to Zara stating that he is not able to stand on his two feet because he doesn't have an income and she comes with the Meher money in front of everyone stating that he wants to help Kabir. Obviously that makes him look weak in front of his family and especially proves Ruksar's point (that whatever he has will be because of Zara and not by his own actions). Then when she doesn't stop interfering and takes matters into her own hand by going in front of sharia board to ask for help, he is again insulted. He could have and SHOULD HAVE done that himself. He takes all these feelings to heart. He is even more annoyed when Zara and Ruksar taunt each other when Hamdan comes to see Ruksar.
With all of that said, I'm not justifying Kabir's actions especially tonight's but I kind of understand where he is coming from. He is trying keep away from having feeling towards her. The more he is affected the more he wants to change meaning that people (such as Ruksar) might think that Zara controls his life.

Now for Zara. This girl needs to calm down. Like give him some space. I get she is confused of why Kabir is treating her like this( since she doesn't know about Ruksar hurting his ego) but still come on. I get that she wants to get involved and help Kabir, but he doesn't want that. And if she still wants to, try still talking to him about it. Don't go and call a sharia board meeting with members who still have a men dominating mindset, because the only person getting hurt there is Kabir. He is insulted and is looked upon as weak. He is a Qazi for god's sake. He has a reputation. But all Zara cares for is interfering and proving her point. You would think that would be the last of interfering but no. She gets all jealous about Ruksar helping Kabir. Okay it's fine she gets jealous, but there is not need for Zara to plan with Imran and Ammi to stop him from attending the meeting. She doesn't even know who the investor is. She can ask and explain him to be careful afterwards. Let him carve his own path. Like does she not trust Kabir? Does she think that Kabir is gonna fall in love with Ruksar? I feel like Zara Is clinging on to Kabir too much and it seems mad desperate. What happened today, I totally don't understand. He is still somewhat upset with her and she knows that too. But she wants to have a physical relationship with him, as is sex is just gonna fix all the problems between them. And Kabir unfortunately in a rude way (making it all about haqk and farz) lets her know that having their relationship to the next level doesn't mean that what he said and thinks before the sex has changed.

She needs to be stronger than that. She need to be less insecure. I get that she wants to make everything alright between them, but sex and romance isn't gonna fix their perception on different issues. Those issues need to be talked out.

Plus give the show some time. The whole point of it is to show how Kabir changes from his traditional thinking to a more women accepting thinking. And for that to happen, the creators need to establish where the character stands in the traditional (man dominating) level. Give it some time. I'm sure the change will start to happen soon especially since Miraj is here. And when Miraj's truth comes out, Ruksar's truth will come out too. Which will lead to change in Kabir's opinion about Zara (because I sure she will tell Kabir to be wary of Miraj and he will tell her to back off).

Sorry for the long pos.. I just had a lot to say say after reading different comments for the past couple of weeks.
Sorry again. Hope everyone understands my point of view.J